I very much appreciate them and it just make's the date that much more enjoyable.
I love women in and out of the hobby and showing them respect and appreciation
goes a long way in how well they are going to take care of you hint.
Some dudes are just to amped up on there ED drugs to even notice or care very sad.
To those that can not grasp what I am saying here you more then missed the boat
and will never really understand a women.
-- Modified on 8/29/2014 2:41:04 PM
Have you even walked into a providers hotel room decorated by her? how did you feel about it and did it make a difference
As long as the room is clean and not smelly, I could care less about the decorations. I'm not there to live out a Better Homes and Garden role play fantasy. A candle lit room is not going to sway me, especially if she has an attitude or is a lousy performer
Simply boiled down they ran something like this "hmmm, this is interesting" and that's that last I ever thought about it.
Like most guys I suppose, I care if the room is clean, after that I don't much care. A gorgeous woman in a average room is much more memorable than an average woman in a decked out palace.
I have had this done for me and I really appreciated it. Candles, soft light, nice music. It helps set a nice sensual mood. I have also noticed that those providers that did do this also were GREAT providers. Who is going to go through that process of making the environment more romantic and not BE romantic? Just my two cents.
As a frequent traveler I'm very accustomed to generic hotel rooms. So when I enter one on an incall that has lightly scented candles, a colored silk over a lamp, or even just fresh flowers it stands out. Tells me she cares about the entire range of senses, and that goes into the checkbox as a plus for GFE.
Recently had one that brought her own sheets and towels and, while I'm sure it was for reducing housekeeping interest, the change was a nice touch.
Definitely put away suitcases, make the bed, straighten the room, and greet me with a smile, hug and a kiss. It's not deal breaker if you don't dress up the room, but it can help boost the performance score or at least ensure other detractions are overlooked.
...and make it cozy just for them.
I choose hotels, and rooms based on a number of factors: great room, room service, hotel gym, etc. Whether on personal vacation or entertaining, I want great bedding, fluffy towels, bath robes, etc. I bring my own music, flowers, and, unscented candles.
Hugs and Kisses,
Kelly
never really had time to even notice since my pants are usually down around my ankles upon entering..
Ahaha! So true for you!
XXX-Giselle Parker
In my case, I feel putting myself in a nice environment puts me in a nice mood. People always act more upscale in an upscale store, or more proper at a black tie event. (Before the rich folk start getting drunk lol.)
The atmosphere, in many cases, demands a certain behavior. Not for all, but for someone who knows how to adapt appropriately to their surroundings it helps.
So I try to motivate myself too. But I don't lie to myself and go to the Trump Hotel and wait for clients. Vintage can be awesome too. 
as long as it all matches. 
It's fun to put personality and character into it. I like to hang garter belts as some of the decor lol. Guys don't seem to notice, or they just look confused when I point it out and give them the decoration tour lol. So it's really more for me.
-- Modified on 8/28/2014 8:27:23 PM
because for most of us who do work from home it's very outdated advice. People who need to wear a suit (and I do know several) to do their best work at home should not be working from home in the first place.
I have done most of my work from home for decades, even though I have had an office that I paid thousands of dollars a month that simply sat empty 98% of the time. I have never felt the slightest need to "dress for success" when working at home. I know what I need to do, and I do it. IMO the people that need to dress the part are people who are accustomed to having a boss, and really aren't self starters who don't need anyone or anything to motivate them into doing what needs to be done.
and for the record, the older and more secure in my own skin that I get the less influence the atmosphere has on me. I don't act any more proper at a black tie event than I do at a weekend BBQ, Personally I can't stand people who "act proper" quite frankly those kind of people simply bore the shit out of me.
Since you think he is wrong, should I stop considering his advice because he is old?
One thing I do know about grandpa, who I love and look up to, is that he doesn't sit on discussion boards telling hookers they're not smart enough to effect others or tell a story from a different perspective.
Maybe if people listened to the elderly and more experienced in life, history wouldn't repeat itself so much.
Instead, we try to live by the new way, be the next generation to evolve and make things work better.
Funny that the financial situation of this country is declining, yet the younger generations are too smart to listen to those who are 'too old'.
I think whenever someone says something wise, as soon as they turn 65 and retire, we should lock them up in nursing homes and throw away everything they've said that works.
You're currently on TER. Are you dressed for work while you're at home?
and no I am hardly dressed for it. I am actually not quite "dripping wet" but lets say "a bit damp" from having just taken a dip in the pool.
and since when have I EVER said a hooker is "not smart" enough to "effect others"? I have called individual hookers out for being stupid, but I have called out a lot more guys for being stupid than women. If you don't believe me, just count the number of women on my SPOTY and then count the number of men.
Why do you have to resort to the "stupid hooker" defense? Can't I just disagree with you as a person instead of as a hooker?
and for the record, I am one of the "elderly" or at least plenty old enough to have been getting AARP invitations for several years now.
But getting back to your grandpa, his advice is just plain lousy advice for the vast majority of the people who work from home and are any good at it. I've run multi million dollar companies mainly from home and never felt any need to "dress" for the occasion.
That mentality of "dressing for success" even when not out in public really is an outdated concept, and it has it's roots in people who are not used to being independent, and who have to "get in the mood" to take care of business. Those of us who have done it successfully for decades have no such need. You can wake me up from a sound sleep and I can simply "flip the switch" and immediately be in "business mode" as can many others who run companies.
How do you honestly think that I can spend this much time on a fuck board?
I have zero problems running a business and taking a few minutes here and there during the course of the day to post here on TER.
-- Modified on 8/29/2014 3:00:44 PM
You haven't answered my message from several days ago. Too busy posting here and on every other regional board. Makes sense.
This is what happens when you leave the door to the tool shed open.....and tools like this one get out.
Says BP boy.
Is that your best? Because it seemed to lack original thought.
Or maybe you have yet to evolve. (That is where the smart money is being laid)
at least the smart money doesn't 'like' their own posts. A '4' on looks for one of your recent reviews? Plus two fives? At least one was named 'Bubbles' haha. Wow. Smart money there eh? Dumbass.
Or maybe you have yet to evolve. (That is where the smart money is being laid)
I'm not looking for romance and candles when I meet a provider. I save that for civvie dating and REAL relationships. I LOVE sex with the lights on when I see a provider. I want to see her smoking hot bod, and her pretty face, and the details of her hair and all her sexy girly parts. That is the reason I do this. I don't mind a nice fragrance in the room or candles, but if it's too dark I WILL ask to turn the lights on! And if you seem like you don't want to it's a downer for me! I can jack off with some lube at home in the dark for free if my vision is deprived of what I came to see.
TP
Dark. Same concept working in a doctor's office. I can't tell you how many times we used to adjust the damn temperature and change from oprah to jerry springer back to oprah, turn the TV off, then back on, etc. Etc.
Which is why I say it's mostly for me and not the client. Unless he literally tells me, I do what makes me work and feel best, or whatever mood I'm in that day.
-- Modified on 8/29/2014 3:05:40 PM
and a warm and inviting hug and a kiss and I don't really care what your decor is like.
If the vibe isn't right fragrances and candle light are meaningless
I very much appreciate them and it just make's the date that much more enjoyable.
I love women in and out of the hobby and showing them respect and appreciation
goes a long way in how well they are going to take care of you hint.
Some dudes are just to amped up on there ED drugs to even notice or care very sad.
To those that can not grasp what I am saying here you more then missed the boat
and will never really understand a women.
-- Modified on 8/29/2014 2:41:04 PM