I think if you met the right lady, you would get this all the time. I truly take pleasure in what I do and am authentically attracted to older men. I take great pride in trying to be the complete GFE package which is all of the things that you mentioned. Do you read a ladies reviews before you see her? Usually you can get a feel for how a lady is through her reviews; IE whether or not she is a TRUE gfe or just puts GFE on her site because she thinks thats what you're supposed to do.
~J.L
Having a beautiful woman:
1. Show some "affection" - INITIATE a kiss/hug/hand hold. If we always initiate then it just feels like we're exercising our paying client rights (which we are).
2. Show some sincere appreciation during the date for gifts, dinner, trips, or just holding the door open - a warm "thank you" or hug may work just fine.
3. Drop a compliment. Find something to compliment a man on without making it sound too fake (i.e. telling me you love my big dick is so fake I almost start laughing).
So why is it so hard? Even with the premium $ "luxury-elite-first class" ladies. Seems to be more difficult for some than a BBBJTCNQNS.
I get more sincere compliments from the married ladies at work and more appreciation from my airline. It could be me...and not hearing it makes me feel like I'm near death heading toward 50 (the opposite of what I'm looking for). Oh well - as long as I feel young and the sex is good, right? Guess I'm looking in the wrong business for both. Agree???
I always thank my gentlemen. I am sorry you have had the experiences you have had. Maybe quit seeing the younger gals and give us older refined and well aged girls a chance.. wink wink...
after all I am told I look like Katie Couric and she isn't all that bad now is she?
I do not know your 'type', but it might help for you to evaluate why you are drawn to those types of ladies.
Sure, we are all human, but what you are experiencing is due to their poor character - that of which is not indicative of every companion out there.
Hope you have better luck though! Good ones are there! :-
You're looking for experiences that aren't forced and that are genuine. If I genuinely think something is awesome about you, I will definitely tell you. I have clients that come see me directly from suit and tie jobs, and I love a man in a suit. I always tell them how dapper they look. Giving a lady something to compliment you about will generally illicit a genuine compliment.
As for dates? Some women don't enjoy PDA. if high levels of PDA are important to you, I'd stress this before booking the date. I'm very affectionate privately, and very flirtatious in public. But when most providers and clients are concerned with discretion, PDA becomes a touchy area (no pun really intended).
Either communicate more thoroughly that these things are really important to you (especially PDA), or start seeing more genuinely charismatic women.
I think if you met the right lady, you would get this all the time. I truly take pleasure in what I do and am authentically attracted to older men. I take great pride in trying to be the complete GFE package which is all of the things that you mentioned. Do you read a ladies reviews before you see her? Usually you can get a feel for how a lady is through her reviews; IE whether or not she is a TRUE gfe or just puts GFE on her site because she thinks thats what you're supposed to do.
~J.L
Great to hear many are helping to cure midlife crisis! My hope was to remind ladies that these are simple things to keep in mind for us older guys no matter how confident they may appear. It seems that even some of the best in the biz forget and become more focused on appearing interesting or their bedroom performance.
Also, we all get the "thanks, I had a great time" which is fine but equivalent to "thanks for shopping at Target, please come again". Follow up messages are great (though after the fact).
Thanks to those who keep us young at heart!
Hobbying is not dating.
True - hobbling isn't dating but Who's looking for a free date here. Just an experience with a lady that is not available in one's current situation which believe it or not is about more than a good romp.
Also. TER reviews are great to primarily know what to expect in the bedroom (or couch or bathroom or kitchen), rarely do they accurately describe the fulfillment of the above.
"I'm definitely going to hell but I'll have all the best stories to tell" - Frank Turner
I certainly don't play this game for the compliments but if that is what you're into just about every provider takes requests...good luck dude!
1. Show some "affection" - INITIATE a kiss/hug/hand hold. If we always initiate then it just feels like we're exercising our paying client rights (which we are).
2. Show some sincere appreciation during the date for gifts, dinner, trips, or just holding the door open - a warm "thank you" or hug may work just fine.
3. Drop a compliment. Find something to compliment a man on without making it sound too fake (i.e. telling me you love my big dick is so fake I almost start laughing).
So why is it so hard? Even with the premium $ "luxury-elite-first class" ladies. Seems to be more difficult for some than a BBBJTCNQNS.
I get more sincere compliments from the married ladies at work and more appreciation from my airline. It could be me...and not hearing it makes me feel like I'm near death heading toward 50 (the opposite of what I'm looking for). Oh well - as long as I feel young and the sex is good, right? Guess I'm looking in the wrong business for both. Agree???