Hi Rock,
I don't know why someone wouldn't go with you. 3 to 4 hour dates with me include dinner/dancing/dessert. I think you just have to see who specializes in this type of thing. Some ladies do not like to go to formal events. I've been taken to football games, operas and been their girlfriend at an event for the night. You just have to treat whomever you take as a date. Hope you find someone in the future to enjoy this time with you. Have a great day,Mermaid Jade
I had a formal event to go to recently (with dinner and dancing afterward). As an older single gentleman, I tried to get someone to go with me and have some fun.
I could not get any of my know friends to play for pay with me.
Does anyone really escort anymore?
'rock'
Hi Rock,
I don't know why someone wouldn't go with you. 3 to 4 hour dates with me include dinner/dancing/dessert. I think you just have to see who specializes in this type of thing. Some ladies do not like to go to formal events. I've been taken to football games, operas and been their girlfriend at an event for the night. You just have to treat whomever you take as a date.
Hope you find someone in the future to enjoy this time with you.
Have a great day,
Mermaid Jade
Look for ladies with a lot of these types of dates in there reviews. Jade would be an excellent choice sexy as hell and easy to talk to. Opera in Florida. Never been.
I don't know why someone wouldn't go with you. 3 to 4 hour dates with me include dinner/dancing/dessert. I think you just have to see who specializes in this type of thing. Some ladies do not like to go to formal events. I've been taken to football games, operas and been their girlfriend at an event for the night. You just have to treat whomever you take as a date.
Hope you find someone in the future to enjoy this time with you.
Have a great day,
Mermaid Jade
Did you offer to pay their regular rate, even if there was no sex?
LLAP,
Swim
.,,,, if a gentleman seeks a social, or social/event date, my gift is the same.
Many gentlemen are under the assumption that we, as courtesans, never have the opportunity to attend events, theatre, concerts, sporting events, etc., so they think we will accompany them for free. Same with travel dates.
There are only two events, that I would participate in off the clock, and should a gentleman ever ask, he will indeed be surprised! Both events are outside the United States.
Hugs and Kisses,
Kelly
Ok. So I guess your asking for more details.
I am 58 years old. I only see young ladies for sex because we don't have any "life experiences" in common to talk about. The ladies I asked I have seen several times for multible hours and have always feed them afterward as I'm new to the area and really don't know nice places to eat.
That being said, I will NOT identify them ladies as they have steilar reviews here and been in the business for ages and are much closer to my age (and is why I was considering them) and from out of town. I was even offering a private room with bath and 'vittles, along with there regular rates.
The event was a family wedding, which maybe was scaring them but I have been single all life and they have never seen me anywhere. I ended up not going because I'm tired of attending these things alone. When I canceled, the hosts said to me they understood.
Awww! You poor thing! Maybe you just need to widen your pool of prospects. I do completely understand sticking with ladies you know well for something like this, though. But maybe you could start cultivating relationships with other ladies that you could ask to these events in the future.
One thing that may be at issue is that weddings are pretty big, diverse groups where you actually have small talk with a lot of people, and if it's being held in a lady's hometown where she has family, etc, it might be something she's unwilling to do (six degrees of separation can all be at one wedding. lol!). I would never go to such an event in Tampa, for instance, as I know too many people here, and it would be hard to explain if I ran into someone. Shows and dinner are completely different because we don't have to talk to anyone, so I don't need an excuse for being out on the town with a gentleman friend (and I often am). But I'd happily go to one (and have gone to similar events) out of town- Orlando, Sarasota and beyond- because there is a smaller chance I'll run into someone.
In these cases, it might be worth having a lady travel to you.
Good luck for your next event! You've got several lovelies here to choose from. 
No need to stay home when you could be cutting the rug with a hottie on your arm! 
It is a sad shame that you couldn't find someone to go with you...I would have loved to accompany you.
May I ask what age of ladies you seeked? Because if you are an older gent and chose a much younger
lady, maybe she was concerned she would feel out of place. I know that might seem not right, but it
is a legitimate concern.
I also do agree to seek ladies who say they really enjoy those things...longer dates, social activities,
on their sites. Remember you can't always go by reviews because more often than not the gents don't
do reviews.
I also agree that it is important to state your desires...not if you are only interested in social activities, state
such. If you are interested in maybe alittle private time...mention that. Of course, without getting
graphic.
I truly hope that your next venture you will find what you want.
To me, sounds like she missed out on a great time with a man who knows how to treat a lady.
Makenzie
There are plenty of us who enjoy and excel at longer engagements- from dinner to a night on the town, to an entire week's vacation somewhere- even cruises. You just have to look for us. Read our reviews, websites, blogs, etc. and you will get an idea of our personalities and whether or not we would be into an evening like you've described. Also, PM some of the gents who have written reviews here- they could recommend someone to you. Best of luck! 
U: I had a formal event to go to recently (with dinner and dancing afterward). As an older single gentleman, I tried to get someone to go with me and have some fun.
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Me: Sounds fun - did you contact ladies who offer packages like this?
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U: I could not get any of my know friends to play for pay with me.
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Me: Maybe you need new friends?
Seems odd you couldn't get a provider to attend. Were you negotiating or hoping for OTC time?
That could be a factor if nobody was interested
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Does anyone really escort anymore?
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What does that mean? LOL sounds grumpy
Maybe this attitude is why you had problems with a booking?
Your post was vague, can we get more info so we can assist for your future nights out?
Perhaps there wasn't enough notice or the ladies you were interested in just happened to have plans?
Whatever the reason please give us more info so we can analyze and give better input!
Namaste
GK
I'll try to answer in order.
The event was a family wedding that was over 6 weeks away. I only asked ladys I have seen for multible hours before in their mid 40's and upward. If you do the searches this age group, the pickens begin to get smaller (even smaller outside the "old people state). The family knows that I am a life long batcholar. As this is the first of the next group of great neices and nepheus (can't spell anymore and too tired to use the spell-check), the guests would be all in their 20's. The ladys have seen me before, they KNOW I can have a dry wit that doesn't translate to print well. I am also a Gulf War Vet and have "Happy Meds". We have never meet and I don't post much so I take the faults in the posting. I had started looking long before the RSVP was due and stopped when I had to mail it in.
Hello luv, from looking at your reviews, or lack there of, it's hard to get a feel for the type of lady you fancy.
Rates are also an issue, it will clearly state on the providers site what dinner date donation is required.
Florida during the summer is also a tough time as things are slow and lots of
Local ladies tour other states.
Also, usually some pre-planning is required maybe weeks or months in advance. Last minute appointments of such a duration are rarely accommodated by me, with a busy personal life I'm not one to sit and wait by the phone.
So best of luck next time, I hope this little bit helps.
Kisses
Elle Vegas
Ps. I'm always up for dinner and dancing. Too bad you didn't reach out to me. Maybe next time. Just leave yourself plenty of time to be verified.
I do events like that all the time and am paid... I mean I obviously do more than that, but you pay for the public and private time. Are you saying ALL you wanted was public time and no play time? Can't imagine anyone turning that down unless you were trying to get the rate lowered.
I'm sorry too, but I didn't even consider you for (2) reasons.
1) When I origionally saw your profile, I was old enough to be your father (lol).
2) I understand you are friends with Charity Charms who truily believes I killed her cats.
'rock'
And, no I am not 'friends' with Lacey aka Charity aka whomever she is going by these days. So funny about the cats though. I have not spoken to her since I left the "E' site then got an email out of the blue the other day. Kind of bizarre.
I was foolish enough to let her crash at my place for awhile and lead me to believe you two were GREAT friends. She moved in with 24 and OUT with 40. I heard she went back to THE school and completed her degree when she disappeared FWIW but now I'm getting off topic. I also need to do homework on you now.
'rock'
That's right. Is was Ellie that offered. I'm having senior moments occasionally.
'rock'