older guys don't get younger. You can console yourself that eventually you'll meet the minimum age requirements, whereas Olderguy and I will never get below certain ceilings (remember "professional caucasians under 60?).
Hey all,
I am brand new to the "hobby." I joined TER in order to get a sense of which ladies would be best to see in the DC area. Well, I must say there are some ladies that I would definitely like to see, but virtually all of them have age minimums (e.g., 38 and older).
I know there have been posts on this before, but I wanted to ask a question regarding whether or not the following proposal is feasible: I could buy time with who I wanted to see for a public outing, such as lunch. And, if she felt comfortable to making an exception, great. And, if she didn't feel comfortable making and exception, no harm, no foul; at least I got to enjoy her company for sometime.
So, any comments would be appreciated...
One can only ask. If she is agreeable you have a shot. Better to be turned down via email, phone or at a public place than show up and get the door shut in your face.
I've done that before, met a lady that I wanted to visit before a 'date' at a bar, restaurant or for a cup of coffee. Sometimes it was my preference. Usually depends on who and how busy she is. This time around I haven't done that.
A try won't hurt.
I think most are looking for a bit of predictability in their experience, perhaps for someone who understands not only the meaning of no, but also of "I'd rather not." I think your stategy is a good one. And it sounds to me like you are offering them their fee for meeting you at a public place for lunch. That is much more than most guys who just want to screw them as much as possible for an hour would offer. No harm offering. I'd personally find an e-mail easier and less intrusive than a phone call, but if her website makes it clear she prefers phone calls, use the phone. Good luck.
I never had to pay a fee. Not that I wouldn't have if asked. I've picked up the tab for lunch, or drinks except for one. She accually picked up the tab and we met at her place later. THEN the fee came into play 
, worth every penny...or dollar...or bunch of dollars....
older guys don't get younger. You can console yourself that eventually you'll meet the minimum age requirements, whereas Olderguy and I will never get below certain ceilings (remember "professional caucasians under 60?).
Another advantage of old age is that you begin to lose all your inhibitions again. As long as the loss of inhibitions precedes the loss of potency, it is pretty cool.
If you'll indulge me in a altered quote from George Burns:
"Age to me means nothing. I can't get old; I’m (having sex)......As long as you're (having sex), you stay young. When I'm in front of a (lady), all that love and vitality sweeps over me and I forget my age." (working) - (working) - (an audience)
And I'm not kidding! Sex with beautiful women keep you young!!!
Actually, you make a very good point with your question. There are also certain providers who are not overly "happy" with guys over 38.
Take for example, Alyssa, who is super hot. However, her agency did not really tell me that she was sort of cold towards guys over 30. I am between 40 and 45 and although this young lady is super hot, she is not happy about seeing guys twice her age. She is 22.
If you are looking for a super fit, super good looking, large/firm breasted intelligent college student, then Alyssa may be your girl if you are under the age of 35.
One point to ponder...
Last year she was three and one quarter large strokes with the hair brush. I belive she is now three and one half strokes with the brush.
Choose wisely.
mature gentlemen only=I want to see guys who only have one cup in them.
generous gentlemen preferred=I want a guy who will spend a lot more money than I'm really worth, and only want one cup.
caucasion gentlemen under 60=did you want to have sex with your grandmother when you were my age, why would I want to have sex with my grandfather?
I have seen one or two that have minimum age requirements. I got by because I had enough references that said I was okay. But as a general rule, a lot of the ladies have enough screening requirements without me having to convince one that I'm mature enough to be around them. I usually skip those who have age requirements. There are plenty who don't mind my age at all.