From a hobbyiest's point of view, this can be a very stressful 'Hobby". It's not like we can blab to our buddies about it!
Secret phones, secret lap tops, secret email accounts, secret cash/stash, Then we have to statify her screenings, Refs, etc........ all before the first hug even! That's one reasonn why repeat dates are usually so much better. Very little to do to set up an appt and both people will already have a nice comfort factor with each other.........I subscribe to Maggie McNeill's 'The Honest Courtesan'. Her post yesterday really hits home and I think all TER providers and hobbyists could benefit if they read it. It is just food for thought. Just google The Honest Courtesan, and click on it, scroll down one article. I am not good at cut and paste or adding links. Just sayin'. EOM
Link below.... 
Good article!!!!
and honestly, upsets me that we can't be straight up and direct. We have to tippy toe around with our phone
call, what we say on our websites, what we say in emails, etc.
I Hate the fact that we have to be this way...but it is the case. I do agree reviews are the way to go, but
of course, that "can" (jmho) have it's liability too.
I just wish this world were not so complicated at times and we could just have safe fun!!
Makenzie
From a hobbyiest's point of view, this can be a very stressful 'Hobby". It's not like we can blab to our buddies about it!
Secret phones, secret lap tops, secret email accounts, secret cash/stash, Then we have to statify her screenings, Refs, etc........ all before the first hug even!
That's one reasonn why repeat dates are usually so much better. Very little to do to set up an appt and both people will already have a nice comfort factor with each other.........