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I do not like these stories because we have all been there. Both hobbyists and providers. I understand when you have to pay for  the room or the gas or the snacks/beverages (that I always provide).
Hope it goes better next time.

Love
Zana

Hello fellow gents!  Want to share a very disappointing experience from earlier this week.  There was a provider I had my eyes on (she only does outcall), she had one very positive review on TER, and the review was from a guy who has plenty of other reviews, both good and okay, and seems like a legitimate and honest reviewer.  I don't mean to call BS on his review, but my experience came nowhere close to his.

We exchanged txts the previous week, told her the area where I'd be and what the protocol should be.  We exchanged info very easily and promptly.  She told me to txt her the day before to confirm the time.  That day came, I dropped my cash on the room, checked in, and sent her a txt.  She was very responsive, we setup a apt for the following morning, sent her the exact address and name of the hotel.  She confirmed and sent back that she was looking forward to seeing me tomorrow (around 4pm).  I told her to have a great night, and I thought this is going very well!

Then the next morning comes and it's only 10 minutes prior to our apt, haven't heard anything from her.  I send a txt saying good morning and to let me know when she arrives so I can send room number.  Ten minutes go by and nothing.  I sent a txt asking if we're still on.  Nothing.  20 minutes go by and I txt her to just let me know if she's late or needs to reschedule.  Nothing.  No reply at all.  So my morning goes by and I am high-n-dry.  Go back home, checking out the posts, and that afternoon, she posts another ad.  So I send a txt saying that I hope she's okay and asking what happened.  No reply.  I have a buddy who shares the lifestyle, so I tell him about this.  I ask him to contact her looking for an apt.  She replies to him within 5 minutes.  Meanwhile she completely ignores my txt.  I still, more than 48 hours later have not heard a single thing back from her.

I am not relaying this story to get sympathy points, but as a public service announcement.  This provider (despite her 1 favorable review) is IMO very bad news.  I cannot leave a review as from TER's POV, "there is nothing to review".  I am pretty new to this hobby (about 1.5 years), and I've been advised (for etiquette) to refrain from identifying her in this post.  If you would like the details, name and number, shoot me a PM.

Best of luck to all you hobbyists out there, and hope that this doesn't happen to any of you as well.  Also, best of wishes to all you mature, classy, and responsible providers who would never dream of treating a client like this

Unfortunately, this can and does happen.  It's really unfortunate when it does, especially when it's a legit NCNS.  No contact whatsoever? She answered your friend's appointment request? Totally lame and inexcusable.  I value my time, and know how irritating it is when a client NCNS; I'd never dream of doing that to a client.  Time is a high-value commodity.  

On the 'bright side', if there is one, at least you didn't waste money on gas and parking. I know it's little consolation, but things could always be worse. ;)

I'd also like to thank you for sharing your story in a totally classy and appropriate way.  I don't condone crappy behavior at all, but this post shows that you actually do care about being discrete.  

There are lots of lovely ladies in Chicago who will happily see you and would never dream of treating a client like that.  I'm sure you'll find someone new and great. :)

Take care!

But he did drop money on a hotel room, which I'm guessing was more than gas and parking.  Me thinks said provider should have to pay a cancellation fee to cover the cost of the hotel room (he says "tongue in cheek").

You told us you got stood up by a provider, she never answered your texts, for 48 hour. But you never said what  
her name is. The story is pretty useless, without a name how are we to know to avoid this lady.

So please let the guys know who did this to you, if you don't then you wasted even more time by writing this post.

 
Just my thoughts on the matter

Yeath is too much of a gentleman to say the lady's name in public. As written in original post, he can tell you thru pm

Exactly Zabrina!  Was a little overwhelmed with all the PMs I've been receiving, didn't even notice all the replies to my thread...

Another reason to just post her name publicly and get it over with; why should you be penalized and have to answer dozens of PMs because of her lack of respect???

Respect is a two way street.  If a provider confirms, the guy drops money on a room and then gets stood up, she should be publicly identified (provided he makes effort to make sure nothing bad/unfortunate has happened to her).  I had a similar situation recently where the provider confirmed for 8pm, then said 830, then 9pm, then 915 and then 930 and then didn't show.  And I was the "jerk" because I identified her publicly although she admitted my side of the story was, in fact, correct.  If you want respect, show respect.  It's that simple.  Just as reviews can be used to identify bait and switch, fake pictures, bad attitudes, etc, there needs to be a forum for identifying those who are disrespectful and unprofessional.  In my opinion, this is it.

Just playing ;-)

I would never jilt a lover

Posted By: Yeath
Hello fellow gents!  Want to share a very disappointing experience from earlier this week.  There was a provider I had my eyes on (she only does outcall), she had one very positive review on TER, and the review was from a guy who has plenty of other reviews, both good and okay, and seems like a legitimate and honest reviewer.  I don't mean to call BS on his review, but my experience came nowhere close to his.  
   
 We exchanged txts the previous week, told her the area where I'd be and what the protocol should be.  We exchanged info very easily and promptly.  She told me to txt her the day before to confirm the time.  That day came, I dropped my cash on the room, checked in, and sent her a txt.  She was very responsive, we setup a apt for the following morning, sent her the exact address and name of the hotel.  She confirmed and sent back that she was looking forward to seeing me tomorrow (around 4pm).  I told her to have a great night, and I thought this is going very well!  
   
 Then the next morning comes and it's only 10 minutes prior to our apt, haven't heard anything from her.  I send a txt saying good morning and to let me know when she arrives so I can send room number.  Ten minutes go by and nothing.  I sent a txt asking if we're still on.  Nothing.  20 minutes go by and I txt her to just let me know if she's late or needs to reschedule.  Nothing.  No reply at all.  So my morning goes by and I am high-n-dry.  Go back home, checking out the posts, and that afternoon, she posts another ad.  So I send a txt saying that I hope she's okay and asking what happened.  No reply.  I have a buddy who shares the lifestyle, so I tell him about this.  I ask him to contact her looking for an apt.  She replies to him within 5 minutes.  Meanwhile she completely ignores my txt.  I still, more than 48 hours later have not heard a single thing back from her.  
   
 I am not relaying this story to get sympathy points, but as a public service announcement.  This provider (despite her 1 favorable review) is IMO very bad news.  I cannot leave a review as from TER's POV, "there is nothing to review".  I am pretty new to this hobby (about 1.5 years), and I've been advised (for etiquette) to refrain from identifying her in this post.  If you would like the details, name and number, shoot me a PM.  
   
 Best of luck to all you hobbyists out there, and hope that this doesn't happen to any of you as well.  Also, best of wishes to all you mature, classy, and responsible providers who would never dream of treating a client like this.  
   
 

Haha!  A good one, but no, I cannot believe that a woman of your class would do this ;)

I do not like these stories because we have all been there. Both hobbyists and providers. I understand when you have to pay for  the room or the gas or the snacks/beverages (that I always provide).
Hope it goes better next time.

Love
Zana

ROGM480 reads

OK. She NCNS on you. Now go find another Provider.

Either that or he wants her all to himself that selfish bastard.

ROGM419 reads

Posted By: Polish_Pirate
Either that or he wants her all to himself that selfish bastard.
I see that my Fan Club is following me as usual.  

 
Actually she's not Imaginary. She does exist. She wants to stay UTR for now.  

She's not Asian. So you guys would not like her.  


-- Modified on 4/17/2014 7:50:29 PM

Isn't there a place here to post info about lame providers. I know I saw something once just not sure what it is or was.  It's not cool to make someone waste their money and time getting a hotel room.  Seems as if she knew from the get-go she was doing this...  I wonder why.  It's wierd.

You are a true sweetheart!  It is not cool, at all...  But I will move on :) If you (or anyone) knows of a place, drop me a line.

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