Hello,
I am preparing to set up an appointment with a provider, and I would like to make a couple special requests for our time together. However, I know it is very important to be discrete in those first phone conversations--I don't want to say anything that I shouldn't. I want to request that she wear a particular outfit, and I want her to bring some toys (specifically, I want her to bring a dildo). Is it OK to just ask something like, "Can you bring some toys to the appointment?" Please advise.
Thanks!
once you clear any hurdles and are able to set and make an appointment, at that time, using proper discretion, you can ask about your requests.
Most providers realize that guys like certain outfits so asking for a specific one, if she has, shouldn't be a problem.
And most providers know that guys like toys so many times, they will bring some along. If there's something specific you're looking for, first ask if she has any toys....
If she's cool with the toys, ask her if she has the particular dildo you're wanting since there are so many different size, shapes and colors...
I agree. Many clients bring the outfits & toys they want the provider to use.
Another idea maybe, if you dont want to scare her off on phone is just go out and buy exactly what you want.Keep it in the package and when she and you are getting more intimate in person, ask her if its ok to use
I always like gifts....especially when I get to show them off or try them out right away!
good idea to keep it in the package to show it's brand new and not used...
BUT keep in mind that some girls might be just a little leary about you bringing something in a brown paper bag. I would bring some goodies in a brown paper bag (there are a few great bakeries around me) with some snacks and the first thing questioned was:
what's in the bag?
I have a friend that runs a dungeon and would hang out there once in a while. You'd be amazed at what guys would bring in, in a brown bag....
Ok, more like you woouldn't believe the stories.
RH