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I hope you eventually look in the mirror and decide to change your behavior.

Many others have successfully beat the bottle.

I'm rooting for you.
Posted By: Gemma Coreana
 
 Lmfao!!! Their just telling me ur not worth the words!! They are absolutely right... Have wonderful day!! Lmfao lmfao lmfao!!!  
   
 Make up for ur SMALLness by trying to be somebody on a sex board... EVERYONE LISTEN TO HIM cuz he knows all!!! Lmafo lmfao lmfao!!! Hahahahahahahaahahah  
Posted By: ChgoCPA
And when a poster resorts to the "I've gotten a lot of PM's from peeps" is the ultimate sign of losing a debate.    
     
  Also look up the word misogynist...and you feel free to ask around the folks that know CPA.  But again that's what the losers like you babble when you have nothing else to argue.  
     
  I give respect where and when it's earned.  You have not come close to earning it.  But if you do straighten yourself out (as in lay off the booze) and post in a logical format I would certainly consider adding you to the list of those who I consider friends.  
     
  You can believe what you want as far as knowing "stuff"....but you're an easy one to read.  
     
  If you're not careful ROGM may come on this thread and want to make an appointment with you.  He seems to like gals like you.  He doesn't like drunks however....so work on that.  
     
Posted By: Gemma Coreana
Look woman hater, don't talk about or insinuate things you don't know.. Just cuz you've seen couple posts about girls out partying doesn't mean that's all we do!!  I don't like you!! You are a NEGATIVE Piece a crap who hates women & is disrespectful!! So take ur little snarky comments & shove it where the sun don't shine!! I've gotten a lot of PMs from peeps to let this go but I seem not able to cuz the of the distasteful fowl you bring to every thread!!!    Maybe you should have couple of jacks (I don't drink that shit) then you may be a Nicer Board Troll!!!!!

If you are serious about wanting a weekend "date" with a reputable and respected provider think ahead a little please.  At least get pre-screened for a later appt time or be RS because trying to reach another provider on the weekend for a same day appt, just is not going to happen.  Why?  Because most ladies are not available on the weekend or might have plans that keep them from the phone all day.  The chances of getting a response from a reference on a weekend is super super slim to the point I don't even waste my time anymore.    

I just had this happen to me again, new guest who had never contacted me before and was not RS.  Said he had some references and of course from his voice I could tell he wanted to visit now and kept saying he was not far from my area and could be there quick(I told him a very general area).  If I contacted those ladies now the chances of reaching them would have been maybe 2% chance, not to mention the time and effort of collecting the info contacting the ladies and all to not get a response in time.  When I told him this basicly he said well do you want to try to make it happen then?  Point blank, I said no.

Some of you may ask why not...  I would have to collect all the info, look up the ladies to see who I would be contacting and then rudely call them on a Sunday on potentially their day off to ask them if he was ok.  If I do things like normal I would email them which takes time to hear back, but he wanted now so....  Honestly, I did not feel like rushing around trying to make something happen that had such a low chance of working out in the end.  It feels like I am wasting my time and that sucks...  Could have been avoided if I had been contacted on Friday, asked if I am open on Sundays, and given the prescreen info so I could get him ok'd.  Then he could have called me today and asked if I could be available in an hour or 2 and he would have been in there.

Sorry to be so wordy but I thought I would give you all heads up on how to be able to make it work on weekends.  

By the By, I refered him to BP because on weekends that is about the only provider type who might be able to make a last minute weekend appt work out.

Take care all, Sage

I don't work on weekend unless it's my ATF or a repeat calling... I have a very active social life & I love to Confess on the DANCEFLOOR so I will opt to go out instead of entertaining indoors,.. So last minute calls for appt is slim to none.... Also screening takes time, so give that provider enough notice so they can screen you.....

the gals that will complain here about the time wasters sending in screening info and never following through.  No shortage of those posts here.

As for gals on short notice...plenty of them.  Maybe not you or Gemma...but certainly no shortage otherwise  ;)

Is Sunday the official day off?  Seems I haven't seen that on many websites.

Posted By: Sage of Chicago
If you are serious about wanting a weekend "date" with a reputable and respected provider think ahead a little please.  At least get pre-screened for a later appt time or be RS because trying to reach another provider on the weekend for a same day appt, just is not going to happen.  Why?  Because most ladies are not available on the weekend or might have plans that keep them from the phone all day.  The chances of getting a response from a reference on a weekend is super super slim to the point I don't even waste my time anymore.    
   
 I just had this happen to me again, new guest who had never contacted me before and was not RS.  Said he had some references and of course from his voice I could tell he wanted to visit now and kept saying he was not far from my area and could be there quick(I told him a very general area).  If I contacted those ladies now the chances of reaching them would have been maybe 2% chance, not to mention the time and effort of collecting the info contacting the ladies and all to not get a response in time.  When I told him this basicly he said well do you want to try to make it happen then?  Point blank, I said no.  
   
 Some of you may ask why not...  I would have to collect all the info, look up the ladies to see who I would be contacting and then rudely call them on a Sunday on potentially their day off to ask them if he was ok.  If I do things like normal I would email them which takes time to hear back, but he wanted now so....  Honestly, I did not feel like rushing around trying to make something happen that had such a low chance of working out in the end.  It feels like I am wasting my time and that sucks...  Could have been avoided if I had been contacted on Friday, asked if I am open on Sundays, and given the prescreen info so I could get him ok'd.  Then he could have called me today and asked if I could be available in an hour or 2 and he would have been in there.  
   
 Sorry to be so wordy but I thought I would give you all heads up on how to be able to make it work on weekends.    
   
 By the By, I refered him to BP because on weekends that is about the only provider type who might be able to make a last minute weekend appt work out.  
   
 Take care all, Sage

It's one of the best films of the twentieth century

The day the Earth stood still

Even saw it on a Sunday, on short notice.

Posted By: I_run_the_table
It's one of the best films of the twentieth century.  
 

personally I see it on many ladies sites that they just are not available on weekends or need 24hrs notice for them.  Friends and family are off work as well kids are not in school(talking school year) so they want to spend time with them.  It is also a harder time frame to get a sitter without plenty of notice if you have kids and need one(I don't).  Since just about everyone else is off work this is generally the time frame when you go out boating with your friends, summer BBQ's with family, and all those other things that can't be done on weekdays when everyone else is in their 9-5.

Also, screening is alot harder because getting a reference due to all of the above becomes an almost impossible task.

FYI, I AM available weekends had 1 this morning and have another tonight so I am fully happy with that and didn't need another booking.  I just wanted to point out that last minute on a weekend is hard.  If you come in better prepared then you can get your visit's.  RS members are about the only new guests I personally will see on short notice, everything else I have to run through the reference process which takes hours to days not 30mins or less(like RS).

Take care and there are plenty available today you just have to look harder and leave tons of VM messages if you are going on the fly

Link to a previous post about this and the fact a guy posted this and so few responses....

That happened to me.  I tried to get pre-screned but the provider wouldn't bother until I committed to a time.  I was sincerely going to visit her but I cant control the timing.  I can often get away at lunch in the Loop but cant be sure till the day starts.  Frankly,  I get the impression that business is soooo good right now that providers have more clients than they can accommodate.  Well, life goes on.  Sage, your new pics are great!

Why do u always make everything into a dramatic thread... All it said was weekends most providers aren't available & short notices are annoying!!! I think it's just an honest thread Sage post & a well stated one....

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Simply stated many gals bemoan the dudes who ask for a pre-screening.  Do a search here and you'll see that topic brought up with regularity.

If some gals take Sunday off...great.  Many others don't.

 

Posted By: Gemma Coreana
Why do u always make everything into a dramatic thread... All it said was weekends most providers aren't available & short notices are annoying!!! I think it's just an honest thread Sage post & a well stated one....  

-- Modified on 7/13/2014 5:05:21 PM

But it seems you have a snotty side to you about everything & to everyone.. Her thread was great, well stated & I think helps those who don't know any better...   Just saying!!!

Sounds like you're suggesting that a dude should only adhere to what ONE gal is asking him to do.

There are plenty of ways to play this game.

You're starting to sound like some of the gals on the newbie board.  And that's not good.

Posted By: Gemma Coreana
But it seems you have a snotty side to you about everything & to everyone.. Her thread was great, well stated & I think helps those who don't know any better...   Just saying!!!

Dude it's out there for those whom do not know why a providers aren't returning calls/texts/emails etc... Somehow you got oh, there's plenty others out there so "this post" a shitty post tude!!   Maybe you just read too much into the post, it wasn't a negative post but your response to it is NEGATIVE!!!  Are you this negative in real life???  Not every post is to slam anyone or be malicious... We providers aren't evil money loving greedy HOOKERS like you seem to describe us as!!! Actually probably the most sincere, caring, fun ladies any man could ever meet!!   Take a HAPPY PILL once in awhile!!! P

HAPPY SUNDAY!!!
Off to a bday party!!!  
😘😘😘😘😘
GC

Take a few and go dancing.  Yeah, you do like that.

Once again there are many ways to play here.

The louder some want to protest that there's only one "right" way, the more many of the newer players need to be shown that there are other ways.

Now smile...and lighten up.

Posted By: Gemma Coreana
Dude it's out there for those whom do not know why a providers aren't returning calls/texts/emails etc... Somehow you got oh, there's plenty others out there so "this post" a shitty post tude!!   Maybe you just read too much into the post, it wasn't a negative post but your response to it is NEGATIVE!!!  Are you this negative in real life???  Not every post is to slam anyone or be malicious... We providers aren't evil money loving greedy HOOKERS like you seem to describe us as!!! Actually probably the most sincere, caring, fun ladies any man could ever meet!!   Take a HAPPY PILL once in awhile!!! P  
   
 HAPPY SUNDAY!!!  
 Off to a bday party!!!  
 😘😘😘😘😘  
 GC

Get a life & please if you're going to make examples for these other posters.. Learn some manners & learn to read with an open mind.... Stuffy & Negative isn't "The Way" .... Maybe you should have a few & dance thine you wouldn't be sooo damn Negative ..... Oh ,go get ur 4 horsewhiners & let's gain upon someone so everyone can think you're SOMEBODY!!! Lmfao lmfao lmfao!!! I've taken my happy pill darling so please don't ruin it!!! 😘😘😘😘😘

Ps my response twill cme later cuz I'm going to enjoy my party & mingle with some HOT GUYS!!! Happy Sunday!!!

-- Modified on 7/13/2014 7:09:21 PM

Since I don't drink I tend to see things as they are written.  Maybe lay off the juice before you post.

As for my life, it's great.  Thanks for being interested.

If this is how you are IRL, well, I guess there's some out here that like that ditzy attitude.
 

Posted By: Gemma Coreana
Get a life & please if you're going to make examples for these other posters.. Learn some manners & learn to read with an open mind.... Stuffy & Negative isn't "The Way" .... Maybe you should have a few & dance thine you wouldn't be sooo damn Negative ..... Oh ,go get ur 4 horsewhiners & let's gain upon someone so everyone can think you're SOMEBODY!!! Lmfao lmfao lmfao!!! I've taken my happy pill darling so please don't ruin it!!! 😘😘😘😘😘  
   
 Ps my response twill cme later cuz I'm going to enjoy my party & mingle with some HOT GUYS!!! Happy Sunday!!!  

-- Modified on 7/13/2014 7:09:21 PM

Mr. snarky!!!!!    Guess your statement about " I don't post on reg. Board is BS!!! Have wonderful day oh ye who's wise & perverted!!!

IsorokuYamamoto955 reads

Damn girl you could lighten up just a tad?

Posted By: Gemma Coreana
Get a life & please if you're going to make examples for these other posters.. Learn some manners & learn to read with an open mind.... Stuffy & Negative isn't "The Way" .... Maybe you should have a few & dance thine you wouldn't be sooo damn Negative ..... Oh ,go get ur 4 horsewhiners & let's gain upon someone so everyone can think you're SOMEBODY!!! Lmfao lmfao lmfao!!! I've taken my happy pill darling so please don't ruin it!!! 😘😘😘😘😘  
   
 Ps my response twill cme later cuz I'm going to enjoy my party & mingle with some HOT GUYS!!! Happy Sunday!!!  

-- Modified on 7/13/2014 7:09:21 PM

She's providing the entertainment portion of our voyage.

Think she's slept off last nights hangover yet?

Hey...some guys like gals that are drunks and babble nonsense.  And I guess a few even are willing to pay them.  She does have some reviews.  Think any of them are from a Sunday?

Posted By: IsorokuYamamoto
Damn girl you could lighten up just a tad?  
   
Posted By: Gemma Coreana
Get a life & please if you're going to make examples for these other posters.. Learn some manners & learn to read with an open mind.... Stuffy & Negative isn't "The Way" .... Maybe you should have a few & dance thine you wouldn't be sooo damn Negative ..... Oh ,go get ur 4 horsewhiners & let's gain upon someone so everyone can think you're SOMEBODY!!! Lmfao lmfao lmfao!!! I've taken my happy pill darling so please don't ruin it!!! 😘😘😘😘😘  
     
  Ps my response twill cme later cuz I'm going to enjoy my party & mingle with some HOT GUYS!!! Happy Sunday!!!  
   
 -- Modified on 7/13/2014 7:09:21 PM

Mr Snarky... He's the one who thinks he has to put his useless 2 cents into every post ....   Lmfao lmfao lmfao!!! Board trolls!!! You gotta like them for the entertainment!!! Woo whoo!!!

Once you come around from your latest binge do a search to see the last time CPA posted on the Chicago board.

Hint...it's been 3 months.

Seriously...your incessant drivel and nonsensical posts simply shows your proclivity to be indiscreet.  It hasn't gone unnoticed.

It's not fun to watch a drunk.  Get some help before you completely fall into the abyss!!

Posted By: Gemma Coreana
Mr Snarky... He's the one who thinks he has to put his useless 2 cents into every post ....   Lmfao lmfao lmfao!!! Board trolls!!! You gotta like them for the entertainment!!! Woo whoo!!!

Look woman hater, don't talk about or insinuate things you don't know.. Just cuz you've seen couple posts about girls out partying doesn't mean that's all we do!!  I don't like you!! You are a NEGATIVE Piece a crap who hates women & is disrespectful!! So take ur little snarky comments & shove it where the sun don't shine!! I've gotten a lot of PMs from peeps to let this go but I seem not able to cuz the of the distasteful fowl you bring to every thread!!!    Maybe you should have couple of jacks (I don't drink that shit) then you may be a Nicer Board Troll!!!!!

And when a poster resorts to the "I've gotten a lot of PM's from peeps" is the ultimate sign of losing a debate.  

Also look up the word misogynist...and you feel free to ask around the folks that know CPA.  But again that's what the losers like you babble when you have nothing else to argue.

I give respect where and when it's earned.  You have not come close to earning it.  But if you do straighten yourself out (as in lay off the booze) and post in a logical format I would certainly consider adding you to the list of those who I consider friends.

You can believe what you want as far as knowing "stuff"....but you're an easy one to read.

If you're not careful ROGM may come on this thread and want to make an appointment with you.  He seems to like gals like you.  He doesn't like drunks however....so work on that.

Posted By: Gemma Coreana
Look woman hater, don't talk about or insinuate things you don't know.. Just cuz you've seen couple posts about girls out partying doesn't mean that's all we do!!  I don't like you!! You are a NEGATIVE Piece a crap who hates women & is disrespectful!! So take ur little snarky comments & shove it where the sun don't shine!! I've gotten a lot of PMs from peeps to let this go but I seem not able to cuz the of the distasteful fowl you bring to every thread!!!    Maybe you should have couple of jacks (I don't drink that shit) then you may be a Nicer Board Troll!!!!!

GaGambler1071 reads

Not that I want to butt in on a private fight, but it's usually "negative, angry, and bitter" in no particular order.

Ok, back to your private little squabble, I promise not to intervene, but I will set a betting line on who is going to win this little spat if requested. The Betting window is now open. lol

Lmfao!!! Their just telling me ur not worth the words!! They are absolutely right... Have wonderful day!! Lmfao lmfao lmfao!!!  

Make up for ur SMALLness by trying to be somebody on a sex board... EVERYONE LISTEN TO HIM cuz he knows all!!! Lmafo lmfao lmfao!!! Hahahahahahahaahahah

Posted By: ChgoCPA
And when a poster resorts to the "I've gotten a lot of PM's from peeps" is the ultimate sign of losing a debate.    
   
 Also look up the word misogynist...and you feel free to ask around the folks that know CPA.  But again that's what the losers like you babble when you have nothing else to argue.  
   
 I give respect where and when it's earned.  You have not come close to earning it.  But if you do straighten yourself out (as in lay off the booze) and post in a logical format I would certainly consider adding you to the list of those who I consider friends.  
   
 You can believe what you want as far as knowing "stuff"....but you're an easy one to read.  
   
 If you're not careful ROGM may come on this thread and want to make an appointment with you.  He seems to like gals like you.  He doesn't like drunks however....so work on that.  
   
Posted By: Gemma Coreana
Look woman hater, don't talk about or insinuate things you don't know.. Just cuz you've seen couple posts about girls out partying doesn't mean that's all we do!!  I don't like you!! You are a NEGATIVE Piece a crap who hates women & is disrespectful!! So take ur little snarky comments & shove it where the sun don't shine!! I've gotten a lot of PMs from peeps to let this go but I seem not able to cuz the of the distasteful fowl you bring to every thread!!!    Maybe you should have couple of jacks (I don't drink that shit) then you may be a Nicer Board Troll!!!!!

I hope you eventually look in the mirror and decide to change your behavior.

Many others have successfully beat the bottle.

I'm rooting for you.

Posted By: Gemma Coreana
 
 Lmfao!!! Their just telling me ur not worth the words!! They are absolutely right... Have wonderful day!! Lmfao lmfao lmfao!!!  
   
 Make up for ur SMALLness by trying to be somebody on a sex board... EVERYONE LISTEN TO HIM cuz he knows all!!! Lmafo lmfao lmfao!!! Hahahahahahahaahahah  
Posted By: ChgoCPA
And when a poster resorts to the "I've gotten a lot of PM's from peeps" is the ultimate sign of losing a debate.    
     
  Also look up the word misogynist...and you feel free to ask around the folks that know CPA.  But again that's what the losers like you babble when you have nothing else to argue.  
     
  I give respect where and when it's earned.  You have not come close to earning it.  But if you do straighten yourself out (as in lay off the booze) and post in a logical format I would certainly consider adding you to the list of those who I consider friends.  
     
  You can believe what you want as far as knowing "stuff"....but you're an easy one to read.  
     
  If you're not careful ROGM may come on this thread and want to make an appointment with you.  He seems to like gals like you.  He doesn't like drunks however....so work on that.  
     
Posted By: Gemma Coreana
Look woman hater, don't talk about or insinuate things you don't know.. Just cuz you've seen couple posts about girls out partying doesn't mean that's all we do!!  I don't like you!! You are a NEGATIVE Piece a crap who hates women & is disrespectful!! So take ur little snarky comments & shove it where the sun don't shine!! I've gotten a lot of PMs from peeps to let this go but I seem not able to cuz the of the distasteful fowl you bring to every thread!!!    Maybe you should have couple of jacks (I don't drink that shit) then you may be a Nicer Board Troll!!!!!

IsorokuYamamoto817 reads

Me too. Good luck Gemma!

Posted By: ChgoCPA
I hope you eventually look in the mirror and decide to change your behavior.  
   
 Many others have successfully beat the bottle.  
   
 I'm rooting for you.  
   
Posted By: Gemma Coreana
 
  Lmfao!!! Their just telling me ur not worth the words!! They are absolutely right... Have wonderful day!! Lmfao lmfao lmfao!!!    
     
  Make up for ur SMALLness by trying to be somebody on a sex board... EVERYONE LISTEN TO HIM cuz he knows all!!! Lmafo lmfao lmfao!!! Hahahahahahahaahahah  
Posted By: ChgoCPA
And when a poster resorts to the "I've gotten a lot of PM's from peeps" is the ultimate sign of losing a debate.      
       
   Also look up the word misogynist...and you feel free to ask around the folks that know CPA.  But again that's what the losers like you babble when you have nothing else to argue.    
       
   I give respect where and when it's earned.  You have not come close to earning it.  But if you do straighten yourself out (as in lay off the booze) and post in a logical format I would certainly consider adding you to the list of those who I consider friends.    
       
   You can believe what you want as far as knowing "stuff"....but you're an easy one to read.    
       
   If you're not careful ROGM may come on this thread and want to make an appointment with you.  He seems to like gals like you.  He doesn't like drunks however....so work on that.    
       
   
Posted By: Gemma Coreana
Look woman hater, don't talk about or insinuate things you don't know.. Just cuz you've seen couple posts about girls out partying doesn't mean that's all we do!!  I don't like you!! You are a NEGATIVE Piece a crap who hates women & is disrespectful!! So take ur little snarky comments & shove it where the sun don't shine!! I've gotten a lot of PMs from peeps to let this go but I seem not able to cuz the of the distasteful fowl you bring to every thread!!!    Maybe you should have couple of jacks (I don't drink that shit) then you may be a Nicer Board Troll!!!!!

Lmfao!!!! You're very funny with your assumption!!! Good luck to you too.... Lmfao!!!

IsorokuYamamoto819 reads

Discussion board. The ultimate john screening tool.  

Posted By: Gemma Coreana
Look woman hater, don't talk about or insinuate things you don't know.. Just cuz you've seen couple posts about girls out partying doesn't mean that's all we do!!  I don't like you!! You are a NEGATIVE Piece a crap who hates women & is disrespectful!! So take ur little snarky comments & shove it where the sun don't shine!! I've gotten a lot of PMs from peeps to let this go but I seem not able to cuz the of the distasteful fowl you bring to every thread!!!    Maybe you should have couple of jacks (I don't drink that shit) then you may be a Nicer Board Troll!!!!!

I think you're completely reasonable and you absolutely should say no to a request like that. I always contact a new lady several days ahead in case she wants a reference, and I understand that no one is always available 24/7 for that purpose or pretty much any other. Granted he was horny but he could take care of that for himself for a day or two :)

We hobbyists need to be respectful of your time and money. There's no less reason to be polite with you than with anyone else. I personally think there's more reason for respect because you work so hard to give us what we want/need -- and I frankly don't know what I'd do without you.

There are many ways to verify a gentlemen other than contacting another provider. You can use verify him, spokeo, google his name, phone number, address. If you have all that info and he is respectful to you on the phone and all his information checks out, then why do you still need a girls ok?

You might click with him and she didn't and vice versa.  

Your gut instinct is always right also, if you feel he is ok you can always meet in a public place first. I have done this first to do my own screening.

I wish people would quit putting backpage down. I have used it almost exclusively and the majority of the guys I have seen are the gentlemen in town for the conventions. Several have seen me several days they are in town. If I didn't take a chance on meeting them for a drink first then I would not have had the good times I have had.

A gentlemen I recently saw we met at a pub, he didn't know about the signature room bar so we went there for drinks also then back to his hotel and it ended up being an overnight. This was a backpage guy!!! He has now said that I will be his exclusive Chicago gal.

The more you girls make it so hard on the gentlemen to be screened the more they will go to backpage and the diamonds in the rough will find the girls like myself that are willing to take a chance to meet in public and screen them for myself.

I hope that you girls will reconsider your "strict" screening process there are others ways to screen and still be safe

GaGambler927 reads

Why don't you save your criticism about telling other women how to screen for Sage? She is the one who started a thread about how potential customers should avoid getting on her bad side.

She, just like you, are free to run your business the way you see fit, but when you start lecturing your potential clients and other ladies who have every bit as much right to state how THEY do things, that's when you get people telling YOU how to do things. Or is suppose it's fine when you and Sage tell other hookers how to run their business, but it's not OK for them to return the favor?

since when did I tell anyone how to run their business?  I was commenting to the guests how best to try to actually get a date with the provider you pick on the weekend.  It seems somehow my message was lost somehow

GaGambler854 reads

I would have no issue, but you made it sound as if you were speaking for ALL quality providers and then suggested people who disagreed might be better suited to BP as they were the only providers who would be open to such a request, and you did so in a rather offhanded manner, basically using BP as a pejorative.

That's where your message went wrong, if your message  was "lost" it was due to your own rather superior attitude in the wording of said message.

I book on short notice both during the week, and on weekends as my schedule is varied and I am not one to plan my sex life days in advance. Actually it was only yesterday that I booked with what turned out to be a very lovely woman on short notice who may very well turn out to be a favorite. If I had taken your advice, I guess I would have been sitting around all day with my dick in my hand instead of enjoying the company of a beautiful young lady that I had never contacted before that very day.

Run your business your way, but please don't try to lord your way of doing business over the rest of us. Personally I don't react well to the backhanded insults that those of us who don't do it your way should be relegated to BP, and from the looks of some of the other responses, it appears I am not the only one.

I can say one positive thing has come out of this thread, Mya's refreshing attitude has put her on my "Must not miss" list. Speaking strictly for myself, I like it when a woman is eager and appreciative for my business and doesn't ask me to jump through hoops for HER convenience. I can say I really like her attitude. Yours? not so much. Or perhaps you were just guilty of bad wording? I guess we can simply chalk it up to that, deal?

I should have said me, sometimes I speak in generalities and maybe that gets taken wrong

Also, last minute is fine with me if a guest is RS...  If not it is really REALLY hard to say yes I can see you but wait I have to hear back from so and so.  I don't need a guest to plan out their meeting necessarily but a pre screen(which I like alot, but it seems others do not like) helps me there.  

So say you wanted to visit me at some point in the next 6mo or so(which is unlikely seeing as we have a hard time communicating here, but this is just an example) and you send me all your info and references.  Now I have time to get you checked at my leisure and make sure you are who you say you are to my satisfaction.  Then 2weeks later you contact me on Saturday and wonder if I am available in 1hr.  If I am available then you are in like Flynn.  You may not like doing things that way though, which is fine.  

You are free to do things however you like, so am I and we can both do whatever we feel safe with.  Your thing works for you, mine for me.  I think yes, we can totally agree to disagree on this too.  I think there are alot of ways to run this industry but I do reinforce that weekends are harder to schedule without notice, triple hard on the weekends.

Take care all and stay safe.  Make sure you do what makes you feel safe and never compromise yourself

GaGambler893 reads

Weekends might be harder for you to schedule without notice, but you don't speak for all hookers any more than I speak for all johns.

My experience is that for a short notice appointment, which accounts for virtually all of my appointments, weekends don't seem to be a bit more difficult for me than any other day of the week. That's MY experience, and I am not saying that MY experience is going to be mirrored by anybody else.

I do appreciate your softening in tone regarding this issue, but you calling us ever meeting professionally "unlikely" is a gross understatement for more reasons than I can count, but I am sure that fact is not going to cost you a moments worth of sleep tonight. lmao

but to give in on the "strict" screening that makes me feel safe which includes multiple ways of screening combined then I feel I am then compromising myself, and potentially all of my past guests as well.  Screening is a personal thing and each lady has their own comfort zone, mine just happen to be really high.  I do not feel going more lenient will do anything but make me more paranoid and thus compromise my ability to perform well compromising my service.  Yes, I do rely on references if a gent is not RS, but I use that ALONG with other methods that together complete my screening process.  My thoughts are if you want to have the most intimate of times with me, then I need certain things to be able to feel comfortable enough to offer them.  So no, I am not rethinking anything.  You do what makes you feel comfy and I will do what makes me feel comfy.

Also, where in the heck did you hear me put down BP?  I didn't.  The ladies there seem to have other ways of screening and post often so you know who is available and when.  I figured it would be his best chance to score a date.  We all advertise different places, it works and that is what need to happen is to make your advertising work for you.  

On the last note, I don't want to be crazy busy.  I am fine with being low volume and only seeing 1, maybe 2 and often no visitors in a day.  I want to make sure each experience is genuine and I can't do that if I let every Tom, Dick, and Joe Shmo in for a visit.  I would be spread to thin and that is not what I want to be or the type of experience I want to offer.  

So we will agree to disagree, you do your thing and I do mine.  I was just pointing out to gentleman that it can be difficult with everything weekends entail to set up a last minute appt.

Thanks for putting it out there!

Reminds me of a couple weekends back getting verbally chewed for not picking up the phone and taking a 6am Sunday appointment.

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