Here Is what happened..
A gent contacted me and set an appt. 30mins be4 the appt time texts and cancels saying he is leaving town. 2wks later texts all day saying he will b back the 22nd. on the 22nd says he isn't back yet Says the 1st wkend in aug. Saturday say he will b back monday.
Sunday night texts in the middle of the night to "chat" I ask him what day n time n session So I can pencil him in. He says 2pm monday. Wake up to a text saying nevermind your to much business .
What would you do if u were in my shoes?
thats what I did but just don't get the point of games alot of ppl play these days. what happened to direct to the point n discreet? then once u meet having a good time..
Don't let it put a dark cloud on your day.
for future references, I always save contact numbers & texts from these type of individualsr for at least 3 months... It really shocks them when they try this again & they never contact me again!
A gent contacted me and set an appt. 30mins be4 the appt time texts and cancels saying he is leaving town. 2wks later texts all day saying he will b back the 22nd. on the 22nd says he isn't back yet Says the 1st wkend in aug. Saturday say he will b back monday.
Sunday night texts in the middle of the night to "chat" I ask him what day n time n session So I can pencil him in. He says 2pm monday. Wake up to a text saying nevermind your to much business .
What would you do if u were in my shoes?
Bad enough if he is just a clown wasting people's time by being an idiot and has nothing better to do with his life than play games but if I was a provider I would not want to even consider meeting someone with behavior like this.. God knows what he'd be like in person one on one behind closed door. I'd consider my personal safety...
It was great of you to give him a second chance but when he canceled on you the second you should have blocked and ignored him. Nobody needs to have their time wasted like that.
post his handle and number for other providers to see (here and on the provider only board), just in case that idiot tries this again with another provider...which he will.
i would but they won't let me on the providers board no idea why.. I have 3 pages of reviews n been a provider since 2007
Where can I find the Provider Only forum?
Nobody knows you're a dog. Point being you never know who people are on the Internet. Probably some 18-year-old kid living in his parents home and just goofing around.
Ya since smart phones the bizz has gone down hill.. every kid n SW has one and can get on the net and waste everyones time.
This has happened to me, on occasion. While I enjoy chatting and exchanges between visits, and have actually made some very close friends in the process, I understand. There are 2 possibilities:
1. There are select gentlemen who require a certain chemistry and connection with their companion. They like to engage before meeting, and enjoy a more complete experience. That is a god thing.
But...he could be:
2. He's a time waster who is looking for attention. While there are some who prefer to connect prior to meeting, which is perfectly understandable and can add to the experience, there are certain guys who enjoy simply messing with you. They have the idea that you're supposed to accommodate them constantly, and never schedule or follow through with arrangements. I've even heard from some who claim, "I had a girlfriend who was an escort, so I know the business," or "I've often helped escorts out of a jam," and so on.. It's an ego boost and a ploy for attention.
If he's not genuine and you're certain he's the 1st option, I remedy this with responding, "What date and time would you like?" If he's a chronic cancellation, you know how to handle that one! You handled this perfectly. He responded that you are "too much about business," because he realized you're not falling for his apparent ploy.
It's fun to connect with people. But if he's a waste of your time, cut him off - as you did. 