Best advice I can personally give to all newbies that are frustrated is the following: research the person, understand your price point and most importantly you need to know that they are women with feelings and personalities! If you treat them like you bought them you will be treated in kind! Treat them like you would treat a girlfriend; find one you really gel with and have some chemistry with. As you establish a trust and friendship; then and Only then do you get a true GFE! It takes time! Trust me, I have a usuall that I see often and it is great!  
   
 Sometimes I want a Change and she will refer me to a friend of her's who when I show up already knows what I like! The hobby can be fun and relaxing! Be patient, be nice, have perfect hygiene and be respectful! She is a women not a consumer good!