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What is the minimum age a provider has to be in order for you to see her? I'm interested because I know age is a compenant some older gentlemen really consider. Some exclusively only see providers closer to their age, while others prefer P.Y.T's ( I'm testing your MJ knowledge). I'm curious as a provider who is a bit younger.

Kisses
Miss Lola Luxe

Some exclusively only see providers closer to their age, while others prefer P.Y.T's [pretty young things]. :-)

There is no one answer fits all. Some guys don't care about age as long as the lady is very attractive and a great performer. Too many variables to consider.

Ha! I guess I did. I'm just interested in learning what the general hobbyist population in Chicago leans towards age wise. (Since this board is so popular).

So what age do you lean towards usually?

There probably isn't a 60+ hobbyist who wouldn't enjoy spending time with a Pretty Young Thing.
However, he would want to be assured that she enjoys spending time with the older gents and understands some basic differences between the desires and stamina of us and the younger guys.  
Not complicated. But it takes a special younger lady to 'get it'. And we love the dickens out of them when we find them! Actually, we love the dickens out of all of youse.

I just like this post because you said "dickens" haha

She is older than my daughter I won't discriminate.

See this is why I asked because I know some men care about stuff like this. Thank you for your feedback!

What does Michael Jordan got to do with this?  Hehehe

my boyfriends have generally been about 20 years older and some helped me out a bit, so for what it's worth:

It seems to me that men who are about 40+ look for women roughly their own age when they're thinking about someone they want to see regularly.  The same men also look for younger women for a bit of extra fun, and sometimes (often? ;)) keep them around if they turn out to have more substance than they expected.  I think you'll do well on these conversions. ;)

Younger guys (not sure the cutoff...) are generally looking for a fun and sometimes an interesting bang.  I get some "I've always wanted to be with an older woman" (Really? Note to men- do not say this. Lol), please be prepared for some "I've always wanted to be with a black girl" (additional note to men- do not say this either.)  They keep coming back as long as things are still fun and interesting (also under your control).  

And no matter what they tell you, absolute cut-offs are never higher than 22.  So you're good. ;)

Thank you for your response! I know it depends on each man's personal beliefs and what not but I just want general census you know?

I don't think it matters as much when it's provider and hobbyist vs boyfriend and girlfriend relationships. Which is perfect for me! Haha

And you're always so sweet and complimentary(: I really appreciate it! I am totally prepared for many non-black men to bless me with (what they truly believe is a compliment -.-) "I've never been with a black girl", this has been my personal life since high school really. I've personally never dated a black man (not by choice just by environment: art school & a pretty privileged background, where there's only 3 other black kids and we all don't want to date each other haha). They don't mean to be impolite, they just like stating facts I guess it's their version of another virginity in a sense.

I digress.

But yes you're definitely right about 40+ men (from my personal experience)

Again...great attitude.  :)
 

Posted By: MissLolaLuxe
Thank you for your response! I know it depends on each man's personal beliefs and what not but I just want general census you know?  
   
 I don't think it matters as much when it's provider and hobbyist vs boyfriend and girlfriend relationships. Which is perfect for me! Haha  
   
 And you're always so sweet and complimentary(: I really appreciate it! I am totally prepared for many non-black men to bless me with (what they truly believe is a compliment -.-) "I've never been with a black girl", this has been my personal life since high school really. I've personally never dated a black man (not by choice just by environment: art school & a pretty privileged background, where there's only 3 other black kids and we all don't want to date each other haha). They don't mean to be impolite, they just like stating facts I guess it's their version of another virginity in a sense.  
   
 I digress.  
   
 But yes you're definitely right about 40+ men (from my personal experience).  
   
 

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WOW..did you really hear a lot that from your clients?  

Even when I got no blood flow in my brain, I would not say things like that, at least as far as I remembered. I only want to meet people with at least something in common that is not related to the obvious demographic characteristics. So, even if my complement might be off the mark, it shouldn't be as bad as the cliches. Well, I hope so.

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Clients and personal life. Again I don't think it's coming from a bad place, I seriously think most of them believed it was a compliment haha

Honestly with the history of our country and in our culture there's still segregation (defacto. As well as class) so I don't think there's necessarily spaces in which people of different classes(which are heavily correlated with race) interact regularly. Basically why would someone be able to be romantically involved with someone out of their set?  

I'm rambling but those are my thoughts haha!

Of the four younger guys I've seen. Lol.  

Mostly brought it up to Miss Lola because I predicted substantial... interest along those lines. (Heck, I'm 100% hetero and still had a flash of "Hmmm... I've never..." Lol).  Apparently I was so accurate she's already used to it.  :)

I prefer women over 40.  Of course, I visit younger women at times.  I feel more comfortable with women my age.  In my experience, mature women are better at just about everything.  Yet, a provider rated 9-9 must be better than a provider rated 6-6 regardless of age.

 
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I could understand the level of comfort is much better with someone closer to your age as you've probably had more similar experiences in growing up. It makes sense and I respect it!

kisses,
Miss Lola Luxe

18 is technically an adult although if she's a ward of the state she's still jail bait in Illinois until 21. I may get busted for sex but I really don't want to get busted for sex with a child! (Also I'm just not interested in girls that young.) For myself, being in my mid-60s, I definitely want someone older than my daughter. Late 20s to mid 30s are great for a time or two but I seem to want to return mostly to girls around 40. Older? Not so much, though of course I'll dabble once in a while. I think that for some reason I'm just most comfortable with women about 40. Maybe it's my emotional age. At 40 they're still young to me but much more capable and experienced, and we have more in common. FWIW.

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Luckily I am not a ward of the state in IL ( I am not from here) or otherwise! Hehe And my birthday is in October so I will officially be a *real* adult according to american standards!

But I definitely understand, and thank you for the feedback!

Kisses,
Miss Lola Luxe

Tough question, I go through phases. I had a phase where I only saw early 20-somethings, then I progressed to early 30-somethings and lately early 40-somethings. I'm all over the place but early 20's is as young as I go these days. For the 20-somethings, I like more maturity and have been lucky to find one who fits this profile perfectly.

That's lovely, it's always a very nice experience to connect with someone from another time. You truly get to learn from one another since you're experiences are so different. Thanks for the feedback!

Kisses,
Miss Lola Luxe

....the twenty somethings.  But there are a few. Jamie Love is mature, Alyssa Admire, Elsa, there's lots.  I'd say 28 to 45 is a sweet spot.

I find myself gravitating towards a slightly older provider than I did in my youth.  I'm mid-50's now.  However, I still see anyone who strikes my fancy.  Part of that is an evaluation on my part of "fit."  I try to determine that through reviews, a provider's posts, how their website reads, etc.  Some younger providers are very mature.  I am finding that I pay more attention to mid-30's or older ladies than I used to (plan to see Montero soon if I can).

I guess my minimum is 18 as someone above said.  Lol.  However, I would have to be convinced we were a very good match before I went ahead.  I guess its a sliding scale with me.  

Not an exact answer to your question but I felt like chiming in.  

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I do know that there are providers that have certain restrictions too.

Do you generally get attracted to older or younger men. Some women have trouble with pleasing their partner if they are not attracted to him. Do you have a preference? If so, what is it and why? Someone mentioned understanding an older man's stamina and needs. What about younger men with lots of stamina that like to play with fine PYT's like yourself who don't want the hassle of traditional relationships? What about the middle aged married man who's not out of steam and wants to play on the side and might think that an affair is too risky?  

I know the popular answer is that this is P4P, she can't afford to have preferences. I tend to have better experiences when I feel theres a mutual attraction. When the woman can take me out of everything else and make me believe she enjoyed that as much as I did.

Posted By: MissLolaLuxe
What is the minimum age a provider has to be in order for you to see her? I'm interested because I know age is a compenant some older gentlemen really consider. Some exclusively only see providers closer to their age, while others prefer P.Y.T's ( I'm testing your MJ knowledge). I'm curious as a provider who is a bit younger.  
   
 Kisses  
 Miss Lola Luxe

Me personally I only want to see men 35+ nothing younger than that, I don't like men my own age. It's very cliché to say, but it's actually true. There's so much rambunctious energy that isn't actually sexy or exciting. Just very puppy like lol

Kisses,
Miss Lola Luxe

I change my mind a lot. I tend to have more in common (obviously) with women close to my own age. But I have an age kink for older women. And I've seen younger from time to time. I wouldn't say I would never see an 18 or 19 year old, but I guess my cutoff would be about 25? When I turn 40 I think that may change though haha.

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