When I schedule a date, I look forward to spending time with her. Thus far, I have not had anything come up that made me regret scheduling the day's date. Hopefully, it won't happen, but who knows?
Say you have an appointment but remembering that the day brings on challenges that can affect your mood will you still take the date and the money though you are not up to par. Ladies let us know Gents which do you prefer postpone the date until your favorite girl is ready for You or let the little head with some brains take over. Now life throws unexpected curve balls throughout the day so does Quality no matter who you are or just fuck a snake if you can hold it lol my answer you make choices and if you choose not to make a choice you still made one. My personality is this am I going to be a shadow on someone or a ray of sunshine? I choose sunshine... What say you?
When I schedule a date, I look forward to spending time with her. Thus far, I have not had anything come up that made me regret scheduling the day's date. Hopefully, it won't happen, but who knows?
There are some days that it can happen. As for past experience stuff comes up on both ends that can be a downer. I prefer not to take money as I am sensitive to my friend's needs and schedule another day. I love honesty on both sides and I thinks it makes for both better providers and hobbyists. Communication is Key!!! The best thing we have as a gift is sexuality for both male and female. Money is hard to come by so choose wisely. With my special sensitivity I affect electronics so if I am having a hell of a day think of the vibe I am passing to human lol. I just choose not to take any one's money as it is a special moment for me and my gent. I love the honesty and That is what makes our world better! Keep it cummin!!!!
but which is the lessor of the two evils, canceling on a client, or giving him a subpar performance?
I agree that canceling is the wisest choice, and most fair to all parties concerned. Unless you are a chronic canceler.(and that goes for the guys too) I am sure most guys will understand that you are merely looking out for both of your interests, and should be more forgiving than if you give them a lousy session because your dog died, you're sick, just had a huge fight with your RL BF, or any one of a thousand other things that life throws at us occasionally.
and did you notice? Not even one zinger zinger in my entire post.
but I will make up for it with at least a couple in my next reply to you, can't let you guys think I am going soft, or getting mellow with age. lol
... so called it off. Our plans weren't set in stone (if plans are set in stone I have a harder time pulling out) so I let my gent friend know my day wasn't shaping up properly and could we possibly meet another evening? I knew there was a 50/50 chance it may not work another night but my odometer was reading "E"– what could I do? I feel like if I had forced myself out of the house that night I would have been (in essence) taking someone's hard earned paycheck and I've never been the type to do that. #NotCool
Good for you!!! Like I said there is money but there is quality and good Karma. I choose to be the sunshine and so do you. You did right now the economy sucks but you know what ? in the end we do what is right!!!! That is what makes us so special. We honor our profession and our friendsThat is what needs to be addressed!!! Good for you my beauty!!
This is what we are all about. In the face of a crappy economy we stand to our principles and will Not take your money no matter how we feel. This is the lovelies that grace the TER board the good the bad and the ugly. Our reviews reflect that and our oneness in being the best prevails. Any lady who feels the same jump on board we love you all. Any gent who values the hobby and will look for nothing less than the best post your OPI here. We love what we do and it shows transparency is always the best judge!!!
My dates are few and far in between, that I'm so geared up with excitement and anticipation and feel blessed for an upcoming date, I'm surely not in bad mood.. I also leave my town for dates and stay in nicer hotels. the change of scenery and fun time with the date does me a world of good! If a date had to cancel for her not being up to 100% in the game, I'd appreciate the honesty as it would ruin the fun time for us both esp since I like the long duration dates.
Great thread. For many of us it is all about the sexy, fun interaction and not just the "action". If you weren't in the mood would not be fun for either of us.
I think if either side was feeling crappy you should have the decency to re-schedule, especially if either one has to travel a gazillion miles to get there.
This should be all about having fun.............. because if its that good you wont to go back for more. If it tastes good feels good then by jolly it does you good
I would MUCH rather have someone reschedule than to meet and have a substandard time.
I regret to this day not being able to read the signs that the fun times would not be up to her standards. Had I suggested that we reschedule, I am sure she would have been grateful.
Each date is so special, that I would prefer to reschedule when life interferes, or if the gas tank simply reads "E."
That said, it would be nice if the lady offered a little something--like the opportunity to meet for a one short drink afterwards, or just hang around for a few extra minutes and chat, or offer a shower together before one of us heads off into the night.
I never cancel a date regarding a mood UNLESS like last year my only brother (sibling) passed away ...cancelled 2 weeks worth of appts in advance. I was a wreck and cancelled all my other trip destinations after Chicago. Didn't play for 6 weeks (longest I've ever gone without some nookie lol). When I got back to FL saw my ATF's who have known me for 7 years and they wanted to see me despite my current grief. I tried to tell them that maybe we could wait a bit longer but because they know me so well and my inner personality they insisted to see me . God Bless them and they got the best of me because I was so horny LOL. They made me laugh and got me back into my normal bubbly JoJo personality. Talking about it made me feel better. Other than that I don't cancel ...just reschedule (if possible) only if I am sick or Aunt Flo visits on the wrong day! LMAO Every day is a good day if we are alive and well! Hugs SexyJoJo
good positive energy from my friends, so no matter what mood I'm in it gets better when I am with someone. I'm also able to adopt whatever mind frame I need to be in the moment with someone, so it is never an issue. I don't tend to talk about negative things in general, and certainly not my personal life (which fortunately is incredibly positive). And I'm fine with someone canceling for their own peace of mind if they have personal challenges, as long as I have some notice and they understand my cancellation policy.
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Say you have an appointment but remembering that the day brings on challenges that can affect your mood will you still take the date and the money though you are not up to par. Ladies let us know Gents which do you prefer postpone the date until your favorite girl is ready for You or let the little head with some brains take over. Now life throws unexpected curve balls throughout the day so does Quality no matter who you are or just fuck a snake if you can hold it lol my answer you make choices and if you choose not to make a choice you still made one. My personality is this am I going to be a shadow on someone or a ray of sunshine? I choose sunshine... What say you?
Good point on talking about 'negative things in general'.
From a guy's point of view, we really do not want to hear about a lady's ex, her former job, her finances, her kids bad grades and on and on.
Let's keep it 'upbeat' and positive! This is somewhat of a 'fantasy' to come and spend time with you ladies and we need your help on your side of that 'fantasy'.......
"hobby" (I just don't like the word for this), I have had only one experience where I wish the provider would have cancelled the date.
This situation happened about 10 years ago. I had seen the lady once already so she should have known I would re-schedule. A cool December evening, she shows up at my hotel with the sniffles. She claimed it was allergies and that she was fine with the evening we had planned. Afterwards, while she is getting dressed she opens her purse to put away the envelope and pulls out a box of some type of cold preventative medication, "Air Dose" or something similar. Less than a week later I'm on a plane and my sinuses are killing me. In hindsight, I should have given her cab fare and sent her on her way. She has since left the biz.
Dear Kid- I appreciate your post and would like to add, if either party is not feeling well, suspect you may have a cold/flu etc. PLEASE RESCHEDULE your appt. It's no fun to recieve the 'gift that keeps giving', and could potentially put you out for a week or more. If Im not 110% I have no problem being honest and sharing with my friend that we will have to postpone and reschedule. Fortunately it's only happened a handful of times over the years. Doing self care, staying healthy,and resting are all part of bringing your A GAME!
Since we all fluctuate in moods to some degree, I am sure we have all shown up in not the best state physically or mentally. Usually when I show up physically and mentally at sub par I convey that to the lady. Most are understanding, some wonder why, some make a sincere effort to make your day better, and some just want what they are there for. I will say in almost all cases I have left in a better state than when I arrived thanks to the attention given by the lady.
There are days I know that entering a meeting would be very unwise for me. Be it lack of desire, sexsprain, or some other distraction - if I can't give my partner my energy and focus, I feel cancelling / rescheduling is better than us leaving with the memory of a terrible meeting. We're supposed to be there for fun. If he posts a review about it, your one bad day could last a lot longer.
I take commitments very seriously...I would never cancel unless I was ill or had some catastrophe to deal with. I have found time and again, that while I might be a little down in the dumps at first, as soon as the action starts my mood and energy soars! There is no better medicine for a bad mood then sex...it perks me right up, and makes me forget all my troubles.
If you are not up to par it is best to reschedule. I have learned that we get reviews and as on person said it they can last forever!! My experience was a last minute call not in stone but had a notorious time waster actually have me go out rush and poof he got spooked and off he went. That pissed me off. Any excuse to waste my time and I could not possibly just get over it as this back and forth was going on for a year! Things happen and we are the fantasy. I advertise that it is all about the gent so anything less is a lie. The other person called right after and I told him it was best to start over the next week he agreed. I also honored the rate he saw as my way of saying hey thanks! Tough situations have to be set aside and if both parties are not able then the best thing is to postpone. Just makes things better for all!
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