You saw a provider's pictures. They looked stunning. No reviews or few ok ones. You made the call anyway given her the benefit of a doubt. Went there and the person was not as advertised due photographic trick, bait and switch, or photos taken 5 years ago. Being a gentlement, you stayed and hoped she will make up for the difference. She gave you low perforamance. A 5 at best (Lot's of rules-No kissing, No DTAY, Limited touching, etc).
After all say and done. She says, "You are incredible. I want to see you again. I hope to see you again". What do you say?
Do you say -No because..................................?
(I said, Yes I want to, but let me look at my schedules and I will try to call you. What I meant was NO.)
MPR..I have been in that situation and ever since vowed to never go throught that BS again. It is not about being a gentleman. When they go for the bait and switch or very old photos, all bets are off. If I woudl to ever get intp that situation, I would simply tell her that she is not that lady I scheduled to see and walk away.
You will feel much better for not wasting your hard earned money for their tactics!
Spend any time in this community and it will happen to you. It has happened to me over the years and has cost me well over $2,000 when it is all added up. So I have finally learned that once you hand over the donation the playing field is no longer level. There is absolutely nothing you can do to get your money back. "All sales are final" regardless of the product being misrepresented or even withheld. I disagree with the idea that they have to get the donation before the session begins because if they are stiffed they have loads of personl information about you which you willingly gave up in the screening requirements.
I guess the issue comes down to how we can cut our losses. 1) NEVER give up the donation before the session is finished. If that is not acceptable, then walk away because the chances of it coming out ok are dramatically reduced anyway. 2) If you have given up the donation before the goods were delivered and it ends up like MPRman described, I think the better choice is to protect your own self esteem because it is all you have left. For some that means blow up and tell them off so you can feel better. For others that means walk away and keep your cool determining never to let that happen to you again. I must say it has taken me many years to learn that this is not an honest industry. My heart and good intentions keep getting in the way of sound logical thinking. 3) Do your own "due diligence" on the provider before making the appointment. That's what this board is for.
when you continue in a bait-n-switch you may give the signal that it was okay, just walk! Let us know who this is, It's wrong and does not deserve anonymity!
That's why I like bordello's. You pay a minor entry fee, and then get to pick a lady among several. If none catch your eye, well you lost perhaps $50 rather than potentially 5 times as much or more.
What irritates me about this, is that guys will pay money for sex regardless of how the chick looks, as long as she's honest. They will get clients.
Perhaps having boards like this will really help the honesty level start to rise.
What would I do in a bait and switch?
Not sure, depends on how horny I was probably (chuckle)
You should have said no about an hour earlier. This happened to me once, but it was late, I had too many beers to think straight, its harder to get someone to leave your place than to walk out of hers, and sometimes you go along with it because you're HORNY as hell and she's got you by the balls. So if she's not a total loser, you go along with it and hope for the best. Then when you are again able to think with the right head, and she says she wants to see you again, you say - ok. Then after a few days and if you still feel pissed off about it, you make a date with her. Then you go downtown to the park where the homeless guys hang out - find the ugliest, fattest, and smelliest guy there and give him 20 bucks and a fresh six pack and drop him off at her place a 1/2 hour late.