I have found when the lady says she wants to focus on you, she knows it will not happen with you. I hate when there is faking, I almost immediately lose whatever I have attained. However, there are physical signs in a lady (no, I am not talking about thrashing about, etc) that can clue you in if you are at least getting there.
Of course, every lady I have ever seen always says "so that's what an orgasm feels like."I'm curious....question for the gals on this board:
1. What percentage of the time that you are with a hobbyist do you actually have an O?
(from reading reviews it would appear to be about 90% of the time which would be significantly higher than what one could expect in the "civilian world" - I'm curious if this is related to the mind set of providers or if it is related to the percentage of providers who are lying). Providers - Feel free to answer with an alias to protect your MO.
2. What percentage of the time have you lied to a hobbyist about THERE performance? I.e.- told them how big there cock was when in reality they have a twinky dick?
Just curious
I am petite, so to me sometimes really big can be painful!!! I am content with a great technique rather than with gianormous scary Cyclopes lol.. I guess the reason why you are going to see more O's here is because we know what we like and we are not afraid to say it in order to enjoy the session also. I think for a guy is as nice to have fun and feel great if the girl does too.. it just makes things smooth and natural..
Size matters. Hey, the right size, for you, feels awesome. But that's not the only way to get me off.... in fact, that's the hardest way. You can't change what you're born with. But you can figure which is the best way to to press and drag your tongue across my clitoris, and just when, exactly, I love when you ram a few fingers into me..
I will never lie about performance, which is what you're really asking. If anything, I find myself assuring people what is normal, size-wise, and assuring them that while I may not have orgasmed, I still have fun.
Maybe I'm in the minority here, but lying and faking an orgasm is wrong. It's just counter-productive. You're teaching that guy that what he did got you off, which just sets you up for unsatisfying sex in the future. Fuck that. I'd rather not get off and have him slowly learn what I do like.
Hi Burdog,
Ladies within this industry are very sexual little creatures. If they weren't they wouldn't last long. If you take this into account you may explain the high number of genuine "O's". I think the men within this industry are sexually more experienced as well. That's a winning combination!
Lying defeats the whole purpose. If a man is too far to the left why fake? Just shimmy over to the right! Lying about size is just as bad. No need and I would think it may be insulting. A man knows his size the same as a woman knows the size of her backside. The best bedroom whether in civilian or here is an open bedroom. No hang ups!!!!!
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1. It's stupid easy to get me off. A guy could breathe in my general direction and I'll have an orgasm. So for me, the 90% is fairly accurate. When I can't get off, it's usually when it's late and I'm tired (I am NOT a night owl at all). That, or the guy's technique is just god awful. It has to be REALLY bad, though.
2. I don't offer up compliments if they're not sincere. And I think the guys with small dicks would know we were lying if we said how massive their equipment is. There's a difference between creating a fantasy experience and just being a bold faced liar.
1. What percentage of the time that you are with a hobbyist do you actually have an O?
(from reading reviews it would appear to be about 90% of the time which would be significantly higher than what one could expect in the "civilian world" - I'm curious if this is related to the mind set of providers or if it is related to the percentage of providers who are lying). Providers - Feel free to answer with an alias to protect your MO.
2. What percentage of the time have you lied to a hobbyist about THERE performance? I.e.- told them how big there cock was when in reality they have a twinky dick?
Just curious.
the sex lasted, no matter the technique, no matter what mood she was in, and no matter how much or little I tried; had multiple, toe curling, mind blowing orgasms.
That's my story, and I'm sticking to it.
Come on Guy. Trust your instinct. You meet her, and two minutes later you are playing slap & tickle, and hide the sausage with this beautiful and sexy woman, who you don't know and she doesn't know you, and you think there is a chance she is having a real "O" ??
If the sex was that good with your significant other, and you were that proficient in producing a "O", you would probably have women hanging around your home, like they were in heat.
Last time I had an appointment, I gave the lady a "donation", not because I am a philanthropist, but because she requires it to meet with me. It is one of her conditions, which I don't mind, because then our meeting is all about ME! I don't have to really care about her feeling loved and wanted. I generally don't mention in my reviews about the woman having an "O" cuz I don't care, and also cuz I wouldn't believe it. To me, the review is about whether I had a good time, not whether I am an accomplished lover.
She can tell me that she had an "O", or multiples, and she can tell me that I am "big", which during my delusions and/or fantasy of my tryst with her, I may believe for a minute and give me some inexplicable pleasure, but at the end of our meeting, I don't believe anything she has told me. Period.
So the real question you should ask yourself is, "Why did I post this question on the TER Boston Board"? Hopefully, it was for entertainment purposes, rather than genuine curiosity or puzzlement.
With that said, I will admit that we all have been there. Have a good one.
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I have found when the lady says she wants to focus on you, she knows it will not happen with you. I hate when there is faking, I almost immediately lose whatever I have attained. However, there are physical signs in a lady (no, I am not talking about thrashing about, etc) that can clue you in if you are at least getting there.
Of course, every lady I have ever seen always says "so that's what an orgasm feels like."
What surprises me is that not a single lady on here with or without an alias was willing to admit faking.
Not sure what to make of that - would have expected admission by the droves.
I'll admit I've faked an "O" with a provider.
She was really nice but not doin it for me and for some reason I felt like it was an honorable way to end the session.
..... never lied about dick size and I've ever only actually made reference to a client's penis if it was actually particularly big or thick or "pretty".
O's um ..... most I try to get at least one so I get one in pretty much every date but it came just from him (oral) that's something else lol.