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Newbies should know to not rely strictly on provider profiles. Remember, the profile . . .
keystonekid 114 Reviews 436 reads
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was set by the first reviewer and often is not updated.

Much better to read several recent reviews. If the 'juicy details" are consistent then the reviews should be reliable. If in doubt or if the reviews are not consistent, you can always PM a reviewer(s) to get more information. We are here to help each other.

If you don't have TER VIP, you my as well being playing blind because you can't read the details and you can't PM.  

olsenjimmy1233 reads

I maybe should have asked these on the newbie faq but figured that since the only place I will be hobbying is vegas, best to ask here [we moved it -Admin]-  feel free to pm me if you dont want your answers public..

my trip is still months away and while originally, i was thinking fbsm/  massage only, I might be looking to expand that..I have never done this before, and I'm just considering all options..

1)  if i was only looking for cbj when bbbj is offered, do ladies get offended and thus not want to do covered?  
(any responses, please don't reply that bbbj is better so why would i want covered, etc- i know bbbj is better)

2)  who generally provides the covers?  the guy or girl?

thanks

About safety but don't be offended if she doesn't want to. For me it is a NO. A hard no. I do not like latex taste or fake flavored covers. It's not enjoyable for me and would drastically lower any review I may get lol. But I always provide the covers for other play. Not an issue there. Nothing wrong with asking for covered. I do a wonderful relaxation massage when in town if you wanna try something new.

Best of luck
Maddy

she "forgets". It does happen, but I would assume if you see a well reviewed lady, it wouldn't/

Best to "cover" all your bases.

I won't do Cbj unless it is certain condoms. Might want to let her know that discreetly ahead of time, in case she wants to pick up better tasting ones. Be careful how you mention it though.

Posted By: olsenjimmy
I maybe should have asked these on the newbie faq but figured that since the only place I will be hobbying is vegas, best to ask here [we moved it -Admin]-  feel free to pm me if you dont want your answers public..  
   
 my trip is still months away and while originally, i was thinking fbsm/  massage only, I might be looking to expand that..I have never done this before, and I'm just considering all options..  
   
 1)  if i was only looking for cbj when bbbj is offered, do ladies get offended and thus not want to do covered?  
 (any responses, please don't reply that bbbj is better so why would i want covered, etc- i know bbbj is better)  
   
 2)  who generally provides the covers?  the guy or girl?  
   
 thanks

What brand do you use?

Posted By: AlexandraMilw
she "forgets". It does happen, but I would assume if you see a well reviewed lady, it wouldn't/  
   
 Best to "cover" all your bases.  
   
 I won't do Cbj unless it is certain condoms. Might want to let her know that discreetly ahead of time, in case she wants to pick up better tasting ones. Be careful how you mention it though.
Posted By: olsenjimmy
I maybe should have asked these on the newbie faq but figured that since the only place I will be hobbying is vegas, best to ask here [we moved it -Admin]-  feel free to pm me if you dont want your answers public..  
     
  my trip is still months away and while originally, i was thinking fbsm/  massage only, I might be looking to expand that..I have never done this before, and I'm just considering all options..  
     
  1)  if i was only looking for cbj when bbbj is offered, do ladies get offended and thus not want to do covered?    
  (any responses, please don't reply that bbbj is better so why would i want covered, etc- i know bbbj is better)  
     
  2)  who generally provides the covers?  the guy or girl?  
     
  thanks

Trojan of any sort... although the bare skin one seems to be a favorite as it is thinner than most.

Magnum, Durex. I am ok with most condoms, those are just the ones I mainly have.

As far as ones for CBJ, the fuck if I know. They all taste like shit to me. lol. Pour some chocolate on them and it isn't as bad or some flavored lube.  

Never Hex or lambskin.

Posted By: NaughtyMaddy
What brand do you use?
Posted By: AlexandraMilw
she "forgets". It does happen, but I would assume if you see a well reviewed lady, it wouldn't/  
     
  Best to "cover" all your bases.  
     
  I won't do Cbj unless it is certain condoms. Might want to let her know that discreetly ahead of time, in case she wants to pick up better tasting ones. Be careful how you mention it though.
Posted By: olsenjimmy
I maybe should have asked these on the newbie faq but figured that since the only place I will be hobbying is vegas, best to ask here [we moved it -Admin]-  feel free to pm me if you dont want your answers public..    
       
   my trip is still months away and while originally, i was thinking fbsm/  massage only, I might be looking to expand that..I have never done this before, and I'm just considering all options..    
       
   1)  if i was only looking for cbj when bbbj is offered, do ladies get offended and thus not want to do covered?    
   (any responses, please don't reply that bbbj is better so why would i want covered, etc- i know bbbj is better)    
       
   2)  who generally provides the covers?  the guy or girl?    
       
   thanks

triage290 reads

what would be the motive for a provider forgetting condoms? are you saying they try to avoid having sex, or are you saying they want bareback?

-- Modified on 2/18/2017 3:18:36 AM

Life. Life happens and people forgett. Does there always has to be some ulterior motive?

Posted By: triage
what would be the motive for a provider forgetting condoms? are you saying they try to avoid having sex, or are you saying they want bareback?

-- Modified on 2/18/2017 3:18:36 AM

triage314 reads

if you read the post I was responding to, the term "forgets" was used, in quotation marks

Sometimes they do forget or maybe they didn't have a sufficient quantity.  If a guy has his own, it would be wise that he not open the box.  

The time you should be concerned about is when she has little or no reviews and you're TOFTT.  Perfect scenario for a Grab-N-Dash if you're not careful.  

Any guy or gal willing to do BBFS in this world is foolish, an idiot and a danger to everyone else.  

Another and then what? She might end up doing bareback?  Or no FS?  Either way it's no good.  I've never forgotten or not had condoms.

Having  your own condoms is a really good idea if some providers are not bringing them.

I've read complaints on the TER boards of gals (BP or even a few TER gals) over the years of not bringing condoms or saying they "forgot" and walk out the door to "get them" with the fee in hand. Ripoff/Rob.  

To be fair, I did once forget them in the car and I left the money inside while I went to get the condom. Shit happens.

Posted By: triage
what would be the motive for a provider forgetting condoms? are you saying they try to avoid having sex, or are you saying they want bareback?

-- Modified on 2/18/2017 3:18:36 AM

dipstick50404 reads

Like others have said, I would bring my own supplies.  You may also want to seek out non-GFE providers if you only want covered BJs.  The majority of the non-GFE providers will only do covered blow jobs.  Most providers will have this in their profiles or you can read this in their reviews.

was set by the first reviewer and often is not updated.

Much better to read several recent reviews. If the 'juicy details" are consistent then the reviews should be reliable. If in doubt or if the reviews are not consistent, you can always PM a reviewer(s) to get more information. We are here to help each other.

If you don't have TER VIP, you my as well being playing blind because you can't read the details and you can't PM.  

I personally would not be offended at all. If there is  provider who would get offended by this, she should quit the business....And to be on the safe side, I planned on being the one who provides protection.

Other clients want covered BJ and it's not a problem at all. It's true some condoms have a terrible taste. Some of them make my throat numb and I think it's spermicide, but I know which ones are fine and those are the ones I use for Cbj.

-- Modified on 2/20/2017 6:03:58 PM

temp23575253 reads

I'd do it with a cover and if I'm out I tell them to bring one!

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