I also log onto adult friend finder once and a while. I have noticed that one or two of the providers also have profiles on aff. How many providers have profiles on other "dating" websites? just courious.
Word of advice and caution. Stay very far away from AFF. they are a total rip off. You will be spinning your wheels big time.
Generally I'd agree with you. Most of the ads on there are web site ads or web cam ads or picture sellers, all posing as real people. But I have met some pretty cool girls just looking for sex (they aren't expecting payment.)
I have spent some time on AFF and had mixed results. I met a cute girl, not quite BBW, but not small. met for dtrinks but no action yet. Any guys know some good trickks? Can non-paying women get your messages?
The last two I hooked up with from AFF, which, by the way, were last fall a year ago, were:
1) Someone I talked with in the Chat Room. If you can actually get someone from reasonably close by to talk to you in the chat room, then it is reasonably likely you might hook up with them. Although I have two or three I chatted with for several days on Yahoo Messenger (I met in AFF chat room) to no avail (not even a real f-t-f meeting.) But one chick I hooked up with and had sex with that night. But she kept trying to shave her patch totally, and couldn't get it all, so it was like screwing sand paper. I was raw for a week.
2) A lady part of a couple (have had more luck with couples than anything else) that played alone. She flaked after two get togethers though. She was a squirter.
3) I've hooked up with a very BBW that was comittment minded. Never went anywhere as she was a bit too large for me.
Hit and miss is about as best I can say. Throw a hundred darts and hope you hit the board at least once.
Most of what I found were looking for long term commitment