I don't give a shit if she's an active poster or not. I don't care if she posts threAds. I don't care if you knuckleheads think she's overexposed. I'm looking for a woman who's fun and sexy and real. And those ladies are the sexiest ladies.

First thing would be looks. Then I read most of the reviews along with the providers board postings,Website, Blog and twitter postings if they have them. I also glaze across the pabulum that other reviewers say about them unless I personally know the reviewer. Unfortunately last but not least is if there rate falls within my budget.

and by this I mean does she get me riled up when I look at her pics. Many ladies (actually, almost all of them) are pretty and sexy but I'm not attracted to them.

Second is rate. If she charges over $$$$$ no chance.

Third is age.I don't see the young ones.

Finally,  I check reviews for consistent performance and a general description of her personality traits NOT her menu

Process: See a lady I like, read their reviews, contact reviewers and ask questions. That starts a discussion of other providers who offer what I'm looking for. It's enjoyable to interact with other hobbyists. If they have a relationship with a provider, it's nice when they tell her they're sending a friend who's looking for this and that. First meetings are less stressful for both of us that way.