Thanks....I have found out thru email ahead of our meet that she gets off doing me too....I was not aware of some of this. I am somewhat timid about things my first time....is there anything I can do to relax during any penetration ?
This is a very interesting post - whose "ass" are we talking about? Yours? Hers?
If it's your butt she wants to play with, then look forward to a niiiice prostate massage (finger up your butt) with a nice finish (maybe HJ, maybe BJ, maybe penile-vaginal sex) as your prostate gets stimulated by her. Heck, she may even get a prostate massager and use it on you (looks like a small vibrator or buttplug). Or maybe she likes to rim you? If that's the case, you'll be getting a nice, warm tongue up your patootie.
And if she's the one who enjoys her ass being played with, then she'll expect you to do the same thing to her. Fingers in butt, tongue in butt, penis in butt.
One big, fat caveat - do everything covered, PLEASE. No tongue directly on or in anus - use saran wrap or dental dam (sheet of latex covering the entire area). And don't let her do anything uncovered to you - even sex toys have to be covered with condoms, no matter who's doing things to whom. And no oil-based lubricants, that can render the condom weakened and hence useless.
Finally - ass play is not for everyone. If you don't like it - just say NO,
The Love Goddess
I am meeting a woman who says she loves ass-play. A friend of hers who is hard to connect with has verified that. What will she like ? What will she expect ? I have plenty of experience but not in this area.....please help. I do not have PM.
Dear nxtyme,
This is a very interesting post - whose "ass" are we talking about? Yours? Hers?
If it's your butt she wants to play with, then look forward to a niiiice prostate massage (finger up your butt) with a nice finish (maybe HJ, maybe BJ, maybe penile-vaginal sex) as your prostate gets stimulated by her. Heck, she may even get a prostate massager and use it on you (looks like a small vibrator or buttplug). Or maybe she likes to rim you? If that's the case, you'll be getting a nice, warm tongue up your patootie.
And if she's the one who enjoys her ass being played with, then she'll expect you to do the same thing to her. Fingers in butt, tongue in butt, penis in butt.
One big, fat caveat - do everything covered, PLEASE. No tongue directly on or in anus - use saran wrap or dental dam (sheet of latex covering the entire area). And don't let her do anything uncovered to you - even sex toys have to be covered with condoms, no matter who's doing things to whom. And no oil-based lubricants, that can render the condom weakened and hence useless.
Finally - ass play is not for everyone. If you don't like it - just say NO,
The Love Goddess
Thanks....I have found out thru email ahead of our meet that she gets off doing me too....I was not aware of some of this. I am somewhat timid about things my first time....is there anything I can do to relax during any penetration ?
This is a very interesting post - whose "ass" are we talking about? Yours? Hers?
If it's your butt she wants to play with, then look forward to a niiiice prostate massage (finger up your butt) with a nice finish (maybe HJ, maybe BJ, maybe penile-vaginal sex) as your prostate gets stimulated by her. Heck, she may even get a prostate massager and use it on you (looks like a small vibrator or buttplug). Or maybe she likes to rim you? If that's the case, you'll be getting a nice, warm tongue up your patootie.
And if she's the one who enjoys her ass being played with, then she'll expect you to do the same thing to her. Fingers in butt, tongue in butt, penis in butt.
One big, fat caveat - do everything covered, PLEASE. No tongue directly on or in anus - use saran wrap or dental dam (sheet of latex covering the entire area). And don't let her do anything uncovered to you - even sex toys have to be covered with condoms, no matter who's doing things to whom. And no oil-based lubricants, that can render the condom weakened and hence useless.
Finally - ass play is not for everyone. If you don't like it - just say NO,
The Love Goddess
Much obliged - here is my very own advice for ass play,
The Love Goddess
...I heartily agree.