What do you look for in a provider?
Ads that get my attention.
Great Reviews.
Reasonable Prices.
Decent Looking. Most Hot Looking Girls give Lousy Service.
Not too far from my location. Although I will travel a bit if she has Great Reviews.
My current Provider has all of these Attributes. She keeps me pretty satisfied.
I'm an old guy who likes mature, understanding women who are willing to do the work.....Also I am a deep romantic, I love spending two hours in a super GFE.
I look for:
Delivers as promised
Ratings above about 6.0 or 7.0, (figuring I just don't want to take the chance below that)
Build (for me preference is thin/skinny, but I many times ignore this criteria). I'm not into double D's or bigger.
Price (I'm afraid this is pretty important to me). Specials catch my attention.
Prefer - Multiple Pops, Kissing DFK.
Location is unimportant within reason. I don't prefer smokers. Age is relatively unimportant.
Beyond those tangible criteria, the reviews are the most important. I am looking for remarks to find someone that is into fun and open, not too aggressive. More GFE-like. Too much PSE scares me. I look at photos but Know they are usually misleading.
Whatever I'm doing, there are really very few ladies that meet the criteria (price is the main issue, but also experienced GFE providers are usually a little too curvy for me)
Run a special or PM me Allison and I"ll be a calling!! :
I happened to look at the last three ladies you have reviews and got to the conclusion of your preference 
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Ah! Got it! I didn't realize how important specials were to people.
My thought process on specials was that it might make the provide seem cheap & like a commodity? Is that not the case?
It's almost like asking what we look for in a restaurant. Many times an old favorite where we know we'll get what we like, sometimes reviews clue us in to something new, and sometimes we're in the adventurous mood to try something brand new.
There may be times we shop a look or price range or some specific review category, but those obviously vary widely from person-to-person and situation. Sometimes we go through phases where youth, hair color, build, etc send us on a visual search, sometimes a solid chance of a great GFE experience outweigh those other things, and other times the familiarity of someone known is ideal.
Beyond that I think the bare minimum is we want to know that a girl is who she says she is and is doing this in a safe situation. Lots of tips out there already on how to do that. Reviews can give some clues as to overall experience, but they can't predict chemistry and some guys' writing style just has to be taken with a grain of salt. Seeing someone new is always somewhat of a gamble regardless of reviews, etc
That makes total sense. The safety element & the girl saying who she say she is something I hadn't even thought of.
Probably because I'm not on the receiving end of the service & haven't experienced people being dishonest or flaky. I've thankfully never had a client that wasn't who they said they were & don't know why a girl would advertise something completely different than who she was. It just seems like a bad business model. Weird.
Im in my late 40's been doing this 10 years. At first I went for younger providers. Quickly learned they are terrible. They make you feel like you should be honored being with someone so hot!!
Now I look for a little more mature. Discovered they are way more down to earth and easy to talk too. Price is important since I'm not loaded so I also look for specials. Main thing is someone who tries to please and makes you feel at ease. Body types and looks come second for me.
I'm physically attracted to different people for different reasons and it can be anywhere from larger women to petite, older to younger. But some of the things I find myself looking for:
- Friendly, patient and can carry on a decent conversation
- Multiple pops
- CIM
- High sex drive and takes pleasure in being pleasured. Or at least isn't doing a bad acting job.
- If she's into kink, uses it as a companion to sex, not a replacement for i
One more thing and this is probably the most important to me. I really like sex-positive women and empowered women. Nothing makes me lose my attraction quicker than if I think I'm participating in someone's victimization and at that point I can't go through with it. I like consent. That's typically why I seek out specific people. I tend to do my homework well beforehand.
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Wow, so glad you mentioned that!
I think that is so important and knowing that there are clients out there that not only know that that is an issue and actively try to avoid it is SUPER heartening to me.
Go you!
If she offers it in her Ad, Great. But if not then don't ask. Especially on the very first meeting. You can get Specials after seeing her at her Full Rate for a while and if you're nice to her. For a while depends. It could be a month or several months. Since I'm Trusted Regular with my Provider she gives me Awesome Discounts. She'd rather see me more often at a Discounted Rate rather than seeing me every few weeks to a month at her Full Rate.
I like this, I think this is a good business model not to mention it shows that the client is respectful enough of her time & she returns his respect with a form of appreciation.
Thumbs up
Thumbs up
Thank You Allison.
Hope more participate and answer.
Happy Hump Day friends, Carly
Physical attraction. I like shapely bottoms, lean legs and flat tummies.
Service that includes skilled and lengthy bbbj.
Reasonable prices.
Safe environment.
No drama or games.
Good attitude and desire to please.
1) Pleasant personality and fun
2) Down to earth
3) Upbeat, no drama
4) BBBJ plus GFE (CIM major plus)
5) Nice looking , well groomed.
6) Feminine
7) Rate commensurate with attributes listed above
8) Safe and inconspicuous incall.
These attributes are often found in mature women. Recent experiences tend to favor Polish women.
To try to net it out...
Someone who wants to have fun. Of course the main motivation is the donation but there is no reason we can't have fun at the same time. Love is serious... The world around us is serious. Sex is supposed to be fun. Have a sense of humor... laugh... enjoy... play...
Now the basics and personal preferences:
- For some reason I don't like fake tits. Don't care if they are small or huge, just real
- Not into stick thin. Not looking for BBW but model thin is not for me.
- Clean, fresh... doesn't look like they have just been had by 14 guys that day.
- Donation does make a difference... I'm not rich but I'm not cheap. Experience tells me high price does not necessarily
equal high value. Unfortunately, I've found very low price usually means very low value. Guess I"m a "middle of the "road
kinda guy. Ha
- Nice location... safe, clean. Can't have fun when you are nervous or surrounded by filth.
Other attributes I seek depends on the day and the mood. Brunette, Blonde, Red Head, Tall, Short, etc
I guess I didn't really "net it out" did I? Sorry to ramble
These are all great. If I was a client I would also try to look for these things, I think actually when shaping how I became a provider I tried to do the things I would want in a provider?
I guess everyone just has to find that correct person that they also mesh with, like ALL things in life; there's not one thing, there are many.
I like nice butts and boobies and older woman .... Cost is also a consideration
Pretty much in order of importance:
1. Discretion - I don't want to see Back Page ads, twitter marketing or any other social media. A nice easy to navigate website is perfect. TER and Eros are find as well.
2. Intelligence - I want to see someone that is intelligent. A quick email exchange gives me a pretty good idea of your smarts.
3. Smoking - A none starter for me is a smoker. I won't see them and will leave if they haven't been honest about it.
4. Age - 25 to 40 is the sweet spot. Any younger and I feel creepy. Over 40 and the battles of life take there toll.
5. Looks - Needless to say that is important, but not a deal breaker. Same with build.
6. Attitude - A positive one towards life in general. Glass half full type.
7. Low volume - hard to tell, but I don't want to see someone who, "racks them and stacks them."
8. Cost - I have a lot of flexibility here, but it does have to be a value for me.
Hope this helps.
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I hadn't even thought of the different marketing areas (back page city vibe etc) as indications of the type of provider they are, but it makes total sense. I have advertised on both of those before & the clientele rendered from those places was definitely something I was completely uninterested in