So this is the second time I've tried to book with this date in the last 6 weeks. The last time I was here, we were all set, then she emailed at the last minute and said she had a headache. Her TER reviews were awesome, but I searched her in some other boards, and NCNS seems to be a trend with her. Everyone seems to say the same thing...IF you can get a hold of her and IF she shows up, it's well worth it. She promised the next time I was here she would make it up etc.
Against my better judgment, I decided to try her again this trip (like I said, the TER reviews were off the charts). So we've been emailing back and forth and confirmed for tonight. She texted to say she was running a few mins late then texted and said she was at the wrong hotel. A few more texts (not sure how she couldn't find the place), then she went radio silent. Wasted 2 hours of my time and not even a confirmation that she wasn't coming so I can stop waiting and go to bed. Is this a regular occurrence with providers down here?
About to give up on Miami... Any no drama providers who speak multiple foreign languages and might be up and available tonight, or tomorrow night? Oh yeah...you need to have a functioning GPS and a watch that ticks too!
Really don't want to head back to the freezing Midwest on Thursday feeling let down by all the hotties in South FL.
And professional...a NCNS should be a red flag big time that this can happen again and a big character flaw... Don't give up on Miami just yet! It's a great city full of gorgeous providers who will deliver a great experience!
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Agreed upon. Sometimes you will be getting the late ones and sometimes things (for real) pop up that just cant be changed. Sometimes people are just BS-ing. Thing's happen. People do get better over time and change. Just keep trying and eventually you will be getting great catches. Guaranteed!!!!
Kisses,
HeatherRoss
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GREEDY PUSSY SYNDROME and my watch ticks too. I have a full tank of gas and if you want to be MILFERIZED I am your Milf!
Sorry you had to go through that not once, but twice. But ye shall learn from your mistakes.
Tara xoxo
sorry to hear about ur bad luck.. but u might have better luck in central fl
I agree while heartedly... 
Posted By: annie1117
sorry to hear about ur bad luck.. but u might have better luck in central fl
Let's break it down. You come to Miami and get stiffed twice by the same lady (questionable strategy, you must admit) and then you blame all the providers in the city?
Dude, I bet you wouldn't like it if one of us came to your city, got screwed over twice by the same guy, and then went on your regional board and bitched about every hobbyist in your fair city.
"Really don't want to head back to the freezing Midwest on Thursday feeling let down by all the hotties in South FL."
You haven't even reached out to anyone else. Yet you feel "let down" by all of them?
Let's get some perspective here... and by the way, I think you owe the nice professional ladies who replied here an apology for your broad brush.
Just sayin'
Posted By: Tabu
Let's break it down. You come to Miami and get stiffed twice by the same lady (questionable strategy, you must admit) and then you blame all the providers in the city?
Dude, I bet you wouldn't like it if one of us came to your city, got screwed over twice by the same guy, and then went on your regional board and bitched about every hobbyist in your fair city.
"Really don't want to head back to the freezing Midwest on Thursday feeling let down by all the hotties in South FL."
You haven't even reached out to anyone else. Yet you feel "let down" by all of them?
Let's get some perspective here... and by the way, I think you owe the nice professional ladies who replied here an apology for your broad brush.
Just sayin'.
You are absolutely correct. It was just a figure of speech as I'm sure most of the ladies on here are awesome. Written out of frustration for going against my better judgment...my mistake admittedly. Wasn't meant to be taken literally, and definitely didn't mean to generalize and offend anyone.
I have no dog in this hunt. I moved out of FL almost a year ago.
Hope you find what you're looking for next time.
Tabu
Posted By: late20
You are absolutely correct. It was just a figure of speech as I'm sure most of the ladies on here are awesome. Written out of frustration for going against my better judgment...my mistake admittedly. Wasn't meant to be taken literally, and definitely didn't mean to generalize and offend anyone.
I have only been NCNS once, and that was 8 years ago.
Plenty of great independent ladies to see in the Miami area. Paloma and Cougar are two that will satisfy the most discriminating hobbyist; depending on age preference.
Hope tonight is better for you.
BTW, Tabu was spot on as well. Because of your dishing Miami, you might have difficulty making another date.
Seems to me that you have some amazing blinders on! You see NCNS is a trend & you called AFTER she canceled once?? Nobody to blame but yourself here- believe me there are some amazing women in the Miami area- take your blinders off & look around!
Why am I surrounded by morons??
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to have, because going forward you can customize your strategy. It's important to know that research is really only what you make of it. You did read that the lady is a flake, but worth it if you can manage to "catch" her. So your first mistake was putting all your companionship eggs in this lady's basket. It was never a good plan, but as is often the case with people who have both a big and a little head, they let the little head (and the built-up fantasies) rule the decision making process.
With a situation like that, where you've been made fully aware of the lady's tendencies, you would have been better off with a back-up plan of some sort. Only book with someone like that when you know you have the time and leisure to make other plans if she's true to form.
But don't do the opposite (and something that will get you on every lady's time waster list) and make plans- even tentatively- with several ladies. Pick out a lady who is good with short notice and will see you the same day as your back- up plan. Maybe have a couple of those or a reputable agency's number handy and bookmarked in case your lady flakes.
It was your own making, but the experience will improve your strategy for success the next time. 
Posted By: late20
So this is the second time I've tried to book with this date in the last 6 weeks. The last time I was here, we were all set, then she emailed at the last minute and said she had a headache. Her TER reviews were awesome, but I searched her in some other boards, and NCNS seems to be a trend with her. Everyone seems to say the same thing...IF you can get a hold of her and IF she shows up, it's well worth it. She promised the next time I was here she would make it up etc.
Against my better judgment, I decided to try her again this trip (like I said, the TER reviews were off the charts). So we've been emailing back and forth and confirmed for tonight. She texted to say she was running a few mins late then texted and said she was at the wrong hotel. A few more texts (not sure how she couldn't find the place), then she went radio silent. Wasted 2 hours of my time and not even a confirmation that she wasn't coming so I can stop waiting and go to bed. Is this a regular occurrence with providers down here?
About to give up on Miami... Any no drama providers who speak multiple foreign languages and might be up and available tonight, or tomorrow night? Oh yeah...you need to have a functioning GPS and a watch that ticks too!
Really don't want to head back to the freezing Midwest on Thursday feeling let down by all the hotties in South FL.
I'm sorry you had a horrible experience. But regardless of the reviews on that specific provider, perhaps it's time to try a different approach or provider. There are many professional providers that do respect your time and love creating new relationships, and then there are the few that lack tenacity and will leave you hanging. Hopefully next time you have a better trip down here in our sunny florida!! : )
