Wanted to get everone's thoughts on the matter.

Are we spoiled (sexually) with what escorts/providers bring to the table that impact relationships with a girlfriend?  Do providers raise the bar so high that is unattainable by a girlfriend; are these unrealistic expectations to have?

This does not deal with the emotional or support that another person brings or having a companion, partner and friend.
   
With escorts/providers:
   Amazing sex; with a variety of women; who open minded; it's reinvigorating/energizing.  They  
   do things my GF would never do (no matter how much I do or willing to do sexually or  
   emotionally).

Then a girl friend enters our life:  
   Sex is average to below average.  becomes routing; not wiling to keep things interesting (and i'm  
   not talking about anything involving pain or s&m etc);  

After a while, I find my imagination going back to some of my ATF's and how amazing everything was/is.

Hence the question(s):
   Am I the only one this happens to?
   Does this happen to you?
   How do you handle/cope?
   Are we spoiled with what providers bring to the table