and only 7 appts all week {and thats massage appt and gfe combined i offer body rubs and advertise elsewhere for body rubs}
For me 7 appts considering some are only for massages which means some are only 160....
I had an off week myself, dont listen to the mean comments if you dont wanna date clients thats ok to set boundaries, no one should get mad at you for that,
There are some who end up making friends this way so you cant blame em for trying you must be fun to be around or they wouldnt be trying,,,,,,,,
For me i just realized 500 for gfe I just am not gonna be able to be charging that. I tried! I lookaround and see others with high rate and feel i am just as good in bed and fun as them why cant i get these high riates too? well I tried again and it didnt fly.
Back to for me 300 is the golden amount thats the perfect rate i do well at that rate, .. I think always aim high and well if it dont work at least you tryed!
I will plan on raising them to 325 in fall in sept then grandfather all my regulars in at the 300 prior to raise, But halves are not gonna be on the menu this time round, I am using an incall apt not hotels so you cant have a revolving door, Halves would mean having twice as many visitors to make rent every month,. At 1750 plus utilities that be alotta visitors if i do halves.
I think if cancelation high they found a bigger better deal or something more inviting and at better rate, Just advice you could try what i am and try lowerin the rate a bit......
It's so frustrating when clients make an appointment with you and then cancel, or a client contacts you, you send a reply and then never hear back from the client. Some of us are just trying to pay for the hotel for the night, especially when visiting from out of state. Some clients have told me I ask for too much information. I think I have corrected that issue. What are your thoughts about this frustrating issue.
Joy
This happens all the time, it doesn't matter what business you are in. A certain amount of customers are going to flake on you. Maybe keep an average and know that you have to book X number of extra appointments to make your travel worthwhile. Same goes for un returned emails, it is just part of any business.
-- Modified on 6/14/2014 7:06:25 PM
"Shit Happens" like thechauncy it's going to happen, you just have to accept it and move on.
Screening is important to very everbody, just don't do anything that puts you in danger.
I have to say this is your 2nd or 3rd post about not making it here, maybe it's time to think about getting out of town and try someplace new. I'm sure your in it for the fun, but losing $ is not good
I had to check twice to see if I wrote this post after a few drinks
Same thing happens to me way too often
Joy
Ok I hate to be the bearer of bad news but this is the way I see it.
You first posted a few weeks ago former RSG girl in town.
Then STRANDED NEED help you posted
Then you went to Escapades
Then you had Nicole screen for you
Then you went to boston elite
Then you go indy again saying your stranded again
Ok I am sure your in need of money but WTF if I wanted to hear a 40+ old bitch about life I'd stay home listen to my wife.
I tried booking with when you first got here and I stopped because you I couldn't convince you I was legit.My job had less clearance then you require.
Then I read your web site you say I am here for time paid Dont ask me to diner or on a date blah blah..Are you fucking kidding me.Who says that to anyone.Providers get asked out all the time they say thank you I'm sorry I don't date.Don't flatter yourself nobody asking you on a date.
So please stop with all the pitty party I go to see a provide for stress relief not to listen to her problems.
Hope you work it out for yourself .
-- Modified on 6/14/2014 9:17:57 PM
And 10 years of consistently mediocre reviews, 10 years!
Joy's Profile
Rating 7.18 (Looks 6.83 / Performance 7.53)
TER ID: 101540
I never looked her up before all this drama. Looks like I didn't miss anything
Providers are also guilty of the same crime. I got really steamed once when a provider cancelled out on me at the last moment late at night, after telling me numerous times during the day that she would be there. It was way too late to find another half way decent provider at that late hour, and I got stuck with a hotel bill that I really didn't need afterall.
Joy
I have had numerous providers cancel on me, most recently on Thursday, so this subject is fresh on my mind. This time it was less than 30 minutes until our scheduled date, and I was already en route. By the way, I had already changed day and time once for this girl. Argh!
I have also cancelled dates. Occasionally real life trumps my play time. I try to give at least one day's notice so that the girl isn't stuck with a hotel bill on my behalf.
Frustrating, yes. But, as someone else pointed out, it happens all the time in business. Meetings get cancelled; most of the time regardless of how much time, effort, and anticipation you have put into it. In my business we even have an accounting code for it: "dead-deal costs."
The key, I think, is to not be a serial offender and get a reputation for canceling. Most people will understand the occasional snafu; most people will not tolerate flakes.
Over course of the week leading up to tues the 10th. Here are all appts 3 alias pm me concerning me tues through ter. One says avl tues? another says after 11 am tues. Then another contact me that morning,
Then a 10:30 via form whom canceled, An 11 am that canceled. a 2 pm ncns
a 4 pm ncns
a 1:30 pm no show.
Mind you this is over a weeks period so as one canceled i d attempt to book another in its place.
I just have to be sure to enforce they use the reservation form not pm. My form asks important questions like time date lenght location if outcall. Plus then they can check my calender first whil on the web site so we save even more time, rather than them asking for a time/date that I am not working that week.
last mon 2 cancelation. wed 2 cancelations. friday 3 cancelations.
sat one ncns.
I never in my life had this many or this much cancels and ncns. Must be the planets.
You may not wanna hear this but thats what back page is for.... When every guy cancels you do realize you can post on bp and get as many appts as your heart desires in less than 2 seconds. No back page client is ever gonna pre book they look at ads when they are money in hand ready to drive to see the lady that very minute. In event i am at hotel in a pinch me personally thats when i do bp. I never had any problems with clients off thier personally. Just my experience!
I know no one else likes that site but i think its better than sittin back and not doing anything at all,
For me if i am in a situation where i was stood up but still want to do one anyhow i just throw an ad up on bp, ...
I dont ask them to put any info they arent comfortable with on form if they dont want and am also newbie friendly, You have to be if you use bp most clients there wont ever take time to go on here, ..
so in turn they arent gonna have any references. so, thats only thing, if you arent newbie friendly you cant use bp.
Why do you complain so much. Your posts are soooooo fucking long .. STFU
Then a 10:30 via form whom canceled, An 11 am that canceled. a 2 pm ncns
a 4 pm ncns
a 1:30 pm no show.
Mind you this is over a weeks period so as one canceled i d attempt to book another in its place.
I just have to be sure to enforce they use the reservation form not pm. My form asks important questions like time date lenght location if outcall. Plus then they can check my calender first whil on the web site so we save even more time, rather than them asking for a time/date that I am not working that week.
last mon 2 cancelation. wed 2 cancelations. friday 3 cancelations.
sat one ncns.
I never in my life had this many or this much cancels and ncns. Must be the planets.
You may not wanna hear this but thats what back page is for.... When every guy cancels you do realize you can post on bp and get as many appts as your heart desires in less than 2 seconds. No back page client is ever gonna pre book they look at ads when they are money in hand ready to drive to see the lady that very minute. In event i am at hotel in a pinch me personally thats when i do bp. I never had any problems with clients off thier personally. Just my experience!
I know no one else likes that site but i think its better than sittin back and not doing anything at all,
For me if i am in a situation where i was stood up but still want to do one anyhow i just throw an ad up on bp, ...
I dont ask them to put any info they arent comfortable with on form if they dont want and am also newbie friendly, You have to be if you use bp most clients there wont ever take time to go on here, ..
so in turn they arent gonna have any references. so, thats only thing, if you arent newbie friendly you cant use bp.
I always find Angel's posts quite interesting, which presumably reflects her character.
You, on the other hand, might like to learn to enjoy reading.
and only 7 appts all week {and thats massage appt and gfe combined i offer body rubs and advertise elsewhere for body rubs}
For me 7 appts considering some are only for massages which means some are only 160....
I had an off week myself, dont listen to the mean comments if you dont wanna date clients thats ok to set boundaries, no one should get mad at you for that,
There are some who end up making friends this way so you cant blame em for trying you must be fun to be around or they wouldnt be trying,,,,,,,,
For me i just realized 500 for gfe I just am not gonna be able to be charging that. I tried! I lookaround and see others with high rate and feel i am just as good in bed and fun as them why cant i get these high riates too? well I tried again and it didnt fly.
Back to for me 300 is the golden amount thats the perfect rate i do well at that rate, .. I think always aim high and well if it dont work at least you tryed!
I will plan on raising them to 325 in fall in sept then grandfather all my regulars in at the 300 prior to raise, But halves are not gonna be on the menu this time round, I am using an incall apt not hotels so you cant have a revolving door, Halves would mean having twice as many visitors to make rent every month,. At 1750 plus utilities that be alotta visitors if i do halves.
I think if cancelation high they found a bigger better deal or something more inviting and at better rate, Just advice you could try what i am and try lowerin the rate a bit......
I've seen Joy before when she was with rsg some years ago, the only thing I can take from it was her complaining about my age that I was to young and her lack luster performance.
Angel would make a great provider if she got on her meds and didn't complain so much as well. Also Angel I've tried to book with you on a few occasions only for you to go on about some non sense about the polish mafia and partying all night.
Joy
i am glad i scared you off, you seem like a pessimistic negative asshole,
Ignore user button is there for reason so utilize this feature, Or you like wise are also simply being a complainer your own dam self,
If you dislike complaining then dont also become what you say you hate.
take a deep breath and learn to enjoy life it aint so bad, There are upsides and down sides to this job and communicating our trouble in scheduling is not a bad thing, Communicating is actually positive and healthy as is shpowing emotion, Good bad and happy all emotion are valid.
Your free to see whom you choose but judging from how terrible you review you obviuosly too broke to see the caliber your imagining is up to par , Every woman fat old ugle miserable, No woman should ever be a 5 to me all women are godde3sses and sacred and life comes form us, To call any gal a 5, your obviuosly mean spirited and hate women, You dont even have fun at your appts apparently with those shitty scores.
I am glad i am powerful enough to ward off the dick heads that cant take a strong woman with a back bone like myself that knows how to assert herself.
good luck and cheer up its not that bad, LIFE is good, Complaining and explaing a situation are two seperate things, You my friend are complaining here this is a topic on scheduling and how to make it better , You have no place in this thread aside fro nagative rambl;e which is well, No one really goes on here to hear that, Shoulda just moved on to a thread you find interesting and chime in there, Your negativity on this thread is pretty random and just irreelevnt
I go see a provider for fun and get my rocks off.Angel has had the longest posts out here and seems a bit flighty.
Why the fuck would you providers cum out here and cry like we are your therapist.
Providers are subject to more bullshit then I would be willing to handle but I didn't choose this line of work so change your job or change your attitude.
That is so annoying, words cannot express enough! I have so many messages that I replied to but they have not replied back and then I reach out KNOWING that I already did and STILL NO REPLY lol has anyone came across that client that goes through the whole screening process call and tell you they're on their way and NEVER show up?. I've learned to get used to it though, but that just doesn't change the fact that it's aggravating. I try to value my time as well as friends time.