Her Attitude, Performance, Affordable Price and Overall Experience is what keeps me seeing her. Been seeing her for well over a year. I haven't seen any other Girl. When I want to play she's the only one I see. At this point she considers me a Friend.

an awesome attitude( meaning over the top enthusiasm) rather, a lack of apathy. It's possible a specific act or position can bring me back. I still have vivid memories of two ladies and specific positions that were unforgettable. I don't believe a genuine connection is possible. Even though encounters with some ladies feel more relaxed than others I know we would never be involved in "real" life so...I don't go there but you can breed the benefits of familiarity with one another. Which leads to the great sex possibility. I've never had great sex on a first visit. Coming back for more gives us a chance to see if that will happen.To me, this is the best part of seeing providers. The problem is I never know if she feels the same. That is, is she TRYING to get to better sex as time goes by or just fufilling her GFE duties. Now, I know WHY this happens but that is what I'm trying to find in a provider.If I can determine if it's going in the right direction I will continue to see her in an effort to get there.

You mentioned an awesome attitude.   That is perhaps the single biggest factor.   I suppose that falls into the same category as "enthusiasm" for the session.   I love for a woman to be playful as well as open and honest.   If she happens to tell me her real name on a subsequent date, it tends to make  a bit of a connection and establish trust.   I also really enjoy if she opens up and talks about her sexual experiences.   It is such a turn on, as I am very attracted to sexually active women.  Also builds trust.  As for physical acts, great DFK is such a wonderful thing and tends to make the entire date better.   Personally, I really like for cim to be available, even if we don't do it.   I have a few friends that let me take pictures of them.  That always keeps me coming back.   I usually delete nearly all of them anyway, but starting a date off with a red hot photo session is mind blowing and always makes for a terrific date.   If she should happen to send me a sexy picture of herself unsolicited that usually ends up in me contacting her and arranging a date.   I also enjoy "speaking erotica", I guess also known as dirty talk, but mine is more fantasy related rather than F me, F me.   Falls back into the playfulness attraction.  Lastly, and I hate to bring this up but I want to answer the question honestly - if her time is a good value.   I have a couple of friends that offer me special rates/frequent flyer discounts (their idea, not mine, so please don't flame me).   It is appreciated and I keep going back.    Great question - thanks Tara.

But especially when there's a connection.  Whether it's real or not is not my concern...if it feels real to me in the moment it intensifies the sex, makes for a mind blowing session and pretty much ensures my return.  The edge of the even the sharpest knife dulls eventually but I ride those rare connections for as long as I can.

1. We get along well
2. The quality of service doesn't decline. In other words, she doesn't start taking things for granted and get lazy with the service because we know each other.

tastes great and less filling..

The first time is mostly based on looks, body, and reviews (the text description, NOT the scores, I don't trust the scores anymore). The first session usually makes or breaks it. Great sex is important, a nice bod and a good looking woman are also important. But far more important is personality and attitude. Those who I see again and again have great personalities, beautiful smiles, they love to laugh and joke around and sexy time is not only hot but fun and a few laughs make it all the more fun. Providers who don't take themselves too seriously make my day

There's no bigger turn-off than to meet a hot sexy woman with a piss-poor attitude or zero personality. I've experienced very few of these types over the years and those few were generally agency girls who I couldn't do a lot of screening on ahead of time (no communication).

I am in my late 60s.  I love the enthusiasm and conversation of a lady as well as their desire to satisfy me.  While it is difficult for me to climax, I have found only a couple of ladies whose oral talents bring me satisfaction

I repeat if there is a general connection which can consists of quite a few things. A sense of humor ranks high on my list "lets have some fun"! There needs to be something in common we both have a passion for. Looks are in the eye of the beholder who doesn't like a woman that can carry herself in a sensual way! Being a mature woman not just in age but in mind as well or worldly. I have to say if I can push some buttons there is nothing better than the sound of a woman being pleasured. The sex should be mind blowing for both of us isn't that why we are here?

Her face, her smile, her eyes, her hair, her body.  I prefer a a blonde, 5'6' or less, natural breasts on the smaller side, a waist to hold and nice butt.  A never ending visceral attraction.    

Next is communication, both verbal and physical.  Open and honest communication, expressing wants and desires to please yourself and the other person, and then doing so.  Physical intimacy and closeness.  Kissing.  Caressing.  Exploring.  Taking it nice and easy; finishing it nice and rough, like Ike and Tina Turner in Proud Mary.  Sharing and exchanging power and control during sex.  Willingness to be vulnerable and to experiment.  Talking before, during and after sex.  

An authentic experience with a genuine person who you like and who likes you sparks a fire, develops an interest to want more, creates a connection, leading to regular repeat visits.  It has kept me coming back  
to her for 3+ years.

I agree with everything posted here.  As with Mr. Flintstone, I am past my early 50's and appreciate when a provider does not look at me like a cliche.  "The dirty old man who  just wants a lay from a young chic like me".  Oh yes, I have had that experience on a couple of occasions.

I had one provider, well reviewed, but young, continued to look at the birds outside my window while blowing me.  Talk about not being into the mood.  Yikes!  It was clear during the rest of the session she wanted to get done soon as possible.

(I do practice good hygiene just in case you are thinking that is the issue).  

I tend to have much better sex with providers who are over 30 and understand what happens when a body starts to change with age.  In most cases, it is starting to happen to them.  They are much more sincere, understanding, and into paying special attention to the things that need to be done to satisfy a man in my age group.  My complements to all of them, (and you know who you are LOL).

Tits and Ass are great, and I am breast man through and through, but give me a women who can tap into some nurturing while being naughty, I will come back many times

For me-

Attitude  
Physical connection  
Looks

I have 4 ATF's and they possess those three qualities.  It just makes the entire experience much more better and I completely get into them as well. Sadly only 1 is local and she currently isn't providing.  The other three don't really come often to Chicago too often anymore. This has left me frustrated because I keep on trying to find someone local who I can regularly see, but keep striking out.

Hey I'm sorry if you guys are Jealous. Every time I respond to a posting somehow it turns into "Who's The Provider I'm Seeing" Discussion.