60 and Over

some of us 20-something's...
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...are also looking for a connection, and not just to be arm candy.  I am young (and look even younger than I actually am), but my friendships since my childhood were traditionally with adults, and even when I was exploring my sexuality as a teenager I was naturally drawn to older men.  It wasn't until I was in my early twenties that I discovered that my favorite men are in their 60's, 70's and 80's.  Now many of my close personal friends and the clients I am closest to are in that age range.  I feel much more objectified (like "arm candy") when I go out with younger men.  Older men who see me are often nostalgic for the days when body hair was more common amongst every day women, and are looking to recreate that kind of casual, natural-feeling connection from days long past.  This works out great for me since I have the most fun hanging out with mature men.  I say in my writing that I have a young face but an old soul... and mean it... :)

That said, I am never surprised when an older gentleman prefers a lady closer to his own age.  It makes a lot of sense to me, even though I am into older men most of all (nothing gets me wet like a hot guy with silver hair), that many older men actually do not want to express their sexuality with someone in their 20's, for a variety of reasons!  Sometimes I hear hot older women tell me they wish they had been an escort when they were younger but that unfortunately they are too old now.  I tell them they're crazy and they should absolutely become a provider if that's what they want to do, because there are tons of men out there who actually want to be intimate with someone in their own age range!

I have to admit, I would never marry anyone though.  I'm just not the marrying kind.  I love older men, but I love my independence even more!  ;)

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J Howard Marshall marries - at age 89 - Anna Nicole Smith (age 25).

Hugh Hefner marries - at age 84 - Crystal Harris (age 24).

Cool gig if you can get it... I wonder if it was primarily for show or for warmth... And how much pain-in-the-ass those 20-something were to be with day-after-day.

Never mind the money, it would be nice to be "him" when my time comes.

Give me one of the mature ladies who frequent this Over 60 Board.  They know where it's at and where I'm at.

..who frequent this board.

   I believe that for the very young ladies, it's about the money, and being arm candy, but with more mature ladies, they are hoping for more of connection (if only for a few hours), in addition to making a tidy sum.

   I just turned down an overnight with the possibility of second night with a 29 year old.  The money would have been wonderful, the date would have been from hell.  

Hugs and Kisses,
Kelly

I think mature ladies are more erotic and in touch with this older guy's libido. Yes, the envelope is the reason for the date in the first place.  But in my limited experience the mature ladies know how to deal with that without making me feel like that's the only reason they are there. Yea for the mature courtesans.

... I would choose a mature sexy lady like you. All the looks, plus the connection.

However, there are a lot fewer sexy 40 year old ladies available than 20 year olds.

I suspect you and I could do just as well if we had that much money.

Did they turn out well? Any drama? I think not.

Steph

Mr Marshall died in wedlock - one can only guess whether or not his departure was hastened by his relationship (not implying anything nefarious here). Anna Nicole ended up in a very messy lawsuit with the two "grown" (60+) sons of Mr. Marshall. My personal opinion at the time was (and is) that she was entitled to whatever the will said. After all, she kept the old codger warm and comfy for several years.

Hugh Hefner? Well, he is unique... Remember the twins? How many wives/girlfriends over the years?

I retract the "wish it were me" part of my subject line. XYZ and Kelly are both 100% correct :-) as far as long term arrangements are concerned.  

The beast in me still wants the "20 minutes of glory with the 20 year old", I will admit (dirty old man to the end)

Watch out I may grab ya and hold "it" against you. I think you'd like it! ;-)

Steph

...are also looking for a connection, and not just to be arm candy.  I am young (and look even younger than I actually am), but my friendships since my childhood were traditionally with adults, and even when I was exploring my sexuality as a teenager I was naturally drawn to older men.  It wasn't until I was in my early twenties that I discovered that my favorite men are in their 60's, 70's and 80's.  Now many of my close personal friends and the clients I am closest to are in that age range.  I feel much more objectified (like "arm candy") when I go out with younger men.  Older men who see me are often nostalgic for the days when body hair was more common amongst every day women, and are looking to recreate that kind of casual, natural-feeling connection from days long past.  This works out great for me since I have the most fun hanging out with mature men.  I say in my writing that I have a young face but an old soul... and mean it... :)

That said, I am never surprised when an older gentleman prefers a lady closer to his own age.  It makes a lot of sense to me, even though I am into older men most of all (nothing gets me wet like a hot guy with silver hair), that many older men actually do not want to express their sexuality with someone in their 20's, for a variety of reasons!  Sometimes I hear hot older women tell me they wish they had been an escort when they were younger but that unfortunately they are too old now.  I tell them they're crazy and they should absolutely become a provider if that's what they want to do, because there are tons of men out there who actually want to be intimate with someone in their own age range!

I have to admit, I would never marry anyone though.  I'm just not the marrying kind.  I love older men, but I love my independence even more!  ;)

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+1 regarding being nostalgic for a nice full bush. But these days good luck finding one.....a bonus if she has one. A real rod raiser.

I agree with Zoey!  I've met so many 20-somethings who truly prefer the company of older men and who truly accept my affection in an intimate way that I just love.  Yes I've met a few young girls who are airheaded flakes.  But the majority are truly mature young women and they are Awesome!  No disrespect intended toward the more mature ladies here, just wanted to dispel any prejudices against younger women in general.

I have met some younger guys that are emotionally mature, and I know some mature men that seem stuck in adolescence. I enjoy the company of both.  As long as no one get's hurt...it's all good.  

Anna Nichole was a beautiful woman, but what a train wreck.  From the trial it was obvious her family was coco loco! The poor girl did the best she could, with what she had to work with.

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