uite often from gentlemen who don't schedule a session. I like them 
It brightens my day every time I get one. It's nice to know someone appreciates
the effort I put into my Ads and is thinking of me
This really is coming out of left field but I just wanted to bring this subject up. As I am looking at a providers profile I notice their likes and dislikes, and many times the number one dislike is bad hygiene second third or fourth seems to be cheapskates. My comfort level runs between 200 and $250 as I try to balance quality and quantity. I love escorts and as I can find ladies in my budget range, I can see 2 ladies per month, a double, or one extra fine lady in the champagne range. Of course I am like a lot of hobbyists and will splurge on special occasions.
I pride myself on good hygiene and expect no less from a provider. I never purposely try to take advantage of the paid time, usually I notice the time first and will wind down. Not that I wouldn't ever see a lady for 30 min, an hour seems about right for my age group, and limitations.
I wish I was able to afford top shelf, and I do occasionally reach out to a lady to tell them how much I admire them, knowing I could never afford to see them. Part of the fantasy, I know it annoys some providers as a waste of time.
Sometimes I let my little head get the best of me. Just sayin' EOM
BTW, let me be the first to wish everyone a great holiday season!
What is your definition of a cheapskate ? And how many providers regularly spend $500 a month on any hobby? Thanks
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uite often from gentlemen who don't schedule a session. I like them
It brightens my day every time I get one. It's nice to know someone appreciates
the effort I put into my Ads and is thinking of me
you're not a cheapskate, you're sensible.
This does not apply to the gents who know what they can afford-- rather, the "gents" with champagne taste on a beer budget, who try to haggle their way through life.
happy holidays and even happier hobbying!
Tab
Like fine wine, some women improve with age.
It's one thing if you didn't know my rates And start with a cheap offer. Its another when you know my rates (which r by my contact info) And you try to tell me i'm only worth $$. Or try to tell me provider x only charges $$ u should charge the same or less..
I love them and enjoy every minute of it.. I think there is always someone out there for everyone, I wouldn't call anyone "cheap" because they can only afford x rate; this is free market and everyone can advertise their companionship services at any price point they decide; being stingy is rather someone who either tries to negotiate, overstays or wants to squeeze every millisecond of the hour. I'm grateful for my friends, they are not only financially amazing to me but also amazing as individuals. Nothing compares to a gentleman who is generous within his means and would go the extra mile to make a girl who is special to him feel appreciated.
...and that there are providers who are happy to host for those fees.
My answer about cheapskates fall in line with the other ladies replies. Additionally, cheapskates are guys who try to keep us on the phone asking us questions they already know the answers to. They ask if we'll do everything listed across every review ever written on us --- all in one hour -- during the day --- last minute -- without having shared details, screening or even a name yet. There are also the guys that will try to keep us on email for days on end. They write books to us, engage us across multiple emails that require a great deal of time and thought -- and then they back out of booking an appointment. Ugggg that's the worst!!!!!
I see your point about we ladies spending 500 a month on our hobbies but I think you need to also consider how much we invest in beauty every month and that the lingerie, stockings and shoes you love to see us in require an investment as well - not to mention the outfits we wear over our intimates. Also, many ladies maintain a high end incall in the hottest real estate zones in the country (I have one lady friend who lives on 33rd and Park Avenue in a penthouse suite) which carry a hefty rent or mortgage.
On a different note - a provider who accepts 200 an hour is possibly required to work at a higher volume. Again, for me personally - I can't do high volume. During the peak of my career I was touring twice a month for 2 1/2 days. The *most* I would entertain would be 2-3 clients a day. To me - that was a lot and more than enough.
Cheapskates are defined in many different ways but I think if you know what you can do and are straight up about it with the ladies that you meet that makes you a pretty stand up guy
Love will make you do right, love will make you do wrong ,love will make you stay out all night long. Al green. Laney thank you for pointing that out to me regarding the cost of providing an in call and providers costs. In a way I suppose providing could also be seen as hobbying. The libido is a very powerful thing and can make a rational man do irrational things. TER can be viewed as a candy shop, with you lovely lady's being the candy! I am referring to the temptation to want to negotiate with a lady that may be out of one's budget. I do not condone that but I understand how it could happen. I appreciate everyone's input. EOM
My answer about cheapskates fall in line with the other ladies replies. Additionally, cheapskates are guys who try to keep us on the phone asking us questions they already know the answers to. They ask if we'll do everything listed across every review ever written on us --- all in one hour -- during the day --- last minute -- without having shared details, screening or even a name yet. There are also the guys that will try to keep us on email for days on end. They write books to us, engage us across multiple emails that require a great deal of time and thought -- and then they back out of booking an appointment. Ugggg that's the worst!!!!!
I see your point about we ladies spending 500 a month on our hobbies but I think you need to also consider how much we invest in beauty every month and that the lingerie, stockings and shoes you love to see us in require an investment as well - not to mention the outfits we wear over our intimates. Also, many ladies maintain a high end incall in the hottest real estate zones in the country (I have one lady friend who lives on 33rd and Park Avenue in a penthouse suite) which carry a hefty rent or mortgage.
On a different note - a provider who accepts 200 an hour is possibly required to work at a higher volume. Again, for me personally - I can't do high volume. During the peak of my career I was touring twice a month for 2 1/2 days. The *most* I would entertain would be 2-3 clients a day. To me - that was a lot and more than enough.
Cheapskates are defined in many different ways but I think if you know what you can do and are straight up about it with the ladies that you meet that makes you a pretty stand up guy.
It's the gentleman that doesn't see the value of what is being offered, including companionship skills, accommodations, or caliber of hygiene. Sadly, those of us that refuse to entertain these drains or potential drains on our resources receive the brunt of their frustration. It's often hard to get across to these individuals that "If I take the time to put it in writing, I really really mean it. Really."