I'm not sure I'm paranoid or wise. Curious what others think.
A well reviewed provider had not been reviewed for nearly a year, the websites posted seemed outdated and she didn't return emails.
The provider gets a new website, appears on P411 and replies to emails. I chalk this up to a leave of absence or something. Provider doesn't provide a phone number and communicates strictly via email.
We arrange to meet, but instead of a two call system, she has me meet her in the parking lot of a fast food restaurant. I text her a few minutes before our scheduled time to let her know I'm waiting, she says she's running a few minutes late. I see her drive by in her car a few times. She emails and asks what type of car I have, and when I respond tells me she saw me and directs me to walk over to her car.
When I get there, she's still in the driver's seat. I walk over and say hello and go in for a kiss. She gives me the cheek and tells me to come around the other side and get in. I ask her if I can get a kiss first, she says she doesn't do anything in public but that I should sit down in the car so we can get to know each other. As I start walking to the passenger side, it just felt weird. I'm wondering if there is something else going on here?
I make it half way around the back of her car, and come back to her window and say I just don't feel comfortable with this. She says no problem and we both leave.
Thoughts???
Nobody should be getting in some stranger's car, guy or gal. For all you know, she was going to drive you to some desolate place where her boyfriend and some friends were going to roll you, get your cash, credit cards, etc. Although the focus of most discussions is the ladies' safety, and it makes sense, the reality is that we are also at risk, we are easy prey. I mean, really, what guy is going to go to the police to report being robbed while soliciting prostitution? Lol!
Yes, she may have been in the biz before, she may have been legitimate, she may have had good reviews, but one year is a long time and you don't know what has transpired in the meantime. It could be that she is still legitimate, but that is a very weird way to conduct business, particularly for a seasoned pro. With so many choices, there is no way you should have taken any risk at all.
to think with the head on top of the shoulders and listen to that voice!
These were the reddest flags I've ever heard of. I can't even imagine a plausible positive explanation for this behavior.