Give the provider of your choice a call. Select several ladies that you would see. Some providers use several forms of verification, you should not have a problem as long as you are willing to give the information that they ask for. Some will not schedule you, but you will not know until you give them a call or send email. Avoid saying or writing something that will make you look like a jerk to a provider. You should do fine.

Dear g021...

If you have been looking at TER for a while, then you should have come across the newbie board which deals with questions like this.  Spend time going through it.  Your questions and definitions to YMMV, BBBJ and other things will be answered.

I visited a MP (massage parlor) frequently and got to know the woman who does all the scheduling well.  I'd bring her flowers on St. V's day and a gift on Christmas, so we were pretty good chums.  When it came time for me to meet women on the web, I used her as a reference and all went very smoothly.  She was very happy to be my reference, and because the provider knew the business and had a phone number to call and check with her, they were satisfied to know they were getting a good customer.

I was hoping to hear from a provider to know what they would look for

ask her what she needs to know to feel comfortable. You will likely have to give out some information on your business, home address, and full name for starters. Depending on the type business you are in she may be able to verify some if not all via the web. You might also want to offer to meet her in public for drinks etc and be prepared to pay her for her time. It may take meeting with the lady a couple of times before she feels comfortable enough to invite you to a more private venue but it will be worth it.

Good luck

Georgia