CavalierServente's smart ass comment about 47 "real" orgasms earlier brought this question to mind - how do guys not know when it is real or fake? I don't get it. With a real orgasm, there are strong contractions. The stronger the orgasm, the stronger the contractions. Those really can't be faked. I pretty clearly feel that happening when it happens. Seems pretty clear - contractions = orgasm. No contractions = no orgasm.
Am I missing something here?Muscle spasms in the thighs!
XXX-Giselle parker
Am I missing something here?
Yes, a sure sign! And sometimes a little giggling...
I occasionally orgasm in a sort of "different" way - through slow meditative processes, nipple play or autonomous sensory meridan response (ASMR). ASMR is like a brain orgasm, a bit hard to explain until you've experienced it! Just something to think about and research.
But yes, vaginal contractions are a sure sign of a classic orgasm in a woman - but I can only speak for myself and the limited amount of women I've been with. There's no mistaking when a man orgasms, lol!
There are different types of orgasms than a traditional physical orgasm.
For example, if someone makes me squirt, I cum but I don't "orgasm."
That being said, I think in this context women who may have a harder time orgasming may "fake" it due to time constraints and satisfaction of the client.
I typically cum if someone is focused on it - sometimes several times. If I don't, I have a hard time saying I did though. But for me, I can be completely satisfied with sex without full-on orgasm.