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Re: You're good..
HarryWotton 11 Reviews 337 reads
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Thanks, I know it was a less than a stellar question but it is an area of concern.  I figure that if we get bad breath together from what we are doing, including drinking and eating the same thing, it should be alright, but still.....  To be honest, it is the only thing that makes me apprehensive during or before a session (well, besides the good kind of excitement that comes from meeting someone for the first time).    Hell, I brush my teeth so often IRL that my W says that if I keep it up, there will be no enamel left :)

So I just had a client write a kind of lame review on me because of my kissing style. He wanted me to literally stick my tongue out of my mouth and suck on it. I wasn't comfortable with that and asked to stick to more of LFK because his breath stunk so bad. So my question is this, is it rude for me to ask for a client to use some mouth wash? He refused the stick of gum I offered. I didn't want to be mean, he seemed a little sensitive, so I decided to just keep it light. Now I have a weak review because of it. :(

-- Modified on 5/3/2015 11:40:20 AM

GaGambler574 reads

You might take a page out of the Kgirl playbook, most Asian agencies I have ever gone to not only offer mouthwash, but the girl pours two small cups of mouthwash, one for her and one for her and then literally puts the cup in your hand. It's almost impossible to refuse.

For the record, I always carry mouthwash in my car and usually the very last thing I do before getting out of my car and walking to the incall is take a big swig. I still would never dream of refusing a breath mint, stick of gum, or mouthwash when offered. but then again DFK is very important to me, I don't want to give a lady the slightest reason not to kiss me.

We were kissing and I guess my mouth was dry and hence, not to fresh. She slipped a cinnamon Altoid into her mouth and then kissed me again, transferring the Altoid to my mouth. Very sexy and I didn't realize until later why.

It seems like it would be stating the obvious in the business of close contact and intimacy. It happens from time to time and I think if they are wanting to kiss etc that the only way is to be assertive in a tactful manner. Otherwise you are not honering yourself.I agree its uncomfortable to hurt someones feelings however you can come up with some creative words that can assert the point gently.. Bringing a disposable tooth brush and mouthwash and politely asking if you both can freshen up together so you can really enjoy getting close. Maybe take off some of the pressure of 'His Bad Breath' and say that its a fresh up routine you like to do so you can really  cut loose in your session and make a connection. There isnt one way to handle a situation like this but its always important to take  charge and not allow yourself to be violated. Bad breath and Body Oder  can be offensive .You dont have to tolerate it you just have to manage the situation as best possible. There may be a time there is nothing you can do and obviously you wont see them again.

Great tips, thanks so much!  

Posted By: DesireDrea
It seems like it would be stating the obvious in the business of close contact and intimacy. It happens from time to time and I think if they are wanting to kiss etc that the only way is to be assertive in a tactful manner. Otherwise you are not honering yourself.I agree its uncomfortable to hurt someones feelings however you can come up with some creative words that can assert the point gently.. Bringing a disposable tooth brush and mouthwash and politely asking if you both can freshen up together so you can really enjoy getting close. Maybe take off some of the pressure of 'His Bad Breath' and say that its a fresh up routine you like to do so you can really  cut loose in your session and make a connection. There isnt one way to handle a situation like this but its always important to take  charge and not allow yourself to be violated. Bad breath and Body Oder  can be offensive .You dont have to tolerate it you just have to manage the situation as best possible. There may be a time there is nothing you can do and obviously you wont see them again.

Posted By: DesireDrea
It seems like it would be stating the obvious in the business of close contact and intimacy. It happens from time to time and I think if they are wanting to kiss etc that the only way is to be assertive in a tactful manner. Otherwise you are not honering yourself.I agree its uncomfortable to hurt someones feelings however you can come up with some creative words that can assert the point gently.. Bringing a disposable tooth brush and mouthwash and politely asking if you both can freshen up together so you can really enjoy getting close. Maybe take off some of the pressure of 'His Bad Breath' and say that its a fresh up routine you like to do so you can really  cut loose in your session and make a connection. There isnt one way to handle a situation like this but its always important to take  charge and not allow yourself to be violated. Bad breath and Body Oder  can be offensive .You dont have to tolerate it you just have to manage the situation as best possible. There may be a time there is nothing you can do and obviously you wont see them again.
Brushing your teeth right before a session begins is not recommended, since brushing can cause micro-abrassions and possible bleeding of the gums in some cases.

I do consider Mouthwash to be a standard operating procedure before all of my sessions.  :-

Posted By: kathryn93
So I just had a client write a kind of lame review on me because of my kissing style. He wanted me to literally stick my tongue out of my mouth and suck on it. I wasn't comfortable with that and asked to stick to more of LFK because his breath stunk so bad. So my question is this, is it rude for me to ask for a client to use some mouth wash? He refused the stick of gum I offered. I didn't want to be mean, he seemed a little sensitive, so I decided to just keep it light. Now I have a weak review because of it. :(

-- Modified on 5/3/2015 11:40:20 AM

Just take a few bites out of an apple before a session

So there it is, appointment time.  If I am hosting, there will be red wine to drink for me and whatever the lady wants.  Lately, I notice that when ladies host, they will have the red wine (it is on my profile) and a cheese plate.   After a couple of tastes of wine and some cheese, the breath is gone, regardless of how much mouthwash I used prior to the appointment.  BTW, the mouthwash does wonders for the taste of the first glass of wine, NOT!

I mean, at what point does it become halitosis?   I know, it is a stupid question, but I have even thought about not partaking in anything but water, because  I view DFK as a necessity.   I have never been refused nor have I had anybody pull back, and that should give me a clue, but I worry about it.

Someone's breath doesn't have to taste like peppermint..
It's the 8:30pm date that had an omelet with onions and peppers for breakfast
A pastrami sandwich for lunch
And pepperoni pizza dipped in garlic for dinner  
That hasn't brushed their teeth since they woke up that are the problem.

The rest is relative. :)
Rarely happens, but when it does ..it's not easy.  
xo

Thanks, I know it was a less than a stellar question but it is an area of concern.  I figure that if we get bad breath together from what we are doing, including drinking and eating the same thing, it should be alright, but still.....  To be honest, it is the only thing that makes me apprehensive during or before a session (well, besides the good kind of excitement that comes from meeting someone for the first time).    Hell, I brush my teeth so often IRL that my W says that if I keep it up, there will be no enamel left :)

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