I very recently celebrated my 40th birthday (had a great time but that is for a separate post). I live in Los Angeles. Here is my question - is it me or do the majority (not all) of the TS providers in Southern CA and the girls that visit Peanuts prefer or will only date the younger crowd (18-25)? I have been told several times when asked my age that I am tooooo old. I don't feel old physically. I have been told that I am attractive and charming and I consider myself successful and am educated. I realize there are girls out there that do not fall into this category but I believe they are the exception. Any thoughts or opinions?
BTW - Felicia - last time I saw you at Peanuts you looked dazzling!
It depends on what you are looking for.
If you are a "client", then being 40+ is an asset
in that you will usually have more $$$ to spend and, should the lady be receptive to your proposal, more sophistication and worldliness than the 18-25 crowd when it comes to seeing her "socially".
If looking to date a TS socially, age shouldn't matter as long as you are in shape and
your wardrobe and appearance are contemporary.
Remember, you have a few things OVER the 18-25 crowd....like a job or career, some $$$, and more experience of life generally.
I'll use myself as an example. As many on this board know, I dated AS MY GIRLFRIEND a "well-known TS Provider" for almost a year and we are still friends, although I have moved out of LA to a different city. I am well past 40, and neither particularly handsome nor rich. What I DO have is an education, social skills, and the ability to make others feel comfortable around me.
Since the end of that relationship, I have dated other TS's socially and am now in a relationship with a wonderful woman (GG) who is also strikingly beautiful and sexy as well as being 15 years my junior.
The battle, my friend, is won or lost IN YOUR MIND
before you begin. Believe in yourself, put your best effort forward, and you will be surprised
with what you accomplish.
In this game, for a man, youth and beauty are no substitute for age and experience. Don't hide your assets....use them. If you are energetic, lively,
sociable,and well-groomed you'll do just fine.
Let us know how things go.
TA
Hmm maybe the answer is to lie about your age to fit in better with their scheme of what they want. Go from 40 to 30 overnight and for heavens sake, put the leisure suit away for good, Mr Furley!