Aspen Edwards - My Perspective on an Amazing Encounter

Hey Everyone! Welcome back to my wonderful Wednesday blogging! Of course by the time many of you see this it will probably be Thursday so in that respect I just may toss out a throw back shot at some point… who knows!  

I have to say this week I am sooooo wickedly excited for multiple reasons that I am just jumping at stuff to post. First and foremost my site is ROCKIN’ thanks to your help and views. I just tossed out a new casting today that runs through Nov 30th so if any of you know a girl (or girls) who fit what I need just let them know to toss me a line from the casting page.  

So October, November, and December are my three MOST favorite months. Breast cancer awareness month, Halloween, fall is setting in, Thanksgiving, Christmas.. I could go on and on.  Of course the fall is also wildly busy in the world of adult media not that beach season is over which is always a plus as well. Stick around for some special photo spreads dropping of me that are way too awesome to speak about prior to them launching out live on my site.  

Onto the great stuff you guys love to read! I was debating on a topic to touch on this week when I was sent over a blog request from a great new friend. He posed this question.

“Can you give me inside scoop from the provider’s perspective when it comes to encounters with hobbyists, what would you base a review of a hobbyist on, and what makes an encounter super hot?”

What an amazing question and one I have to say I can only answer from my personal perspective. Obviously ever girl has her preference just as every hobbyist does. Some like one thing where others like another so I am basing this reply solely on my sexy thoughts. I think the best way to travel through the answer itself is to start from beginning to end of an encounter.  

Remember this … NOTHING and I mean NOTHING is hotter than confidence and intelligence. I will say that again … NOTHING is hotter than CONFIDENCE and INTELLIGENCE. That will echo through this response and it all begins with an email or call. Typically most hobbyists will reach out (to me at least) by email at first. This is definitely a polite notion. Since I stay crazy busy with everything adult kink I don’t always answer my phone for a new number. ‘Producers’ (Notice the air quotes) always try to call and snag me for casting couch debauchery so for calls I enjoy listening to a message first before calling back. Unless of course I know you’re calling me in advance. Text messages 5 minutes before hand do not constitute as advance notice by the way. LOL  If you call and I don’t answer the best thing to do is to leave me a nice message. Give me a little bit about you, when your interested in meeting, a contact preference and most important a time to call you so I don’t do something completely bad like call you during dinner with your significant other.  

If email is your initial contact preference then the things I ALWAYS look for are your name, number, a time to call, a time you would like to meet and where, some reference material (preferably your site IDs since I typically don’t pester other providers), and a little bit you. The ‘ a little bit about you’ is the most important to me. I like a good comfort level and I can typically sense such in the way you write. Now I’m no clinical psychologist but experience teaches that this line:

“I wanna meet u wen u cum 2 clt wats ur rate ?”

Will almost certainly be met with the look one gives when someone just said the stupidest thing possible at the most awkward time possible. You know the type … No Buena, No Boobies.

So we make a great connection and we set up an exciting time. I’ll focus on you coming to see me to set the scene. I don’t do the whole unlocked door thing, mentioned that one in a previous post. There’s just too many evil honeybadgers in the world and such. You knock. A confident knock (there’s that word again) and I answer.  

First impressions are lasting. And by such I don’t mean you have to show up in a three piece ensemble with tails … heck you can show up in a construction outfit and it could be the hottest thing in the world. But for heaven sakes be put together. Tuck the hammer in and keep the nail ready so-to-speak. Smell good and fear not the use of my amenities. Mi casa es su casa. I don’t mind and since I don’t offer short sessions we definitely have plenty of time for multiple innings.  

Once we are safe in our little abode feel free to take me into a great embrace. If you know me and if you’ve read my reviews you know that by the time we meet we are in no way strangers. I enjoy passion and passionate make out sessions. Be confident because I’m your girl . By that point I don’t have a care in the world. My phone is set to silent to everyone but my parents and I could care less it the world is being attacked by zombies as long as we get to have our time together and hey … at least we can go out in style!

I want you to enjoy what you love. Ya so I have tons of kink items with me and a case full of debauchery. I have ramps, wedges, and water-proof throws – oh my. I have lingerie that fills an entire hard case and makeup to pull off any style. Wine, refreshments, and best of all … me. But none of that crap matters in the long run if your not having that absolute time of your fucking life. (Yep … I cursed. Emphasis on time of your FUCKING life)  

Damn I’m bad tonight … totally getting worked up over here. But anyway fear not the kink gear. We can use it or not. Doesn’t matter. Lets just be amazing.  

So I mentioned confidence before. Confidence is great, especially when compounded on intelligence. I will be the first girl to tell you … the best way to give head is with your eyes locked in each others with eroticism and wit. How else do you make great conversation? Oh .. you thought I meant. Yeahhhh.  

So intelligence is awesome .. Lets talk and enjoy during our time. Definite cool points given there. And intelligence doesn’t have to be book smart … lets go back to my construction hotty with the hammer that’s by now pounded about 3 nails away. It doesn’t matter what your intelligent about because I’m a sponge for anything that you can make interesting. I mean … no one has discussed the life span and mating patterns of the Pink Fairy Armadillo with me yet but hey here’s hoping right!?!?

So .. we connected, we met, we MET, and now we are on the meeting part where it’s like “Soooooo … whats next?”. Well that’s up to you really. I’m game but won’t push. Not everyone has enough coffee for another cup and it would be a bad host to ask you for something not readily available. So if you’re up for another pour then please … pour away and make it a Venti ( or more). You surely will not hear my complain.. my coffee craving is typically on the max anyhow after a long day of shooting. I am addictive … so again … your warned.  

And ahhhh the goodbye … hopefully our parting will not be for long as I enjoy keeping a longstanding relationship with those I find to be engaging. Leave me with a great kiss and a lasting embrace and I shall be a happy girl until I have the urge to wand myself later thinking about our tryst. Which I tend to do.. A girl has needs. Don’t hate!

Rating wise … show up put together and on your game then a perfect shall you have my friend. Engage me in a lasting and amazing time of exciting candor and conversation and another perfect shall you have in physics.  

Lastly … this whole “Do you want to count the donation thing” … Ya. .. NO.  I said this before and I will say it again. If we meet … I know there will be no issues. That whole sneak a peek while you’re in the restroom nonsense is just not for me.  

Until the next time keep you nose down and your eyes up. Much love my friends and thank you for making this amazing!  

Your Buxom Blonde Best Friend….  

Aspe