Las Vegas
Certainly do not have the looks or body of a 20 year old but absolutely have the stamina PLUS years and years of experience. I am not an ageist.. occasionally I certainly indulge in the 20 something energy. However generally I prefer men around my own age because we have more in common life wise. And sure you could pick me up in a bar.. I certainly pick up men in bars. But... I do say upfront to them... I want it hard fast and crazy so lets go fuck for 15 minutes, preferably in an alley, and then I am outta there. 
Other thing.. ya have to FIND me in a bar.. AND you have to seduce me. Seems way more easy to do it THIS way.
...behind a dumpster in a nearby ally for $50. I was taken by surprise cuz I've heard of this kinda stuff but never thought it'd happen to me. (This happened before I learned of the Hobby World) I kinda regret telling her no, now. Would have made a good story to pass on to my heirs someday. I was a gentleman, tho and lit her cigarette for her which is why she stopped my in the first place.
Someone in between and see if you can find a better fit... Its sweet that you care about satisfying your partner, but that honestly has nothing to do with age... If you are having fun, so should they... And in the case of hiring an escort, if you aren't having fun, then whats the point?