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Whitelist really doesn't mean caca to me...
Hpygolky 205 Reviews 723 reads
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I don't ask for it, I see mine (3) and my first reaction is, "How cute". I personally would rather be P411 approved, but maybe that's just me and explains alot.......lol

it matter how many reviews he has? The reason I ask, is when checking out a providers review, I will always checkout the hobbyist review record to see if he is honest with his review or gives every provider 9/10's.  

I have noticed that there are some hobbyist, that have 100+ reviews, but 90% are from AMPs; which don't care about TER. The other thing is that they have 100+ reviews and maybe 1 whitelist from a provider (many years ago) and sometime none; which is strange for 100+ reviews.  

My questions is: What matters most to you if they have a 100+ reviews or the quality (non-AMP) of TER providers they have seen and the percentage or TER providers that have whitelisted them?

Because many gents I see who are ter members do not post reviews.
So it really does not matter to me if he has not written any reviews or if it is a guy who has written 100.
As far as whitelist goes I have posted my stance on that topic here not too long ago.
It does not seem strange to me if a guy has 100+ reviews and has 1 or 2 whitelist current or not.

I am going to verify him regardless the same way I would if he had whitelist or not.
Some guys do not ask for whitelist don't care about it and there are some ladies who don't do it and some who do.
But,I will look at his review history and every now and then I might read a couple of his recent reviews to get a feel for what he likes or dislikes.

I generally don't like to expose what went on during my private moments so I keep them hidden.  Haven't written a review in like 6 months though. I can afford to pay for vip lo

That would work fine I just dont know how to see your whitelist if you don't have a review page. Also not sure how to give a white list to someone without a review page.

The same way providers accept p411?  Seems a lot of girls want more than just ter white lists these days while a p411 is a one step  breeze.  

Anyway there's an option in the reviews tab where you can search whitelist by TER handles.  

Click on the tab that says REVIEWS - > SEARCH - > SEARCH WHITELISTS

Put in the ter handle

Oh thank you! That works. Wow! You have a lot of white listings. Yes. That would suffice for me without the P-411.  
Like I was saying before it is all just pieces of the puzzle. Everyone has their own methods.

Interesting.  I've actually never used whitelists as my primary verification before despite being around since 2009 or so.  

Is it the number of whitelists or the credibility of the providers who gave the whitelists that make the whitelist more trustworthy... I guess both?  

In that case, that means having plenty of recent whitelists are just as good as an equivalent number of p411 OKs since they work on the same principle.  

Actually, I've never given out my TER handle over the years except to a tiny amount of providers I felt were trustworthy. It's only recently that I stopped caring about hiding my TER handle during verification. I realized that it usually works to my advantage (some actually are happy to see me lol) and the girls who are dumb enough to think that I actually show up piss-drunk to a session or, worse, take any of my postings too seriously, etc, are the ones missing out on a nice guy who has his shit together in his civvie life who would've possibly become a very frequent regular loyal client.

I have seen a couple of gents who are ter members who do not write reviews but have whitelists.
Nothing odd about that many pay for VIP and don't write reviews.

Sometimes I do for select ladies, but it's all hidden. :)  Nobody's business except mine and the girl's.  Almost all my reviews are very solid though: 9, 10, 9, 10, some 11, 12 if I could give them. ROFL  I am either bit less picky than those nit picky ass guys, a bit of an easy scorer, or only see those who are very pretty. Probably a combination of all 3 with heavy emphasis on seeing only those I find very hot.  

Scoring is quite simple in my book. My rule of thumb is, if the girl looks like her photos, I give an automatic minimum of 9 cuz that's the type I like to spend time with. If she's as just as hot or hotter in person as she is in her photos, then a 10. If she's not exactly drop dead gorgeous but I still find myself very attracted to her looks, then that means she's doing something right and possibly still a 10.

Performance , I have less control over since we must follow TER rules which is limited by her menu. If she went above and beyond my expectations though, then well it's only fair she gets the highest possible score for her max limit.  

IMO, sometimes it seems dumb and mean to score people though but considering we're on a review site, that's probably not the best thing for me to say. lo

Verify and screening no matter what he has. I am with Jaydalee on this one!

I personally do not like LOUD hobbyist. Those few gents that post for the heck of it everyday to most any post. I also find it Unattractive to have randomly high reviews. To me it looks as though the gent is using it as a sport. I appreciate a gent whom is selective and low volume.. just as they appreciate the same from me

Go to account manager an you'll see that you have the option to NOT show your white list. So don't assume it's strange to have 100 reviews or more and not have any white list references.

Why would you want to hide your white list?  
It is just as strange to me that you would hide it as if you didn't have any.

I don't ask for it, I see mine (3) and my first reaction is, "How cute". I personally would rather be P411 approved, but maybe that's just me and explains alot.......lol

Well not caring (doesn't mean caca) and proactively having them hidden are 2 different things.  
While I agree a p-411 OK is better, white listings hold weight with me too.  
I do take note that you have seen 103 ladies and only 3 of them liked you enough to white list you. It doesn't disqualify you in any way at all. it just contributes to the total image of your profile. In fact, three white listings is plenty when it comes to screening (for me). It is just something that cause me to look a little deeper

It's not that only three of them liked him enough...take me for example. I get screened via P411 and see a provider.  They don't know my TER handle, so when I write a review of them, unless I specifically take the time to send a whitelist request, they won't automatically whitelist me.  On the other hand, I usually try to send a P411 OK request to providers I have seen and to me it seems duplicative to also ask for a whitelist.  Early on I used to ask for white lists but now I have stopped so it's been about a year since my last whitelist was given.  

Posted By: Heathergfe
Well not caring (doesn't mean caca) and proactively having them hidden are 2 different things.    
 While I agree a p-411 OK is better, white listings hold weight with me too.  
 I do take note that you have seen 103 ladies and only 3 of them liked you enough to white list you. It doesn't disqualify you in any way at all. it just contributes to the total image of your profile. In fact, three white listings is plenty when it comes to screening (for me). It is just something that cause me to look a little deeper.  
 

I am the same way.  I have way more P411 OKs than whitelist referrals.  And I use P411 for primary screening so it works for me.  The whitelist hasnt counted for much for me...

Posted By: hpygolky
I don't ask for it, I see mine (3) and my first reaction is, "How cute". I personally would rather be P411 approved, but maybe that's just me and explains alot.......lol

I don't require that clients be reviewers or even TER members.  Whitelisting is something I do for gents because I know it can be helpful for them when attempting to schedule with certain other ladies. I don't use whitelists or number of reviews written to screen, although the content of the reviews can be very telling as to the gent's personality & our possible compatibility or lack thereof.

If the guy has lots of reviews & no whitelists it makes you wonder why...

I try to read a few of his most recent reviews to see if we may have chemistry.

Id rather see some one who likes to spend time with a few select ladies over a period of time than a man who has tons of reviews. More of a chance for a repeat client that way. Which is what all use providers want :) But yes to answer your question I do read his reviews and how he rates the girls he has seen.

White list are very few, so if I counted only on them I would miss out on a lot! Reviews, it gives you an idea of what type of personality you are going to be dealing with, if they review. If no review, some people like privacy more than others maybe. That's not grounds to not see them.  There are other ways of accepting or declining a potential date.

I look at the reviews and also see the providers sites and see what his thoughts were on them. If I see someone who has several reviews with low scores but I see beautiful ladies and other great reviews it does raise red flags for me. I also contact a few of them to see what their thoughts were on the experience with the gentlemen. White listing him also helps me in my screening. Hope that helps!

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I've been with a number of ladies on this board and I stopped doing reviews a while ago.  There are way too many fake reviews on here that I take them all with a grain of salt.

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