If every guy took your attitude how would new providers ever get their first review. Of course there's a right way and a wrong way to TOFTT.
Went to Vegas two weeks ago. Saw one well reviewed provider on TER. Also, saw a pro domme who claimed she had dozens of great reviews on TER in her previous role as a provider but none now as a domme. (I did not inquire as to what her name was in her previous role so never actually saw these said TER reviews. Yes, I am a moron.).
Can you guess which was the amazing experience and which was an utter rip-off, disappointment, failure?
My new motto: I don't often hobby but when I do, I ALWAYS make sure they are TER reviewed. Regardless of service.
Would love to say more but I don't want to break TER rules and turn this into a mini-review. I can't even leave a bad review for the "domme" for fear of public outing but my God was it a nightmare of epic proportions...And I can't receive private messages to warn guys, because I can't spend anymore on the hobby for awhile (thanks "domme"...)
Remember kids, TER is your friend. Use it. Not sparingly but EVERY time!
Rarely post here but could not agree more. And as someone who LOVES and utterly respects women--as I think the ladies I have seen would vouch for--I really love TER also because of its value in keeping these amazing ladies safe and secure. My whitelists let them know I am for real, respectful, and safe. That's every bit as important as the info it provides us with.
Good point. I just wish I could do more to protect other gentleman from the bad experience but hopefully my "Stick to TER no matter the service" message sticks.
TER hopefully will prevent me from TOFTT.
If every guy took your attitude how would new providers ever get their first review. Of course there's a right way and a wrong way to TOFTT.
I meant TOFTT in a bad way.
is a scuba diving phrase, referring to checking your air. I think it applies here, too. yes?