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Posted By: RussianWithLove
There's always going to be drama where guys and girls play together and money and peoples' egos are involved.  We have competition ingrained in our dna.  There's no avoiding it.   Somebody will always need to feel that their way of hobbying is the best way, and that the providers want their paying dick more than the next guys.  I'm guilty of it too.  We can't really escape who we are as a species.  What we can do, however, is control the way we act on it.  We can be civil and we can be respectful of other people.    
   
 Sometimes I wanna come on here and say "You wouldn't believe what I just did with Betty!  There's no way any of you have had that with her!  Haha!  She also told me I'm handsomer than all of you!"   But you know why I don't?  Because I have tact.  I also know that nobody really gives a shit.  It just instigates a bit of competitive instinct and gets people to fight because, for an instant, they feel slightly challenged.  And they will feel compelled to respond to it.  It's human nature.  I do it too.  When I read a really good review of somebody who had a fantastic time, I'm like fuck.  This is bullshit.  Just wait.  I'm gonna have a better time than he did.  She's going to fuck me harder than him!!!  And then I go off and do something else.  I don't act on it.  Why?  Because it's a completely irrational and self-destructive line of thinking.  Because there's no "winning."   I'm not a bad person for thinking like that, I'm just a bad person if I act on it, particularly in a way that upsets or hurts other people who don't deserve it.    
   
 Sometimes I think this place would be better served if we were separated.  One room for the fellas to handle business in private and another for the ladies to do the same.  Then maybe one room for shenanigans and general discussion.  Because that way most of the fighting would be brief and infrequent and not exaggerated by the fact that there are girls watching and we have to impress.  

So much unnecessary hatred has slipknoted its way into our community. Does everyone feel good now?  I'm no Angel, I got sucked in as well and am not proud of it.

In the words of hope Sandoval of Mazzy Star:

It just occurred, it dawned on me
My coming here is not the same
Now I can disappear...

XXX-Giselle Parker

I'm not sorry I missed that rant fest.  Things got a little heated in a Chicago even though the weather has been so pleasant lately.  Wonder what set everybody off.  And, no, that is not an invitation to repeat.  I scrolled down and read enough of the threads in question.  
Best of times to all.  Enjoy Chicago's summer for winter will return too soon.
 

Posted By: giselle69
So much unnecessary hatred has slipknoted its way into our community. Does everyone feel good now?  I'm no Angel, I got sucked in as well and am not proud of it.  
   
 In the words of hope Sandoval of Mazzy Star:  
   
 It just occurred, it dawned on me  
 My coming here is not the same  
 Now I can disappear...  
   
 XXX-Giselle Parker

Massage table!  

OMG, I am super happy & excited. It's heated and has tons of ultimate comfort perks
that my old one didn't have!  

That old thread down there is a thing of the past...

It seems things have quieted down nicely and peace has been found back in Chi town!
We have all kissed and made up.  Some cheek kisses, some of them french.

Sometimes we just have to agree to disagree

When can I make an appointment?  My back is killing me as of late!  Do you need to screen me? Haha!

NO screening for you, just come over and me and my roommate if she is available will massage u!

Shit dude, it feels like fall already!

Posted By: wrapthoselegs
I'm not sorry I missed that rant fest.  Things got a little heated in a Chicago even though the weather has been so pleasant lately.  Wonder what set everybody off.  And, no, that is not an invitation to repeat.  I scrolled down and read enough of the threads in question.    
 Best of times to all.  Enjoy Chicago's summer for winter will return too soon.  
   
   
Posted By: giselle69
So much unnecessary hatred has slipknoted its way into our community. Does everyone feel good now?  I'm no Angel, I got sucked in as well and am not proud of it.  
     
  In the words of hope Sandoval of Mazzy Star:  
     
  It just occurred, it dawned on me  
  My coming here is not the same  
  Now I can disappear...  
     
  XXX-Giselle Parker

In what way kind sir? Please enlighten those of us who know that it is simply a post to put all unkind thoughts and words to bed...

XXX-Giselle Parker

Westside5659634 reads

Imho, time is better nedicine.  Kinda hard to be insulted one day and then everything disappears the next.  But, if it works for y'all, more power to you.

GoingForIt!419 reads

No...it's just a threAD by her

IsorokuYamamoto406 reads

Phone must be awfully quiet for this thread to get started...............

Posted By: GoingForIt!
No...it's just a threAD by her.  
 

The next one is right around the corner.

Sincerely,

 
Life

Well, that's just pessimistic.  It's a gorgeous day outside so maybe the sunshine will inhabit everyone's souls and make for nice, nice;)

XXX-Giselle Parker

hope so..love you my Cuddlemonster..oxox..

Posted By: giselle69
So much unnecessary hatred has slipknoted its way into our community. Does everyone feel good now?  I'm no Angel, I got sucked in as well and am not proud of it.  
   
 In the words of hope Sandoval of Mazzy Star:  
   
 It just occurred, it dawned on me  
 My coming here is not the same  
 Now I can disappear...  
   
 XXX-Giselle Parker

"So much unnecessary hatred has slipknoted its way into our community. Does everyone feel good now?  I'm no Angel, I got sucked in as well and am not proud of it."

I dunno....'hatred' seems strong. I think it's more or less excessive consternation. Disagreeing, even if with a hint of anger (not hatred), is healthy.  

If anything Gisells...it's a sign of peope's passion for, or appreciation of, the means in which you are making, or supplementing, your living, regardless of the angle from which their various viewpoints eminate. And on that basis alone you should be encouraged and not hope that heated discussions are eliminated. It's good for everyone

I guess you're right.  It never hurts to vent from time to time I suppose.  I sure do miss fun times though because he never would have let things go so far...

XXX-Giselle Parker

IsorokuYamamoto483 reads

"No woman no cry" would be an actual song by the immortal one.  

Posted By: H Dog
"Don't worry be Happy"
-- Modified on 7/18/2014 10:48:17 AM

IsorokuYamamoto379 reads

Exactly. Especially when the thread is commenced by a hooker who guarantees "no drama" in her ads, yet props up her bsc bf when he commences the masterful train wreck of several days ago. Then she follows up with yet another attempted drama inducing thread here. My Chicago ATF's are sitting back smiling at all this. I'll never ever see another new gal here.  

It amazes me all the time these 'busy' ladies have for the boards

you have ATF's...someone let the dogs out..

Posted By: IsorokuYamamoto
Exactly. Especially when the thread is commenced by a hooker who guarantees "no drama" in her ads, yet props up her bsc bf when he commences the masterful train wreck of several days ago. Then she follows up with yet another attempted drama inducing thread here. My Chicago ATF's are sitting back smiling at all this. I'll never ever see another new gal here.  
   
 It amazes me all the time these 'busy' ladies have for the boards.  
   
 

RussianWithLove440 reads

There's always going to be drama where guys and girls play together and money and peoples' egos are involved.  We have competition ingrained in our dna.  There's no avoiding it.   Somebody will always need to feel that their way of hobbying is the best way, and that the providers want their paying dick more than the next guys.  I'm guilty of it too.  We can't really escape who we are as a species.  What we can do, however, is control the way we act on it.  We can be civil and we can be respectful of other people.  

Sometimes I wanna come on here and say "You wouldn't believe what I just did with Betty!  There's no way any of you have had that with her!  Haha!  She also told me I'm handsomer than all of you!"   But you know why I don't?  Because I have tact.  I also know that nobody really gives a shit.  It just instigates a bit of competitive instinct and gets people to fight because, for an instant, they feel slightly challenged.  And they will feel compelled to respond to it.  It's human nature.  I do it too.  When I read a really good review of somebody who had a fantastic time, I'm like fuck.  This is bullshit.  Just wait.  I'm gonna have a better time than he did.  She's going to fuck me harder than him!!!  And then I go off and do something else.  I don't act on it.  Why?  Because it's a completely irrational and self-destructive line of thinking.  Because there's no "winning."   I'm not a bad person for thinking like that, I'm just a bad person if I act on it, particularly in a way that upsets or hurts other people who don't deserve it.  

Sometimes I think this place would be better served if we were separated.  One room for the fellas to handle business in private and another for the ladies to do the same.  Then maybe one room for shenanigans and general discussion.  Because that way most of the fighting would be brief and infrequent and not exaggerated by the fact that there are girls watching and we have to impress.

Posted By: RussianWithLove
There's always going to be drama where guys and girls play together and money and peoples' egos are involved.  We have competition ingrained in our dna.  There's no avoiding it.   Somebody will always need to feel that their way of hobbying is the best way, and that the providers want their paying dick more than the next guys.  I'm guilty of it too.  We can't really escape who we are as a species.  What we can do, however, is control the way we act on it.  We can be civil and we can be respectful of other people.    
   
 Sometimes I wanna come on here and say "You wouldn't believe what I just did with Betty!  There's no way any of you have had that with her!  Haha!  She also told me I'm handsomer than all of you!"   But you know why I don't?  Because I have tact.  I also know that nobody really gives a shit.  It just instigates a bit of competitive instinct and gets people to fight because, for an instant, they feel slightly challenged.  And they will feel compelled to respond to it.  It's human nature.  I do it too.  When I read a really good review of somebody who had a fantastic time, I'm like fuck.  This is bullshit.  Just wait.  I'm gonna have a better time than he did.  She's going to fuck me harder than him!!!  And then I go off and do something else.  I don't act on it.  Why?  Because it's a completely irrational and self-destructive line of thinking.  Because there's no "winning."   I'm not a bad person for thinking like that, I'm just a bad person if I act on it, particularly in a way that upsets or hurts other people who don't deserve it.    
   
 Sometimes I think this place would be better served if we were separated.  One room for the fellas to handle business in private and another for the ladies to do the same.  Then maybe one room for shenanigans and general discussion.  Because that way most of the fighting would be brief and infrequent and not exaggerated by the fact that there are girls watching and we have to impress.  

Posted By: RussianWithLove
There's always going to be drama where guys and girls play together and money and peoples' egos are involved.  We have competition ingrained in our dna.  There's no avoiding it.   Somebody will always need to feel that their way of hobbying is the best way, and that the providers want their paying dick more than the next guys.  I'm guilty of it too.  We can't really escape who we are as a species.  What we can do, however, is control the way we act on it.  We can be civil and we can be respectful of other people.    
   
 Sometimes I wanna come on here and say "You wouldn't believe what I just did with Betty!  There's no way any of you have had that with her!  Haha!  She also told me I'm handsomer than all of you!"   But you know why I don't?  Because I have tact.  I also know that nobody really gives a shit.  It just instigates a bit of competitive instinct and gets people to fight because, for an instant, they feel slightly challenged.  And they will feel compelled to respond to it.  It's human nature.  I do it too.  When I read a really good review of somebody who had a fantastic time, I'm like fuck.  This is bullshit.  Just wait.  I'm gonna have a better time than he did.  She's going to fuck me harder than him!!!  And then I go off and do something else.  I don't act on it.  Why?  Because it's a completely irrational and self-destructive line of thinking.  Because there's no "winning."   I'm not a bad person for thinking like that, I'm just a bad person if I act on it, particularly in a way that upsets or hurts other people who don't deserve it.    
   
 Sometimes I think this place would be better served if we were separated.  One room for the fellas to handle business in private and another for the ladies to do the same.  Then maybe one room for shenanigans and general discussion.  Because that way most of the fighting would be brief and infrequent and not exaggerated by the fact that there are girls watching and we have to impress.  

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