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I agree with this one. I've found that only working until about 9pm helps with this as I don't see the late drink dial guys. I only see guys in the evenings who want to have a drink with me not before they arrive if I work mostly during the day or early evening :)

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Zana123451039 reads

Usually I give funny and silly questions to ask everyone.. but this evening I would like to ask everyone (hobbyists and providers) what you think.

There are some ~~~ let's say "not so nice hobbyists and providers out there!"

Question ~~~~

"What do you do when you are in a situation (both hobbyist and provider) where you feel uncomfortable but continue against your "gut"?? (not talking about girl didn't look like what she was supposed to in her pics... doesn't count!)
I have heard stories from both ends. Some are good and some are not but what do you do as a regular hobbyist or provider?
Have you ever been in situations where you were uncomfortable? Where you wanted to leave but didn't and regretted it? Where do you go? I now that as a Provider we have a few places we can help each other out a little but it is after the fact. What do you do as a hobbyist? Where do we really go? Just a question for thought I guess.  

Just curious.... Please... I know this is a sensitive issue but an important one for everyone. So for everyones sake ~~~ Play nice. :)

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Zan

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macdaddy1944748 reads

i have been hobbying for some time now and have never been in a situation where i felt uncomfortable so i really cannot answer the query on what to do..if you do your homework and research every girl you see and feel completely comfortable with your choices..you should never have a problem.." Choose Wisely"...

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Zana123451021 reads

That is what I always think. I have heard horror stories but wanted to know what else anyone else wanted to say.  
Thanks honey!
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Zana

Posted By: macdaddy1944
i have been hobbying for some time now and have never been in a situation where i felt uncomfortable so i really cannot answer the query on what to do..if you do your homework and research every girl you see and feel completely comfortable with your choices..you should never have a problem.." Choose Wisely"...
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HangingwithBears771 reads

Without going into details, I REALLY wanted to leave but was talked down by the provider in each case. In two of the three cases, everything turned out fine. In the third, we barely finished and I got the hell out of there as fast as possible, running so fast I tripped over a concrete parking stop and fell flat on my face.. This last one was the only time I regretted staying and it was due to an extremely jealous bf/pimp who I had no idea was right outside until it was too late. She ran down to help me up and the next thing I see is an LEO car sitting in the back of the parking lot. The cop saw the whole thing, friggin' scary.

I recall a fourth experience with an agency girl in the early years. She was as cold as they come. I know she didn't have a pimp because she was with a now long defunct big agency but she obviously didn't want to be there. She gave her absolute least and it sucked but I stayed because I didn't want problems with the agency. Then she had the nerve to ask me to write a review and give her at least 8's. Never wrote that review but I did call the agency about the experience and she never toured here again

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Zana12345568 reads

That's horrible. That is what I am talking about. I know there are not all bad experiences but was curious about them.
Thanks for sharing.
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Zana

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Jamie.Solo614 reads

And for that I know that I am blessed. A lot of ladies have horror stories, and situations that have gone bad. I guess I am either lucky or it is due to diligent screening. But, when I first started- and didn't know HOW to screen, I still didn't have any bad encounters. I know that I am lucky for this, because I have heard the horror stories that some ladies have experienced.  

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Jamie

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Zana12345465 reads

That is great for you! Sometimes it happens for others and I have heard horror stories as well. It is always good to screen as much as possible. Even though I know that sometimes even with screening some bad apples can slip through the crack.... Hopefully not to many of them though.

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Zana

Posted By: Jamie.Solo
And for that I know that I am blessed. A lot of ladies have horror stories, and situations that have gone bad. I guess I am either lucky or it is due to diligent screening. But, when I first started- and didn't know HOW to screen, I still didn't have any bad encounters. I know that I am lucky for this, because I have heard the horror stories that some ladies have experienced.  
   
 Love,  
 Jamie
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MissMarieM623 reads

I still don't have an if/then worked out perfectly, but it seems like:

Men who drink with me- no problems, regardless of amount
Men who drink before they see me- often (25% of the time?) problems, regardless of how drunk/sober they seem (just loud, not very nice, etc)

I think a "no drinking beforehand" rule is too far, but if I can tell someone has had a drink, it puts me a bit on edge at this point.

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clairecavendish559 reads

I agree with this one. I've found that only working until about 9pm helps with this as I don't see the late drink dial guys. I only see guys in the evenings who want to have a drink with me not before they arrive if I work mostly during the day or early evening :)

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Zana12345409 reads

One of the things I found is that I do not like Saturdays or late nights. I generally like Monday - Friday sometime during the daytime or early evening or evening. Not to late. Once people (men or women) drink and at night they tend to do thing they shouldn't (before hand of course).... After you meet someone and decide to go to the bar and have a drink together it is a little different though.  
Thanks for your perspective. :)

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Zana

Posted By: clairecavendish
I agree with this one. I've found that only working until about 9pm helps with this as I don't see the late drink dial guys. I only see guys in the evenings who want to have a drink with me not before they arrive if I work mostly during the day or early evening :)
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Zana12345454 reads

That is an interesting point of view. I have never had that experience. Good thing to think about though. Thanks for your perspective!!! :) This is why everyone should read these posts... to get an idea of everyones different views on being a "provider" or "hobbyist"

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Zana

Posted By: MissMarieM
I still don't have an if/then worked out perfectly, but it seems like:  
   
 Men who drink with me- no problems, regardless of amount  
 Men who drink before they see me- often (25% of the time?) problems, regardless of how drunk/sober they seem (just loud, not very nice, etc)  
   
 I think a "no drinking beforehand" rule is too far, but if I can tell someone has had a drink, it puts me a bit on edge at this point.

-- Modified on 9/1/2014 7:12:59 PM

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