Oh, yeah, leave 3 minutes early will seal the deal!
You're welcome!anyone have any advice on how to accomplish this. I know I'm the client, but usually nothing makes me get off more than making sure my partner is also into it and having fun.
Some are probably as nervous as you, so don't make it worse. Relax, let your hair down, laugh, smile and go with the flow. Take a deep breath and enjoy the moment, because this shit ain't forever.
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Neither of you are mind readers. Also read the juicy details of the review so you find someone who matches what you're looking for.
...will make for a great time no matter what!
A caring partner in any foray makes for great vibes, which will then translate to a great time.
You're already on the right path!
Take your time, relax, and you'll find the right 'groove'......."slow and steady wins the race"....
You're gonna be Great!
Have Fun..
xo
SS
Like you, I want my partner to have fun to. Here is what I've learned so far on my journey. First is finding the right lady. It's not just her looks that get my attention, I read her profile to get an idea of who she is. If she's got a website, it makes it much easier since she'll usually provide all the needed info. Read her reviews, if she has any to get a sense of what she enjoys and will allow. Don't force it if she doesn't enjoy it.
If she's doing incall, it's important to confirm your time and I usually do a few hours ahead of time if she's not done so already. Make sure you are on time. Your personally hygiene is paramount, so I don't need to go there. I always make sure to great her with a light hug and a kiss, even if it's on the cheek. Forget the fact she's a provider, she's still a lady so compliment her in some way. You're trying to lighten the mood.
If she's coming to you, make sure your place is clean, especially the bathroom. As crazy as it sounds, I always have clean linens for them afterwards. I also keep a bottle of VS body wash for them (sometimes she'll invite me to shower with her afterwards). I also keep a new toothbrush and blow dryer on hand. It's the small gestures they truly appreciate.
Once the fun starts, just be yourself. Pay attention to how she reacts and how she looks at you to what you are doing, its a great way to know whether or not she's having fun to. I enjoy DFK, so if she enjoys it helps takes things to the next level. My goal is to make sure she has a great time so that if I want to see her again she'll gladly say yes. Afterwards, I always send a note thanking them for a wonderful evening and tell them I hope to see them again.
So far this has worked out well for me and I've never been declined to met up again. In fact, I have a few that will let me know when they are available since this isn't something they do all the time
The volume has a lot to do with this. You can be the coolest, sexiest, most amazing guy ever but if you're the 5th guy of the day, or even the second or third, expect her to fake it. A girl only has so much in her for being with random guys, it's stupid and foolish to think she's always horny even after several appointments.
So how do you get around this? Well, this is what I suggest, either or all of these can work.
1) In this town it's tough because of the constant flow of guys, but if you keep an eye on the boards, you can sometimes tell when a girl is having no clients that day. If she's posting all day, or sometimes on other boards she will complain about a cancel, etc. If you call her for an LMA then you will probably be the only guy that has seen her, also, since it's been slow, she will be grateful to see you. Both things equal a better chance at her actually enjoying the sex.
2) Book early - I never do this as I'm a night owl. But booking early can sometimes guarantee you are the first of the day. If you are an early riser, take advantage of this and save the evenings for gambling or other things.
3)Book more than hour. This one is pretty obvious. If a girl has a 5 hour booked, she probably won't bother entertaining any other offers that day, or at the most one other offer if it's quick.
4) Send some text messages and look at the times it takes to respond. Everybody has their phones right next to them all day. So 30 minutes to get back to you throughout the day means she's been busy. If she's running late, well, I shouldn't have to tell you what that means..lol. You should generally cancel if this happens. A provider should have the decency to space her appointments out at least an hour or more. Guys take the time to be clean, I don't want a provider running from one appointment straight to another. Don't be a chump, guys.
And of course the fine print: None of this matters if you don't click. Some girls never climax with clients. She may find you disgusting or you remind her of a family member, ex boyfriend, asshole, etc.
Also, you can just not care, and if the girl enjoys it, it's just a pleasant surprise. You should probably be doing this last one anyway.
One other thing, if you really want to have a girl enjoy it, look for UTR girls, sometimes a little older. They often only have one client a day or maybe two, but they are generally very sexual. Trust me, some of those UTR milfs are super crazy sexual.
So how do you get around this? Well, this is what I suggest, either or all of these can work.
1) In this town it's tough because of the constant flow of guys, but if you keep an eye on the boards, you can sometimes tell when a girl is having no clients that day. If she's posting all day, or sometimes on other boards she will complain about a cancel, etc. If you call her for an LMA then you will probably be the only guy that has seen her, also, since it's been slow, she will be grateful to see you. Both things equal a better chance at her actually enjoying the sex.
2) Book early - I never do this as I'm a night owl. But booking early can sometimes guarantee you are the first of the day. If you are an early riser, take advantage of this and save the evenings for gambling or other things.
3)Book more than hour. This one is pretty obvious. If a girl has a 5 hour booked, she probably won't bother entertaining any other offers that day, or at the most one other offer if it's quick.
4) Send some text messages and look at the times it takes to respond. Everybody has their phones right next to them all day. So 30 minutes to get back to you throughout the day means she's been busy. If she's running late, well, I shouldn't have to tell you what that means..lol. You should generally cancel if this happens. A provider should have the decency to space her appointments out at least an hour or more. Guys take the time to be clean, I don't want a provider running from one appointment straight to another. Don't be a chump, guys.
And of course the fine print: None of this matters if you don't click. Some girls never climax with clients. She may find you disgusting or you remind her of a family member, ex boyfriend, asshole, etc.
Also, you can just not care, and if the girl enjoys it, it's just a pleasant surprise. You should probably be doing this last one anyway.
One other thing, if you really want to have a girl enjoy it, look for UTR girls, sometimes a little older. They often only have one client a day or maybe two, but they are generally very sexual. Trust me, some of those UTR milfs are super crazy sexual.
any advice from this idiot. He has no fucking idea what he is talking about. You have been hobbying long enough to know hat he said is idiotic. Don't rely on a newbie, rely on your own long time hobbying experience.
A provider has a profession outside of the hobby ?
Possibly a career or in school or has a family .
Don't assume that since a text isn't answered fast enough or she is running late it's because she has booked too many appointments.
Yes that might be true for some but come on this isn't all that most of us do .
You would be amazed at some of the business that some of these women run outside of the hobby .
Running a business is very time consuming they indulge in the hobby because its fulfilling in many ways not because they are depending on it.
I participate on the boards when I feel I have something positive to add , it's got nothing to do with how fast or slow business is.
At least give us some credit 
Possibly a career or in school or has a family .
Don't assume that since a text isn't answered fast enough or she is running late it's because she has booked too many appointments.
Yes that might be true for some but come on this isn't all that most of us do .
You would be amazed at some of the business that some of these women run outside of the hobby .
Running a business is very time consuming they indulge in the hobby because its fulfilling in many ways not because they are depending on it.
I participate on the boards when I feel I have something positive to add , it's got nothing to do with how fast or slow business is.
At least give us some credit
Of course you have to use a little common sense, but what I said holds true pretty consistently if you are experienced.
For example, everybody books on the hour or on the half hour, nobody books an appointment to start at 10:17. So if you text a girl at 10:17 and your reply comes at 11:05. Then you text again 12:37 and the return text comes at 1:02, it starts to tell you something. And I'm not saying that's a bad thing! I've seen plenty of girls in that situation. But the ORIGINAL thread was about finding a girl that will have a real orgasm during the session, so that's what I'm addressing. It's the same if it were guys, if I saw 4 providers in a night, that 5th girl better bring a book, because it's gonna take a while..lol
But hey, one of my suggestions was to book 5 hours! I don't see you complaining about that
I know it may seem like I was bashing girls for seeing guys, but that's not really it. I was just addressing the original topic and how to achieve that.
Possibly a career or in school or has a family .
Don't assume that since a text isn't answered fast enough or she is running late it's because she has booked too many appointments.
Yes that might be true for some but come on this isn't all that most of us do .
You would be amazed at some of the business that some of these women run outside of the hobby .
Running a business is very time consuming they indulge in the hobby because its fulfilling in many ways not because they are depending on it.
I participate on the boards when I feel I have something positive to add , it's got nothing to do with how fast or slow business is.
At least give us some credit
no fucking idea what you are talking about. Your rambling is so full of shit. Maybe you should get a few year of hobbying experience BEFORE giving shitty advice. You have no idea what the ladies do other than provide. Do you think they sit by the phone or on the computer waiting for a hobbyist to contact them. Do you actually think the majority of them would fuck 5 guys a day? They are smart business women who understand that the quality of their dates means return business, so they would not lower the quality of their dates by fucking 5 guys or more a day. Gee you are so fucking stupid.
Get your pea brain out of the Hollywood stereotype description of a provider. It is dumbass know-it-all newbie hobbyist like you that make all hobbyist look bad. You are a FIDIOT!!!
Says the guy/girl who only says what they think when they're hiding behind an alias. When you believe in what you say enough to actually stand behind it, then come talk shit to me, got it. Obviously you are too scared to call me out with your real identity because that identity is a carefully constructed phony one, just like this alias. You call me clueless, but your real identity is obviously phony since you don't want to soil it, and your alias is a phony persona as well. You're the only clueless idiot here switching between your super nice real handle and your phony "tough guy" alias.
As for your accusations, I have been a paid VIP member for over 3 years and I was seeing girls long before that. Remember the ads in the back of the sports section of the newspaper before smartphones, yeah, that long ago. I just started making reviews recently, it was policy of mine not to do reviews as I lived in the Midwest and I used a verification service popular there so there was no need for me to have a board presence. Since I have moved, I started making reviews to make verification/screening easier.
There is more to life than what goes on here on TER you fool. Maybe you're the one who doesn't know WTF they're talking about.
Get your pea brain out of the Hollywood stereotype description of a provider. It is dumbass know-it-all newbie hobbyist like you that make all hobbyist look bad. You are a FIDIOT!!!
Oh, yeah, leave 3 minutes early will seal the deal!
You're welcome!
Some will, some won't, some can, some can't depending on activity/mood. It isn't always about you or how well you do it.
Booking early or late or in the middle may play a part, but your 6am appointment, if you can get it, maybe not be her first of the day.... Just like the 11pm appointment may be her first.
Just relax, be friendly, I'd say be yourself but you might be a dick in real life, and pay attention to her, compliment her. Compliment her, not her breasts..