Thanks for the advice, I will listen.
Oh by the way, I do wish you were in my area.I have a question on some screening applications.
I live near Fayetteville, NC and have tried twice to be approved after screening but have had no response on either. My problem I think is when I answer the question, employment I put retired (truth). Then when it says birthdate I put 8/13/38 (truth). Am I to old for some of these providers? When I do see a provider I like a lot of "face time". I sincerely enjoy cunnalings and spending time doing this.
If there is a classy provider in this area who is OK with this I have not found her yet. I go to the regular providers and get a BJ or HJ but leave feeling I did not get the service I crave.
Has anyone else had this problem? (age I think)
... as a female friend once said. Good words.
I do not believe that your professional status has anything to do with the lack of response. As long as you are able to deliver the donation, the provenance does not matter. It may be your age (you are an honest man).
You do not mention the age of the ladies you contacted. If I may offer advice, have you tried someone in her fifties? There is a sizable contingent of well-groomed providers in that age bracket (and even a few in their sixties) in our major cities.
Did a quick search on P411, there are five very lovely providers over 50 in the Raleigh-Charlotte area
...I don't think it's age. Most provider's don't care about that. There is one I know of that won't see anyone over 55 but she is the only one I'm aware of. When the question comes up every one that has replied says they don't care. There are plenty of guys in their 70's seeing providers. There is a guy here in his 80's. Maybe he'll speak up. I can't recall his name/handle right now.
Many of us are retired. I am. It's not a problem. They can still screen you.
Don't know if you're new to this but I'll continue as if you are.
Do you have references from other providers you have seen and do you include that in the info you put on the form. Are you a member of a verification service (P411, Date Check, RoomService2000). P411 (Preferred 411) is known for working with retired and or self-employed guys to get them verified. Do you give that info to her. Do you have VIP membership here so you can read the reviews to find the provider that provides what you are looking for. If your answer is no to the above look into it. These help when searching for, finding, and scheduling with a provider.
About the form, I won't fill them out. Why? Because of what you have said here. No response. Additionally, I don't know where that info goes. I will gladly give the lady the info she wants in an e-mail but not her web site based form. I have never been turned down for not using the form. I did get no response the one time I filled one out (I was a newbie). Guys post here often saying they get no response when they do the form.
Another suggestion is post an ISO (in search of) post on the Carolinas board and see which ladies respond. There are some good providers that work in the Carolinas.
Read back on this board to see what providers have said when the age question has come up.
Have you tried an escort agency. Their screening is a bit simpler and once you're in you're in. Make sure the agency has a good reputation and check their providers reviews so you get what you want.
Hope this helps.
While I'm not in your area I can tell you that I didn't start this hobby until I was 79 and I had no problem getting an appointment with providers from 28 to 50. I'm 82 now and despite some recent erectile problems (now with trimix injections problem solved) Last Wed I had a great session with a 29yo ATF. Good luck.
I don't think it's your age. if you got the bucks they got the sucks. I am only a little younger than you. I started at 70. I always tell the younger girls my age (under 40) the older ones I don't. I have never been turned down by anyone (18 to 70) For the most part I have always gotten what I wanted, and yes cunnilingus is my favorite pastime. Of course I am not on the east coast so maybe things are different there. I'm on the west coast.
Once you get a good reputation they will come to you. I have several contact me daily by e-mail letting me know they are in the area or will be able to visit, today, next week ect. I don't even have to go hunting any more, I just open my e-mail when I'm feeling horny. Good hunting Dude, keep it up as long as possible.
From what I've heard the laws have changed in NC making some women go even more UTR.
As far as age...some younger women don't feel comfortable seeing men close to or past their fathers age; just as an older women may feel uncomfortable seeing a guy in the same age bracket as her children.
"Face time" some women don't like it. I'm not sure why, but they don't. Any mention of "face time" or any activities might scare the more cautious woman away.
Thanks for the advice, I will listen.
Oh by the way, I do wish you were in my area.
Thanks Guys, some very good information.
Never thought about all the information requested on the site applications.
I have started emailing IT WORKS I am proud to say.