I got around that question by sending a jpeg of me in my initial e-mail. Nothing dirty. Just something so she can see who I am and lend credibility that she is not being misled.
I think it's only fair. I wouldn't consider a provider if I didn't have photos (hopefully recent and accurate) of who I expected to meet. Why shouldn't she know in advance what I look like?
Then again, I always started with e-mails, not phone calls and some don't give you that option.
Going to book my first session tomor......how do I go about doing it?
What do I say to her? Hey, I read good reviews on TER...want to see you tomor? Is it that simple?
What will she ask of me? a referral...the name/number of the last person I saw? If this is my first time, my work/phone number?
How long does it for her to get back to me?
I wouldn't mention reviews and she may get back to you in 5 minutes or five days, there's no way of knowing up front.
Just contact her and keep it simple. "My name is John and I saw your ad on EROS, would like to see you for an hour on Friday at 2:00PM. You can reach me at xxx-xxx-xxxx or your email addy." Then it's like fishing.....you sit and wait. You may get a bite, you may not. If she's free at the time requested and you haven't already pissed her off, she'll then ask you what she wants to know.
Patience, Grasshopper. Stick with reviewed or reputable agency girls until you get your dick wet a few times...
Do you have to tell her up front about your race?
I got around that question by sending a jpeg of me in my initial e-mail. Nothing dirty. Just something so she can see who I am and lend credibility that she is not being misled.
I think it's only fair. I wouldn't consider a provider if I didn't have photos (hopefully recent and accurate) of who I expected to meet. Why shouldn't she know in advance what I look like?
Then again, I always started with e-mails, not phone calls and some don't give you that option.
If I'm trying to make arrangements in the short-term (next 2-3 days), I'll send out multiple e-mails (3-5) and see who gets back to me. The ladies don't just sit by their computer or phone waiting for you to call.
Your initial contact should demonstrate that you've done your homework -- if she's got a website, go look at it (and I don't mean just surf her pics for 10 seconds!). Many times, she'll let you know if she has requirements for screening or for contact; failing to follow her requests is a sure way to get her to delete your email, or not take your call.
Some ladies ask for references, but may be willing to work with you if you don't have any. Let her know up front; ladies hate playing email-tag, where it takes seven rounds of exchanges to find out that you don't actually have a workable reference. If she's willing to work around it, she may ask for some other form of information about you. That will depend on what she feels she needs to be comfortable, and it may be more information than you're ready to disclose. In that case, just move along.
Response time varies -- if you get lucky and catch her right when she's at her computer, you might get an immediate response. It may well take a day or two, and if you haven't heard anything after about four days, you might drop her a followup email. If that draws no response, then move along -- either she's unavailable, or she's not interested in talking to you, and you have to respect her choice in that.
Don't waste her time -- if you've only got a specific time that you can meet, then tell her. If you've got some flexibility, let her know that, too. Let her know what you're looking for -- an hour, four hours, a weekend, whatever. Don't do anything that could be perceived as "entrapping" -- don't say, "I'm looking for one babe to pee on me while I'm sodomizing another girl, you interested?"
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