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Very common occurrence- from a Providers point of View
Tori Of Atlanta 3521 reads
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Especially when the gentleman is meeting me for the first time. When I am informed of such a situation, I usually try to determine if you indeed just want to indulge and let me enjoy you right off the bat......(*or as I commonly say: get the best of you, out of the way so you can relax and enjoy the rest of our time together*)

You might be amazed at how much is still awaiting you after that first cup is out of the way! It wouldn't surprise me if you get into a sync and realize within a few months just what a blessing that can be :)

I always try to encourage hobbyists to share such details with their Provider.... after all if you can't tell your provider who can you tell !!

Happy Hobbying -know your provider (*and her reputation*)......  kisses ~Tori

svlvardhan3558 reads

I have the problem of premature ejacuation.
I want to meet an escort, but the last time i did it, it was so embrassing.
I cummed during the BJ itself.
Please help me.

Also, if i need another session, can i ask her to do so ?

First off - try not to be embarassed by something you can't control.  

Second - find yourself a well-reviewed GFE-type of provider and share this information with her at the start of your session.  Such a provider will work with you and make you feel good regardless of the problem.  And she'll likely appreciate you telling her in the event she doesn't prefer or allow CIM.

After a couple of years in this Hobby, it seems clear to me that providers experience all sorts of things from their clients.  From issues with hygeine to issues with manners or respect.  I'm going to guess that seeing someone who might pull the trigger earlier than he would like would not be high on a provider list of 'bad things that could happen in an appointment'.

I'm not sure what you mean by 'if you need another session' - but if you mean 'can i go for seconds if I blow too early' that depends on the provider.  Many allow multiple cups - just depends who you're with.

So - find someone well-reviewed who makes you comfortable, talk with her about the issue when you get to the appointment and try not to feel embarassed.

good luck,

PV

Tori Of Atlanta3522 reads

Especially when the gentleman is meeting me for the first time. When I am informed of such a situation, I usually try to determine if you indeed just want to indulge and let me enjoy you right off the bat......(*or as I commonly say: get the best of you, out of the way so you can relax and enjoy the rest of our time together*)

You might be amazed at how much is still awaiting you after that first cup is out of the way! It wouldn't surprise me if you get into a sync and realize within a few months just what a blessing that can be :)

I always try to encourage hobbyists to share such details with their Provider.... after all if you can't tell your provider who can you tell !!

Happy Hobbying -know your provider (*and her reputation*)......  kisses ~Tori

Okay Tori, I think I just might make you the 3rd provider I meet. I already made an appointment with another provider. Look me up. I will look up shortly....

I cum almost everytime during the bj with one of my favorite ladies, nothing wrong with that.  Usually that is the goal especially with the oral skills she posesses.(lol)  I never have to worry about a 2nd cup knowing it's always on the menu. svlvardhan, you will find with most great ladies that a 2nd cup is likely to be offered when you cum during the bj.  Always best to discuss this up front.

-- Modified on 8/2/2006 9:31:35 PM

No big deal! You are with a new, hot girl for the first time in a new and exciting situation. Of course you're going to cum early. Just find out if she allows CIM (cum in mouth) or not and let it rip.

Make sure you get a lady that allows multiple pops. That way you get your time and moneys' worth.

Alot of ladies find it to be a compliment that you get so excited to see them. It makes them feel good about themselves.

Enjoy yourself and have a good time--TWICE!!!

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