My appointments are generally right after lunch hour. After an a appointment (I generally make 90 to 120 minute appointments) I mentioned to a lady that I was going to get something to eat and wonder if she would like to join me. It was an enjoyable time as we discussed subjects unrelated to the hobby. Over time, and if time allowed her, we would meet for lunch and then go to our appointment. If I was in the area, I would call to see if she wanted to met for lunch. In short, the social aspect of our acquaintance was strictly social. The business aspect of our acquaintance was strictly business. She is happily retired, but we still meet for lunch, coffee, etc. to catch up on families and common interest.
As a hobbyist one of my least favorite things to do is to actually handle the exchange. It's too transactional.
Why doesn't anyone offer a membership club experience? There has to be some value in that for the provider, given the fact that all the health clubs certainly aren't pushing "pay as you pump" options.
What if a girl offered a one-year membership for $10,000? I realize that it needs boundaries (like no more than once a week) and a hell of a lot of trust (which a known provider could gain)...just wondering. Even seems logical for the guy who is trying to be discreet who has to keep taking cash out every week equal to the amount of the encounter but never having that cash in his wallet when his wife's looking for cash.
Anyway...curious....and possibly interested (PM).
for a volume discount. Basically you pay a set amount and it is agreed that you will get so many hours for that price. Usually at a discount. So say you meet a lady that is normally 350hr, she agree's to do 5hrs for you anytime within the next year for 1500. That saves you 250 and you do not have to bring cash each time unless you choose to tip.
Generally ladies do not like long term arrangements like that because the money could be spent and if you choose after 6mo not to visit with her anymore the $ are gone but you will likely want a refund for your remaining time. If there is not an agreement in place that states you would get your $ back then it is very unlikely you would.
So you might want to ask your favorite ladies if they offer a prepay package.
Another thing, in my experience especially right now.... Most guys are having to save up to visit so the idea of having to come up with a large donation is hard for them. Also, while the prepay have been popular off and on many things factor in with those. Is your provider going to keep on top of how many you have left, will she be honest about it? Will she have times when she refuses you because she needs cash paying guests to make expenses? While I am more then upfront and honest about these things and would like to hope all others are, I have heard that is not the case. This industry does not always breed the most honest and caring individuals. So if you choose to do this, make sure that you can trust her.
Lastly, it kinda does lock you into just 1 girl. Many like to see just 1 but as many like variety.
Just my thoughts, Sage
A lot of trust required, and I'd be no more willing to pay a large amount of $ in advance for hours later than I'd expect a provider would want to provide the hours in advance for $ later.
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You see, prepaying like that means i'm indebted to you; I owe you something. You prepay me $10,000 for a year and regardless of boundaries, you feel like I owe you something. And I do. And I don't like owing anyone anything. Plus, how am I going to explain a huge lump sum like that to anyone? How could you explain a huge lump sum like that? Little amounts are easy to hid. 10,000? not so much.
Not to mention prepaying like that really takes away the fact that this is a service. GFE is great, but I'm not your girlfriend; the transaction keeps both of us firmly planted in reality that this is indeed a transaction. Even if the transaction is momentary, it's there. The transaction is the boundary.
I gladly take prepay for individual sessions from established clients, but that's as far as I'll go.
I have learned. I have done it, and every time I tried to schedule, her availability didnt match
my time, yet I would see her advertising on various sites. The only thing I got to kiss was my money goodbye.
1 Hour appt = $192/hour. (10,000/52)
2 hour appt = $96/hour
However, I offer a monthly "only you" plan for 24,000 with email exchanges, phone calls, dates, overnights, excursuons, etc. I'm his girlfriend.
The reason = I'd be busier with that than I've ever been lol.
I have learned, however, that whenever I've given deals that aren't on the menu, I.e. OTC dinner or chat, or even accepting above my rate, (besides the typical tip,) they have been the highest maintenance and most demanding of my time... (not in a mean way, but definitely time consuming clients).
So your idea is actually a good one to have on the 'secret' menu. But there have to be boundaries and discipline on both parts to keep those time and other boundaries in tact. If the provider so chooses to go outside of the agreed boundaries, it sends mixed signals to the client, which isn't fair.