I just tell them not to do anything involving squeezing or otherwise applying pressure right after the ejaculation, and I'm fine.
Good gals listen to their clients' wants and needs, so be open and communicate.
I caught a few comments regarding sensitivity after orgasm, on a recent post.
I thought I was the only one.
I love oral and CIM. My X never did it, or suck my cock either, so I want to catch up on lost time.
But I must say when CIM, during the ejaculation process the tip of my cock is VERY sensitive, so much so that, the majority of times, it hurts when I cum. It feels like the cum is shooting back on my dick, or the provider is deflecting it, or licking my prick when I shoot.
Is that a technique so my partner does not taste me???? Deflect the cum so it pools under the tongue and then spit it out?
I have noticed that providers who "swallow", tend to adjust when I warn time about my issue, and the experience is more pleasurable (plus I love cum play. Seeing my cum drip out of her mouth and onto her tits.. but I am digressing).
Any experience of thoughts out there and how I should coach a provider so as not to feel pain?
Please share your experiences.
That's a completely normal variation and I think most of us would immediately understand what you mean and know to just be still at the end.
As an aside: As far as I know, the only "trick" for not tasting anything is to not have it in your mouth. I can't imagine a provider would be ok with CIM, but have an elaborate method to not taste anything
Thanks for your comments. Not ever being on the other side of a BJ, I was not sure if there were any tricks of the trade to protect the ole taste buds.
I just tell them not to do anything involving squeezing or otherwise applying pressure right after the ejaculation, and I'm fine.
Good gals listen to their clients' wants and needs, so be open and communicate.
I love BBJBCIM. in fact, if that's not on the menu, I don't see the lady. As I am about to pop, I usually say, "suck it hard!" One very popular lady told me that when I say that it really turns her on, after ejaculation she lets the cum dribble down from her mouth. Another turn on for me. By that time my penis shrivels and is sensitive and doesn't enjoy any more attention for awhile.
I'm very sensitive at the tip after climax. But when played with a little sensitivity, like some ladies instinctively know how to do, the orgasmic like feeling continues and the pleasure is heightened. Don't hold your breath or start hyperventilating.
I have to breathe deeply through it but gawd it's heavenly. I don't want my partner to stop when the load is dropped off.
I want it to last
The sensation felt at the moment of ejaculation normally lasts less than 1 minute for most guys regardless of age, although the tip of the penis remains highly sensitive to tactile stimulation.. I instruct my ladies to continue to suck and tongue massage the opening to the urethra (opening to tip). This results in the SENSATION felt at climax to be PROLONGED for an additional 4-5 MINUTES. During this time interval, my bod is jerking (spasms) uncontrollably. Five minutes of this Super Stimulation is all I can take as I am COMPLETELY Physically Exhausted. This Prolonged Stimulation work (for me) equally regardless of the type of BJ (BBBJ/CIM or CBJ). Personally, I believe most guys are passing up an AWESOME experience if they do not take advantage of the opportunity at hand. Just remember that the main difference between male and female orgasms is basically length (time span) of sensations (Women's Os are much longer than men).
Now about 2.5 yrs post prostate surgery and at 65 I've found that my orgasms are more powerful and I can actually have what I call a "super orgasm". Because there's no cum when I orgasm sometimes I can stay hard with much greater sensitivity, in a very good way, and if the pressure isn't too great, a soft lubricated touch is best, I feel like I have one long, continuous orgasm lasting maybe for a minute that then results in a shuddering, breathtaking orgasm. This doesn't happen all the time but I must say that when it does I'm left breathless, best orgasms of my life. I wonder if this is in any way like a woman's orgasm.
Sometimes a girl might want to deflect it to avoid gagging
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