I get uncomfortable with the detailed response prior to first meeting...however if there is not a focus on the consideration, I cool. The more explicit it gets, the more likely I am to pass on the meeting. The more focus on consideration which is clearly listed in TER profiles, etc the more likely I am not to even respond to the email. Add both those variables together...I am peace out.
I really do understand that he just wants you to know what it is he likes, expects, desires...but I do like like to reinforce his swag in this direction as it can be harmful for both of us. Men need to understand that they are setting themselves up doing this kind of thing prior to meeting.about their "fantasy request"? Even after you have screened him, do you find it ok or alarming when a client goes into complete roleplay detail via email before even first meeting? I can see after you have met, but until you are both sure you are safe..idk. I appreciate your thoughts. Thank ladies!! 
Hobbyist, you're welcome to share your first-time email safety norms as well. I may be turning down my first date due to him going into too much detail about price and roleplay details via email. I have not responded directly to him via email out of fear of leaving a detailed trail.
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I dont mind going in detail.
even with regular clients!
My reviews and website say pretty much everything that I offer. If is anything extra... it's nice to meet the person first and if is something out of the "normal" we can discussed when we are face to face and schedule a second date.
My reviews and website say pretty much everything that I offer. If is anything extra... it's nice to meet the person first and if is something out of the "normal" we can discussed when we are face to face and schedule a second date.
I view guys who want to write a novel on their fantasy as timewasters.
If they want to give me a general idea to make sure I am up for it, then "I" am ok with it. Most ladies don't want to hear that at all. I advertise as GFE so it isn't spelled out what I am willing to do as far as a fantasy, I chose not to even advertise as such because I prefer GFE and do not entertain many fantasies.
There is a lot I do in my RL that I may or may not be up for doing as a provider.
My reviews and website say pretty much everything that I offer. If is anything extra... it's nice to meet the person first and if is something out of the "normal" we can discussed when we are face to face and schedule a second date.
First, I never discuss the donation amount unless it's not 100% crystal clear. Generally, initial contact is about availability and depending on how I'm communicating with her, the normal items needed for verification.
Once I've gotten that part out of the way, I may ask about role playing if I think it's something she's offered or if she's got a photo of herself in one. I don't go into detail about my idea, just enough to see if she's interested or not. If she is, I prefer just to let things progress on their own with only the initial thought being the set-up.
Once I've gotten that part out of the way, I may ask about role playing if I think it's something she's offered or if she's got a photo of herself in one. I don't go into detail about my idea, just enough to see if she's interested or not. If she is, I prefer just to let things progress on their own with only the initial thought being the set-up.
Vulgar and explicit language is something I do not tolerate. I have a solidified rep and roughly 70 reviews on other boards and a web presence, so gents should know (to eat their wheaties) what they are getting into. During certain BCD activities, I do NOT mind dirty talk and requests
so the only thing questionable I may include in an email is a "heart emoticon" otherwise it's " hey, are you available on this date and time?" and that's it.
Hobbyist, you're welcome to share your first-time email safety norms as well. I may be turning down my first date due to him going into too much detail about price and roleplay details via email. I have not responded directly to him via email out of fear of leaving a detailed trail.
-- Modified on 3/12/2017 7:06:45 AM
I get uncomfortable with the detailed response prior to first meeting...however if there is not a focus on the consideration, I cool. The more explicit it gets, the more likely I am to pass on the meeting. The more focus on consideration which is clearly listed in TER profiles, etc the more likely I am not to even respond to the email. Add both those variables together...I am peace out.
I really do understand that he just wants you to know what it is he likes, expects, desires...but I do like like to reinforce his swag in this direction as it can be harmful for both of us. Men need to understand that they are setting themselves up doing this kind of thing prior to meeting.