I talked to her a couple of times, but couldn't get her to provide any kind of references. Just a line about nobody every asks her for references...she's a part-timer...her day job is a stripper in Miami, but she doesn't live there...she changes her disposable cellphone every time she ventures out...she's never had a review posted...what are you worried about...yada yada.
Since we were both in the Copley Sq, I even suggested that we meet for coffee, but she didn't like that idea either: I never do anything without compensation..why should I do this...there are plenty of guys out there...what are you worried about.
Finally I said...don't you want to be cautious about me? Answer: all I need is your real name. I'll check your drivers license and I'm fine with that.