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I know some of you do not like my posts ... but I have had more Pm's than bad posts so I will continue with my questions... I will just change them a little bit from time to time...
The question of the evening (actually it is 3:30 AM)!! Remember I do not sleep.... I should , shouldn't I... LOL
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Here it is ~~~ "When you have an orgasm do you have your eyes open or closed when you are with another person? Whether it is with a provider/client or loved one?"
"Does it make a difference and why"
For me if I am into someone my eyes are wide open and I want to see that person while I am having an orgasm. But sometimes my eyes close and I am having one that is so intense that I can not even function let alone open my eyes.... then there are other times.... What are yours?????
Love
Zan
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If I cum in a lady's mouth or on her breasts, something visual, my eyes are open. Those are things I just have to see. Most of the time when I cum inside her my eyes are closed. But there are sometimes when she's riding me or we're in mish and we're staring into each others eyes as I climax. Definitely open. Those are often my most intense orgasms.
That sounds tantric
cumming together with eyes locked! The intensity, the rush... awesome. Doesn't happen all the time, but definitely my favorite.
I also like closing my eyes and just relaxing into my own sensations and "O".
Depends upon the mood, the chemistry, etc...
They're all good!
I agree with eyes open and closed deepening on the chemistry you have with that particular person... I have done both. There is one particular person that I have my eyes open (wide) and that is what is incredible ~~ in Mish and we are close (face to face).... but when I have my "O"... OMG!!! All I see is the back of my eyes!
It is beautiful!!!
Love
Zana
I also like closing my eyes and just relaxing into my own sensations and "O".
Depends upon the mood, the chemistry, etc...
They're all good!
I close my eyes a lot because, when you close your eyes all your other senses increase and intensify. Most people don't know that
If not...give her a shout (preferably by PM).
She's much better now at posting her "look at me" threADs. She'll be happy to explain how to make them more entertaining and not appear so "I need you to call me...NOW".
I don't really know about the eyes thing...I'll be sure to ask next time and compile a list and share that with anyone who cares. What if she puts a mirror between us...then I have to look at myself and that's just not fair.
The question of the evening (actually it is 3:30 AM)!! Remember I do not sleep.... I should , shouldn't I... LOL
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Here it is ~~~ "When you have an orgasm do you have your eyes open or closed when you are with another person? Whether it is with a provider/client or loved one?"
"Does it make a difference and why"
For me if I am into someone my eyes are wide open and I want to see that person while I am having an orgasm. But sometimes my eyes close and I am having one that is so intense that I can not even function let alone open my eyes.... then there are other times.... What are yours?????
Love
Zana
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And that would be enough to kill any O. Holy shit!
I usually close my eyes when I'm getting close, just because my eyes get pretty light sensitive. My pupils actually dilate during extreme arousal - is that normal?
Just for the sake of my own personal exploration, I've video recorded myself masturbating a few (ok, a lot) of times just so that I can see what I look like, and have made the effort to maintain eye contact with myself sometimes just for fun - it makes for some pretty hot playback
Not that I'm as extraordinarily vain as that makes me sound, lo! Just curious...
I also love cruising the collection of amazing O faces at beautifulagony.com.
For example, if it is a laid back BJ, I just close my eyes and enjoy the moment, where as if she is on her knees doing this porn style BJ where I know I am coming all over her, it is a view I want to remember. So in another words, it all depends on the what we are doing, who am I doing, how we are doing it and so on.
OK.... I am done with my fun time (work) for the day... and I am horny again just thinking about all of this... One eye open... two eyes open.... no eyes open.... right position.... K9, etc.... Jamie.Solo..... where are you when I need you???? Could use you right about now.... I have lots of toys!!!!!!
Sorry, got distracted again.... LOL
Love
Zana
But I definitely put an effort to open my eyes more. When I first started doing this, I found it VERY awkward to keep my eyes open, not just during an O but during things like bj's and sex. But, I have learned to harness my sexuality and look around and at the person I'm with.
I never paid attention to whether my eyes are open, lol. They probably are cause I like staring at her ass when I cum. Now I won't be able to cum cause all I'll be thinking about is eyes open or closed. Crap...
Sorry Polish_Pirate... I didn't mean to ruin it for you... I will make it up to you and you can cum on my ass with one eye open.... Does that help???
Love
Zana
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You know how much concentration it takes to keep only one eye open? That'd be worse than seeing CPA"s face in the mirror just before I cum. AHHHH!!!
The other eye closed.
I like to switch eyes too
I would love to see that!!!!
Love
Zana
I like to switch eyes too
a cyclops. But hey, I'm a pirate so I'd use an eye patch, same effect.
You're a sunshine!!! Xoxo
Thank you so much Gemma !!! I like to lighten the mood and have as much fun as possible.
Love
Zana