Over the past few months my personal trainer has made comments about becoming a provider, I have let most of them go by and never told her that I partake in this hobby...
She's a super fit/bikini model type and I think she could do very well but I am torn- I am nervous about revealing my involvement/knowledge about the industry to help her because I am so private but at the same time I am worried that she might seek out an agency or backpage and get herself started in the wrong way and potentially endanger herself.
Any one have any ideas or suggestions? We are supposed to have lunch today and not sure what to do, act like I have a "friend" who is a provider and offer some tips and directives towards sites like TER? Or go full disclosure and take on a "mentor" role teaching her everything from screening to reviews to acronyms?
I did help a very good friend enter the Hobby about a year ago (Holly Davis) but she was someone I knew for years and as a swingers lifestyle playmate of mine I knew she would be a great fit for the industry and she had some knowledge base to build upon, my trainer would be starting totally from scratch.
hmmmm...
You mean I have to pay HIM for sex? Oh nevermind then!!
You did get me into this!!! LOL, its all your fault and I have loved every moment of it!
That's a tough one, Carly! I also have a vanilla friend who's made comments over the past year but, I have held my tongue.. Maybe we can chat more about this next week at the wine party??
Do you suppose in her research she may have stumbled across your profile/ad and is having the conversation with you because she may recognize you?
Your trainer is a little bi or at least intrigued by watching you work out. I know that you turn women on just like men because I've read your reviews. Maybe she wishes you were a provider. Maybe she has discovered your TER profile and wonders if it's you are Curvy Coed Carly.
If the maybes turned into yeses and she asked you for a date would you go against your policy of not seeing locals? Would you stop being a provider? For all of our sakes, even those you won't see, I hope the last answer is no.
My advice is do not tell. People gossip and talk. It could bite you on the ass later in life if you ever wanted a different career. I have ONE really good friend that I tell my secrets too. I tell him in case something ever happens to me. Otherwise I'm tight lipped.
She's a super fit/bikini model type and I think she could do very well but I am torn- I am nervous about revealing my involvement/knowledge about the industry to help her because I am so private but at the same time I am worried that she might seek out an agency or backpage and get herself started in the wrong way and potentially endanger herself.
Any one have any ideas or suggestions? We are supposed to have lunch today and not sure what to do, act like I have a "friend" who is a provider and offer some tips and directives towards sites like TER? Or go full disclosure and take on a "mentor" role teaching her everything from screening to reviews to acronyms?
I did help a very good friend enter the Hobby about a year ago (Holly Davis) but she was someone I knew for years and as a swingers lifestyle playmate of mine I knew she would be a great fit for the industry and she had some knowledge base to build upon, my trainer would be starting totally from scratch.
hmmmm....
Tell her about The Internet Escorts' Handbook. Its a real book with genuinely excellent advice about virtually all aspects of n escorting in the 21st century.
You can tell her you came across it on the web(which will be absolutely true..lol)
Hope this is helpful Carly! Wish I could be a fly on the wall at your lunch ...!