From crossdressing, to tease and denial, to BDSM. There are foot fetishes, clothing fetishes, and some really wild kinks and fantasies. In my case (I'm a submissive but not a Domme) I am fetish friendly in that I will cater to most fetishes, or in a few cases, while something might not be my thing, I know someone else who does enjoy it. I do not scoff at someone's fantasy or request, regardless. The only way to know for sure if someone caters to your particular fetish or kink is to ask.
When ladies post this, what kind of fetishes are we talking? Or what are some of the weirdest/craziest fetishes requested and did u participate?
From crossdressing, to tease and denial, to BDSM. There are foot fetishes, clothing fetishes, and some really wild kinks and fantasies. In my case (I'm a submissive but not a Domme) I am fetish friendly in that I will cater to most fetishes, or in a few cases, while something might not be my thing, I know someone else who does enjoy it. I do not scoff at someone's fantasy or request, regardless. The only way to know for sure if someone caters to your particular fetish or kink is to ask.
I don't have any wild fetishes that i'd request. I'm just a leg and ass man so greek tours are my thing!
So, I'm one of the ladies that advertises as fetish-friendly. Overall, it means that I bring an open-minded and nonjudgmental attitude to kinky requests. Many people shame those with fetishes as sickos and assume they are terrible people, which I don't think is true at all. We can't necessarily help what turns us on - and it's how we act, not what we fantasize about, that defines our morality. Say that someone has rape fantasies - I don't believe that makes them a bad person unless they actually rape someone. If they want to hire a provider to act the fantasy out consensually (using safewords etc.), more power to them!
When people have a kinky secret, it can be socially devastating if their partner or social circle finds out - so I enjoy offering a discreet way for people to bring those fantasies to life. Often, I feel like a therapist and maintain the same level of confidentiality.
Even if I am not willing to fulfill a person's *actual* fetish, I may be open to finding a way to meet that person's needs via talking dirty, role playing, or fantasizing together in a session. For example, if someone has an amputation fetish, I'm willing to talk dirty about cutting off their arm so long as it's crystal clear that this is fantasy.
There is a special section on my website dedicated to Fetish which lists some activities that I enjoy and have experience with 