One I feel I will have a connection with and an enjoyable evening as I prefer the longer dates, decent high marked reviews, and as someone else said too... will I feel safe.. One who seems down to earth and not full of themselves or all about themselves..
always wondered whats goes thru a guys head when picking a provider...
and spell, but only after I look at her photos to determine if she is up to my high standards. Then I check for reviews to make sure she can perform to my satisfaction and doesn't charge an ounce of gold to get between her legs.
Will I be safe. Will she be friendly and not rip me off. Is she clean and disease free.
Most guys have a short list. My eyes go straight to two fields on the review. If both of those are what I like then I read the reviews. If it sounds like the kind of session I'm partial too then yay for me
One I feel I will have a connection with and an enjoyable evening as I prefer the longer dates, decent high marked reviews, and as someone else said too... will I feel safe.. One who seems down to earth and not full of themselves or all about themselves..
The first and obvious is attraction. Then it comes down to what will cause me not to call.
1. Too long winded. I don't want to read two paragraphs about how great you are. I have found the best providers usually don't oversell themselves.
2. If the girl discounts herself too much or offers a 15 minute special there is usually something wrong. Why would a good provider feel the need to undercut the competition?
3. Chicks who describe their body and how beautiful they are usually too full of themselves.
Hope that helps.
I am a Blonde lover LOL. I love Blondes preferably taller than me, not skinny, big boobs fake or real, loves to DFK, loves DATY and my limit is 3 Benjamin Franklin. Thanks to TER Search, it is easy to find my girls.
...if that's happening when I first meet her , then everything else is likely to work out very well in the end 
''9'' in performance- then I check price-I'm a little long in the tooth and on a fixed income and I won't spend over a certain figure- and then the menu for things I like-this has worked quite well for me in my 7 years in the hobby-good topic, Annie
well I have always wondered y clients pick the providers.. Helps providers also know what they can work on aswell
Solid reviews
Mature (prefer 35+)
Non-smoker (since I like to kiss......)
Oral (enjoys both directions of that)
But the MAIN thing never shows up on a 'scale' or 'grading system' is "Attitude". I want to spend some time with a fun lady who's happy, enjoys her work and seems to enjoy the company of men. That's the tough part to try to 'read' about from the Reviews, but that IS something that can bee seen by her postings here! Every lady's post here is actually an "Ad". Some 'get that' many do not.
What would give "yourself" for your "looks".?
Your question is totally irrelevant to the thread and I gave my personal reasons for selection---1rob...but since you asked....10+.....out 8-)
you are aware that if a provider doesn't offer certain things yet the client would rate her a 7 or higher he cant give her that due sites rules
I know it's a TER rule, but I don't care for it. I've had some extraordinary erotica massage sessions that up would rate a 9 or 10.
At the risk of sound like a commercial, there is something to be said for going through an agency such as www.mskatemarx.com. She gives me the piece of mind that comes from knowing the lady will be safe and a proven commodity. Some of my best encounters have been from referrals from other ladies, as they usually will recommend friends from within this special sisterhood. I have used Backpage, but only as a starting place. I won't connect with a Backpage connection unless there are solid TER reviews (TER is the best). I tend to prefer women within 15-20 years of my age (I'm 57) and as someone else mentioned, I like a lady who can speak in complete sentences without a lot of misspellings, poor grammar and "hood-rat" talk. Am I too picky? I don't think so. Staying inside these guidelines has served me well here in Jacksonville. But thanks for the post.
Whenever I get the opportunity to really get to know someone, they tell me what was going on in their minds. They usually confide that they've watched me for some time..then, they say part has to do with the fact they can't see my face clearly and that the mystery was exciting. They add:
1. They like my intellectual qualities.
2. The fact that I am elusive.
3. They like the way that I build somewhat of a connection with them without even communicating directly (something about my site making them feel as though they know me.)
The "experience" versus "by-the-hour." But men are visual creatures; the above is only 50% and the balance is visual.