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Too much control leads to no control.  Try reducing or eliminating expectations.  Go for a nice massage, enjoy the body work, enjoy the company.  i find being in the moment allows all the other things to sort of take care of themselves.  I've had session where I didn't come, yet had a great time and left highly energized.  

Posted By: oargerela
Maybe I'm over thinking these or too much in my head that I've been experiencing performance anxiety attack lately, even with the help of ED meds, sometimes doubling up my dosage and more and more sessions I'm having resulting a delayed reactions and sometimes I couldn't finish no matter how hard I tried. Hot ladies, toys, porno, doubles and other helpful fantasies not really helping. I've tried resting few days in between to restore my tank, exercise, takes all kinds of vitamins and still  missing the wonderful emotion, the sensation when you make the big "orgasm" I need consistensy, but not working. Maybe age is finally catching out with me and have these ideas that I am still a twenty years old stud that think I can shoot my load across the room and cum multiple times in a few minutes or maybe I'm having too much sex that my body and my sex organs not responding to my maybe imaginary craving or urges for sex is finally reaching the end. These feelings really, really sucks. I've consulted my physician and he gives me the clean bill of health, physically no problem, maybe I'll see a shrink or a neuro surgeon to twick my brain and and remove my urgies, or just cut the son of gun off and throw it away, WTF to do if you can't get horny or cum. Need input, enlighten me or share if you have experiences like me. BTW I am 68 YO.

Maybe I'm over thinking these or too much in my head that I've been experiencing performance anxiety attack lately, even with the help of ED meds, sometimes doubling up my dosage and more and more sessions I'm having resulting a delayed reactions and sometimes I couldn't finish no matter how hard I tried. Hot ladies, toys, porno, doubles and other helpful fantasies not really helping. I've tried resting few days in between to restore my tank, exercise, takes all kinds of vitamins and still  missing the wonderful emotion, the sensation when you make the big "orgasm" I need consistensy, but not working. Maybe age is finally catching out with me and have these ideas that I am still a twenty years old stud that think I can shoot my load across the room and cum multiple times in a few minutes or maybe I'm having too much sex that my body and my sex organs not responding to my maybe imaginary craving or urges for sex is finally reaching the end. These feelings really, really sucks. I've consulted my physician and he gives me the clean bill of health, physically no problem, maybe I'll see a shrink or a neuro surgeon to twick my brain and and remove my urgies, or just cut the son of gun off and throw it away, WTF to do if you can't get horny or cum. Need input, enlighten me or share if you have experiences like me. BTW I am 68 YO.

It isn't.

Age is not our friend when it comes to sexual functioning. I'm 62 and have always been as horny as a 3 balled bobcat, but in the last few years I've felt performance decline.

What I've done is taken nutritional advice from my tantrika who advises me to take ginseng tea, walnuts, and goji berries every day.  I do.  It worked.  Bananas and pineapple juice are also good choices.  There may even be something to this paleo diet thing.  I'm starting to take notice more and more of it.

Beyond that be well hydrated (Your organs need lots of water to flush impurities away.)  Also be well rested and do what you can to eliminate stress from your life (Yoga and/or meditation work for that, also exercise.)

Your body is the temple of your soul, and also the engine that keeps your meat from loafing.

Take good care of it and you'll be able to forestall the inevitable.

That, I'm afraid, is about as good as it will get.

But considering all, that's not too bad.

doing nothing special before an encounter?   Just let the gal work her magic.  You might be surprised.  And stop thinking that you're still a 20 year old stud; that only adds to the pressure and the problem.  I  once had a bad experience with a gal who put pressure on me because she was getting tired and gave me a time limit!  I think it was 5 minutes, but it may have well been 5 seconds.   The result would have been the same.

It doesn't sound like age, it sounds like you're burned out.  

For now, I'd cut out all of the "How can I make this wilder?" stuff, and also cut out the abstinence (resting few days).  If you're able to see one or two girls consistently, for maybe a month?  Just being totally boring, THEN come back and tell us what's wrong.

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Too much control leads to no control.  Try reducing or eliminating expectations.  Go for a nice massage, enjoy the body work, enjoy the company.  i find being in the moment allows all the other things to sort of take care of themselves.  I've had session where I didn't come, yet had a great time and left highly energized.  

Posted By: oargerela
Maybe I'm over thinking these or too much in my head that I've been experiencing performance anxiety attack lately, even with the help of ED meds, sometimes doubling up my dosage and more and more sessions I'm having resulting a delayed reactions and sometimes I couldn't finish no matter how hard I tried. Hot ladies, toys, porno, doubles and other helpful fantasies not really helping. I've tried resting few days in between to restore my tank, exercise, takes all kinds of vitamins and still  missing the wonderful emotion, the sensation when you make the big "orgasm" I need consistensy, but not working. Maybe age is finally catching out with me and have these ideas that I am still a twenty years old stud that think I can shoot my load across the room and cum multiple times in a few minutes or maybe I'm having too much sex that my body and my sex organs not responding to my maybe imaginary craving or urges for sex is finally reaching the end. These feelings really, really sucks. I've consulted my physician and he gives me the clean bill of health, physically no problem, maybe I'll see a shrink or a neuro surgeon to twick my brain and and remove my urgies, or just cut the son of gun off and throw it away, WTF to do if you can't get horny or cum. Need input, enlighten me or share if you have experiences like me. BTW I am 68 YO.

The first time getting off for me was an issue.. I couldn't believe it.. Then I started worrying about it... then it got worse.. I find performance anxiety increases with someone new.. so right now.. I am exclusive to one girl.. complteley.. she's retired.. we are both tested clean.. so that also eliminates the need for a lot of other stuff.. we've talked about it.. she worried I will fall off the wagon and I told her that the minute I do that.. my clean bill of health is no longer valid.. we might as well be married...

If you're tired or lack sexual interest, it could be low testosterone. A simple blood test will tell. With a testosterone supplement I'm told I perform like a 30 year old. One girl said she should charge me extra. Before that I had reached the point I thought I would never be able to penetrate a girl again.

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