I do not mind taking charge at all once the action has started, but I do have a deep-down desire to be seduced, and have the woman actually make the first move for me.  

For instance while we are in the small-talk, sipping wine stage her getting up & unzipping my pants in the middle of me telling a dumb story... HOT!

Not sure if you consider that fully 'Passive' or not

I'm normally in charge...

...and that's why men come to see me.  I have no issues being the assertive one, and actually like it that way for the most part.

I do really enjoy an assertive guy, though.  In fact, I need it to feel balanced from time to time.  Lucky for me, I have a few regulars with large hands that are fantastic ass-grabbers.  

If the vibe is right, I love an assertive partner.  If the vibe isn't right, it becomes a matter of knowing how to wield control.  No issues there.

It's all relative

Lots of layers to this topic, but one factor is probably the fact that most men know that a good provider is way better at all this than they are, so why not let them take the lead.  
Kinda reminds me of dancing with my SO.  I consider myself a pretty decent freestyle dancer, but she has danced professionally, teaches dance, and is still really good.  Whenever we used to dance, I always ended up mentally throwing up my hands because she was so far ahead of me.  Men always lead in dance, and I held my own all things considered, but who was I really kidding.  

Definitely words of wisdom from Zabrina tho.  Most women want to be ravished with wild abandon by a confident man.  In the real world you might hit a dead end if your timing is off (or she just isn't in to you), but in this game the conclusion isn't in question (for the most part), so go for it!

**Another factor is probably that many providers are extremely attractive, sexy, alluring women (Zabrina included...I'm new to the hobby, but I've had my eye on you for sure!).  No matter the circumstances, this is bound to put many men a little on their heels.  Makes me think of some women I've met who are so beautiful that they actually have trouble meeting decent men because they're too intimidated by the woman's looks.

Zabrina,

One thing to consider: If you spend most of your time making decisions and "running" things, it's really nice to let someone else drive things sometimes.  

So to answer your question, I am not passive by nature but it's a lot of fun and relaxing to let a sexy woman be in control for a few hours.

Personally, I lean more towards the submissive side. I like being ravaged

I like to share power with the girl.  I like to be used, especially orally, and in other ways, by the girl.  I really enjoy seeing her get off.  And then I like to use the girl, too, in various ways.  Of course, the erotic fun of it is talking about it before and during to make sure we both want it and are enjoying it.  No means no, of course, but usually the answer is yes.  Switching between dominant and submissive is akin to the old in and out for me.

I'm Def. A FEMDOM!!!!......but....

I do enjoy a handcuffed GAGGING SESSION every once inwhile ...... 😝😝😝😝😝😝

Happy & Hungover in Chitown 💋💋💋!!!!  
GC